about

I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

what is it?? like ive heard of thme but what are they??

It can be two things:


A tanktop.


Or a man who physically beats his wife.

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okeh. so i absolutely LOVE advicenators! but what are some other good advice sites? (just in case i need a little more answers!)
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Yahoo! Answers.

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Ok I am soooo obsessed with T.I. and Soulja Boy. They are rappers, and I have everything that is related to them. I want to meet them sooo bad! When T.I. came to my town, I didn't know he was coming so I didn't get to go. And that was his only show that he did that was for all ages. And when Soulja Boy came, I was grounded. Does anyone know a good way to meet one of them?? Please help!!

Go on their MySpaces, check their show listings. When you see they're coming to your town, buy your tickets ahead of time & get backstage passes.


Then you stay out of trouble so you can go to the shows. It's not a very difficult thing to do...

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Like He would
For the good


who's He? why is it in capital?

By "He" they mean God.

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okay, well i'm not asking how to dress or look punk, because that would defeat the purpose of doing so, however i was wondering if anybody knew any really good websites that have examples of punk fashion, escpecially punk hairstyles? any clothing sites or sites that have good pictures would be very much appreciated, or any suggested hair or clothing styles would be nice as well. thank you.

You can get the clothes from:

- Hot Topic.
- H&M.
- Wet Seal.
- Rue 21.
- Pac Sun.
- Zumies.
- Rainbow.
- Lola.
- Charlotte Russe.


You can buy clothes from any store & make them "punk." If you want to look at punk hairstyles, just Google them.

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me and my boyfriend have been having sex for 3 weeks almost 4 times a week, i am now feeling dizy, fitgued, feverish, and my boobs have been killing me and are getting bigger. Im not sure if i am sick or i am getting pregant. When will it be a good time to take a pergnancy test so i can see if i am [my age is not important u will just judge me anyway.]

...When you miss your period?


Next time, use protection so we can avoid questions like this.

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hi, i tried weed for the first time from this guy. i asked for £10 ($20ish) worth, and he said i could get two rolled bigheads, and the rest un-rolled. ok so i get it today, and he just gives me two joints! i asked where the rest was and he said that there wasnt any left over. the joints were about an index finger long, and i only got two.Did i get ripped off? i had paid him beforehand so i couldnt exacly pay him less.

If you got two joints at an index finger measurement, I'm pretty sure you didn't get ripped off. Now, maybe you have small hands, but my index finger is pretty big & there's a lot of weed in those two joints.


However, if you don't like his service you either stop doing drugs, or you buy from someone else.

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ive had sex around ten times, but i've never orgasmed during sex. ive heard that if you are on the bottom you wont orgasm, so is that true?

I've had sex and I'm almost always on the bottom. There was probably one time where I wasn't. Anyways, I was on bottom & I orgasmed, so no, it's not true.


There's a lot of women who can't orgasm through sex, so maybe try other ways to.

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Ok so i just started highschool and i've gotton off to like a REALLY bad start, its only been 3 weeks, and i'm like failing all my classs! I don't know how either! and i do ask for the teachers for help but it still doesnt help me! ughh. Highschool is just so different from middle school and like ive NEVER EVER gotton a D or an F on a report card and i dont want to start now, and im in all basic clases, so what im asking is do you know any good study skills that could help me, and i have soccer on tuesdays and thursdays from 5:30-7:30

so that would be a big help! and this is highschool and it like REALLY counts! please pleast please help me! im so stressed out right now!

Do you have any older brothers or sisters? If so, ask them about the teachers & see if they had them. That's what I did. My brother has had most of my teachers, so every year he looks over my schedule & tells me things about each teacher & gives me ways to pass their class & do good in it. If you have an older brother or sister, do what I do & see if it helps you.


When you don't have soccer, stay after for extra help [yes, even on a Friday]. Your teachers don't mind helping you. That's what they're there for. If what they're saying doesn't really help, ask one of your friend's for help. Chances are, they'll understand it & might even be able to explain it better than the teacher. When a teacher couldn't explain something to me so I'd understand it, I'd ask a friend & I ended up getting it when my friends explained it. Try that out too.


Also, how is your work space when you do your homework & study? Are you near the computer, tv or radio? Are you near food or are you somewhere noisy where people are gonna bother you? If so, get from those spaces! Those are all the wrong places to be when doing you're homework. When you're going to do your homework, go somewhere quiet where you know you won't be bothered. Don't turn on the tv, radio or computer. Don't turn on your ipod, and don't work near food. Maybe go outside & sit on your porch & do homework. I usually do my homework on the deck of my pool because it's calming & really quiet. I can actually concentrate that way. If you need to find a space to do homework, try a living room that doesn't get used often [some families have two living rooms, I do], or sit in your room. Also, do your homework as soon as you get home. And when you don't get something, at least try it before you give up. Teachers like to see the fact that you tried. If you don't try, they can't help & it gets them frustrated. Another thing - when you get to school, check the class to see if they're in there. If they are, ask for help then. It's good to ask during class as well because you could be asking a question another student has, but it's nice to get it cleared up sooner than class that way if you have a studyhall you can do it then with no problems.


I hope that helped. =)

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me and this guy louis started talkin today about nothin......mostly just random stuff.......then my friend brandi told us that we should get together but we just looked at each other like "no way"! then he said instead of me and him, i should go out with brandon my othr friend who was sittin right next to him, all of a suddon brandon said "hey dani do you want to go out with me?" i just looked at him in shock his face got really red so i laughed cuz i thought he was joking then he said hey well he's the one who said we should.....but i never answered him or even asked him if he was for real i wish i had cuz ive had a crush on him since like forever!!!!! im gonna see him again on monday so........does anyone have any suggestions of how i can find out if he was for real about it or not????

You said that your relationship with Brandon is good right? Then just come out & say it on Monday. Just ask him if he was serious about asking you out, or if he was just doing it because someone said you guys should.


If he was actually serious, then go out with him since you like him. There's no point in not dating him if you like him.

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Okay
My boyfriend cheated on me a while ago after we had been together for over a year.
It killed me to know that i had put my whole self into that relationship and he just couldn't be loyal.
We kept talking, don't ask me why, and i watched what i thought was him changing, and maturing.
So i took him back, and we've been together again now for about 2 months.
I love him with all i've got, and i want to make this work more than anything.
But i just can't trust him.
I get jealous when he's around other girls, and i get paranoid when he's out with friends, (some being girls) and i'm not there.
I don't want to be that annoying, obsessive, scary girlfriend, but i can't help it. The pattern is starting to repeat. He's acting like he did when he was cheating the first time.
I don't know if it's just me being paranoid, but i just can't find a way to trust him. No matter how much i want to. I don't know how to talk to him, because for some reason, IM scared of breaking HIS heart. And i don't know where to go from here...
Sorry if this is too vague,
Any advice would be amazing.
Thanks

I can understand you being paranoid because there simply is no excuse for what your boyfriend did to you. I have cheated [once] & been cheated on, so I know exactly how you feel on both ends.


Paranoia is a very common thing after someone cheats or lies to you. You begin to think that they're doing it all the time & you just don't know about it. You panic, you worry, you get obsessive, scary, even clingy. You also become demanding & awkward. Honestly, it's normal for you to be this way.


Your boyfriend cheated on you & broke your heart & what he did is inexcusable. He's lucky that you gave him a second chance because you honestly could've told him to go fuck himself. Really though, you need to sit down & have a talk with him. The thing that confuses me though; why in the hell should you be scared to break his heart? Think about it. Was he scared to break your's? Did he even consider how you'd feel when you found out, did he even think about you when he did it? Break his heart, stomp on it if you have to. He did it to you & he wasn't scared to, so why should you be?


Just talk to him & tell him how you feel. If you break his heart, so what? He needs to hear this & know what he did & how you feel. If you don't tell him, you're going to create more problems within yourself & you're going to be miserable forever. So I suggest you spill your heart out.

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Hey I know people dont like myspace questions,
but i need a new myspace name;

like a good qoute anything
please help!

Use your name, or use a nickname your friends/family have given you.

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Dear Advice Giver,
My best friend has a new boyfriend. She really thinks a lot of him, and they spend a lot of time together. My friend barely has enough time for me anymore. I don’t think he’s good enough for her, either, but I’m afraid to say anything. What should I do?
-Rejected

I've been through this with probably all of my friends & some of my family members. Whenever someone gets a new boyfriend/girlfriend, this is something you need to expect & get used to [unless that person is usually good with keeping a balance].


I'll share my most recent experience with you. My cousin met a girl, and they started dating last year. They spent all their time together, and he changed a lot. Whenever she was around, he acted stuck up, and he just couldn't be himself. He wasn't goofy, nor was he normal as jokey as he used to be. He was serious, uptight & it really bothered me that he couldn't be how he normally would be. If he even made a joke or did something funny, she'd snap at him & tell him to act his age. Now, you'd think he'd dump the bitch or at least set her straight, but he listened to her & the changes never stopped. Now they're engaged & their wedding is actually next week. Sometimes, I don't even see him for months at a time. Whenever I invite him somewhere because the family is going out [we're a really close family], he makes up an excuse not to come. Sometimes she doesn't feel good, sometimes he just wants to stay home, or sometimes she just doesn't wanna go out. Either way, it's annoying for him to keep ditching us.


Eventually, I got sick of the bullshit [as did everyone else] & I decided to voice my opinion. I spoke up for myself, and for the family. However, that was a mistake because my family ended up ganging up on me saying I put words in their mouth [even though I didn't], and it just ended in drama. My cousin even told me that if I didn't apologize to his fiance, I wasn't to come to the wedding. I to this day have not apologized simply because I won't mean it, and I'm not going to say sorry if I don't mean it. I don't throw around serious phrases like that, and I don't really take them lightly. He's forgotten what he said to me, either that or he thinks I said sorry.


Anyways, moral of my story: Don't tell her how you feel. You could have known someone your whole life, but once you tell them the truth about how you feel about a situation, they either get pissed & ditch you, or they just stop talking to you. Me & my cousin are okay now, and I'm still attending his wedding [even against my wishes], but if you don't want unncessary drama, I suggest you keep to yourself.


If you decide that keeping to yourself is too much & you think she needs to hear this for her own good, then tell her. Tell her that you feel she doesn't come around as much and that he might not be good enough for her. However, when you tell her these things; give specific reasons of when she's made plans & ditched, or broken plans, or just made excuses to hang out or else your argument won't be valid. Same deal for reasons why he isn't good enough.


So this is the tossup; you can tell her & hope she understands & hears you out, or you can keep to yourself & avoid an argument. However, if you guys have been friends for a while, she should understand where you're coming from & hopefully she'd do this for you if it ever came down to it. Good luck!

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ok so im white, and i HATE IT! but in the summer time i can tan so i dont mind it so its okay, but now that its almost winter time im getting really white again and its annoying as hell! and halloween is coming up and well all my friends and i are dressing slutty and it shows my legs and well my legs are really white and stuff and my my friends are all pretty tan so anyways my question is what is a good way to look semi tan with out going to like a tanning bed because like if i went to a tanning bed you could TOTTALY tell i went and that would be tottaly embarressing because one day i would be pale and then the next day i would be tan and i dont want indoor tanning stuff unless it like ACTUALLY WORKS! and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEE let it work because i had the worst experience with indoor tanning stuff, please help me i hate being white, it makes my self confidence go down so much! and i dont know what to do to make my self look tan! and there is so sun in the winter!

Who cares if you look like you went tanning? As long as you're happy with how tan you are, who cares how you did it?


Just tan in a tanning bed because you want to & because you want to feel good about your skin tone. Don't not tan because you're afraid people will tell.

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i dont know what yo domy bf want to have sex but i dont want to do i just tell him?

Tell him you're not ready. If he doesn't respect your decision, then he probably doesn't respect you at all, so your best bet would be to leave him.

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ok so me and this guy hooked up for like a week mabye 2 right after me and this other guy ( who i really really really liked ) stop talking to each other. so obviously i was a little depressed and everything and a few days ago the new guy kept asking me like what do you want out of this and im like give me time and hes like ill wait as long as it takes blah blah blah he tells everyone he really likes me.well yesterday i found out hes calling me a slut and he found out that the last boy was an asshole to me so he was like mabye if i treat her like an ass hole shell like me more. so i comfronted him about it last night and hes like i dont want to deal with your drama and walked away. i cried for like a minute and then i was just really mad at him for thinking he could get away with what he said. what should i do? and do you think im sad about loosing him or just mad at him??

Well you hooked up with him & then blew him off for someone you liked even though the guy you liked treated you like shit.


I'd say he had every right to call you a slut. And by the way, posting this question twice won't get you more answers, so please stop posting it.

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well mark has this one stuff on his nose, it looks like it hurts him..and he floats at the top of his bowl..i read some stuff and it could mean he is lacking oxygen

but also he is spitting white stuff from his mouth

and i have no idea what to do :(

I agree with Camille. There probably isn't anything you can do so you should just let him die even if it hurts. You can always get a new fish. Fish don't usually live that long anyways.

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Does anyone watch it?
do you think it is fake?
like sometime i do
and why are people play chrissy from myspace
like makeing a fake site?

and stuff

Yes I watch it. It probably is fake, but who cares? It's entertaining. & people make fake MySpaces because they have no lives.


The end.

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sorry, shouldve added this to the first question.
what's the last song played in the episode that goes "we are broken"

It might've been We Are Broken by Paramore, but I honestly would have to see the episode to know what song you mean.

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im having a party next saturday for my 18th. Alot of people are going to be there i have to look so cute and i dont know what to wear or where to shop. I want to look sexy but also cute. If anyone has any ideas it help thanksss

You can shop at stores like:


- Wet Seal.
- Rue 21.
- 5-7-9.
- Hollister.
- AE.
- A&F.
- Charlotte Russe.
- H&M.


Places like that will have the clothes you're looking for.

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