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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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For the past 3 years I have been walking home its al been safe and no one ever got hurt, untill today....
My sister (Shes 12 and in 5th grade) was walking hom with her boyfriend (same age as kate) like any other day and the light was green but no cars were comming so as kate waited for the light to turn red her boyfrined darted acoross the road for no cars were comming, it that short of time someone turned out of a parking lot a couple yards away and turned and hit the little boy, My little sister saw the accident and heard the band of the TRUCK hit the little boy flinging him and then stoped a couple feet away from where his body layed. He was life flighted to a hospital because he was bleeding and complaning about his back hurting. My sister has calmed down after being REALLLY upset and crying none stop for an hour shes not home right now shes with my dad and i want to know. Is he going to be okay? Hes little ., Whats the chance of his surviving? IT SCARES ME SOO MUCH BECAUSE IF SHE WOULD OF FOLLOWED HIM SHE WOULD BE IN MY SHOES,
also my best friend and sister always say that i am a "mother hen" and make fun of me because if a car isnt slowing down fast enough evne during a red light or if i even think a car is going to be too close i will hold them bakc with my arms ... and then today.. I am sick to my stomich!


PLEASE ANWER!!!
THANKS SOO MUCH

Im very sorry and ill pray for him to be safe.. but their are chances and chances of him not linving.. im not sure what else is wrong with him.. sometimes theres moments when people think somebody will survive and then for some unknown reason their gone.. but he has a severe concussion so im not sure sometimes they come out of it and sometimes they dont.. but just pray and hope.. by the way tell me if he's okay cause thats horrible to happen a baby... hope i helped or answered your question... ♥

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so if i'm fooling around with a girl in my hot tub and we're NOT having sex, but like she gets me off with her hand or orally, can she get pregnant from the sperm floating around in the water? the jets are pretty powerful and could possibly float it into her. how likely is it and *sigh* do i HAVE to wear a condom? thanks..

i think the chances of a girl gettin pregnant are rare i think you have no worries..

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Ohkay, I have a very weird problem. I can't put on eye liner! I always mess up! Any tips?

Keep practicing.. putting eyeliner on top of your eyeliner is really hard try pulling your eye to the side like an asian person and put it on..*thats if your having trouble putting on top*
now on the bottom alot of people have trouble keeping their eye open to put it on and their eyes water but eventually you'll get used to that if thats the problem.. some people put eyeliner under their bottom eyelashes instead of the inner eyelashes.. so you could try that if you'd like.. much luv dez ♥

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what are some good hair dye products that last long? i tried dyeing my hair a dark brown but it faded(to a light brown) in barely 3 weeks. Suggestions?

Nice and easy.. its great..

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I dance everyday for two and a half hours and seeing as I'm so used to the routine I don't get tired that quickly.
I was sick last week and had to take a week off dancing and I did my dancing today but after an hour I was really hot and bothered, tired and had a headache.
Is it because of my week off or something else?
and if it's because of my week off is there anyway I can get back into my routine?

its cause you took a week off.. just keep doing it and it wont be a bother youll get used to it again... ♥

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What is herpes?
I've heard of it but I never really knew what it was;
and how do you get it?

hey herpes is a sexually transmitted disease.. you always have it..its not exactly cureable but you cant die from it.. a cold sore is another form of herpes.. you get it from oral and unprotected sex..

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Okay i know that all scary movies are fake and stuff. It's just that at night when I'm in my bed i always think about the grudge, freddy, jason, micheal myers, and all that stuff. And i don't know how to stop thinking about it. And one time I was at a party and I did Bloody Mary which scared the crap at of me. And after i did it I got so scared i had to sleep with my parents for like 5 months and at school someone would have to come to the bathroom with me(not in the same stall though) But anyways.. I don't know how to not be scared any more.. Does anyone have ideas?

i dont think you should watch or do any scary shit...your apparently childish and not mature for some fun.. so i think stay away from scary movies.. ♥ Dez

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I'm a 15 year old girl, he's 17. We both like eachother. But he's not sure if he wants to go out with me. He's worried about our age difference since he's turning 18 in like 5 months. Even then we'll have 2 years between us still. He's told my friend that he does want to go out with me, but he's concerned about the age thing. Should I just give up on him, or still try to hook up with him? Help? :)

Well i wouldnt give up just tell him how you feel about it and how age is just a number ♥

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a lot of guys who haev asked me out say i play hard to get reeeaaalllllyyyy bad. i cant help it. i dont want to come off as easy , i want to give them a challenge to see how long the stick around before they give up. i still want to be hard to get but im scared that it will drive soem of thebest guys away. what should i do 15/F/MA

If they really like you they'll stick around til you come around and go with you.. if they dont stick around most likely all they wanted was some ass.. keep doin what your doin i respect ya completely.. much luv dez x0x0

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Hi, I'm in 8th grade and about to graduate, I really like this boy and I wanted him to ask me to our last dance. Every time I'm around him I can never get the nerve to talk to him. What should I do?

get a friend to ask him for you.. or write it in a letter.. most likely write a letter so he knows your not a complete loser

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I wanted to know where you can get a good bra...it doesnt matter the price unless it is over $100. I have to start using the right kind...
Thank-you
Liz

Victoria Secret

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my Boyfirend is a complete sex ADDICT! This is the first guy I have actually had true feelings for! I have known him since I was 7 and I have liked him since. We started goin out 3 months ago and we made out the first night. We have madeout countless times now and I SO LOVE HIM!but, he has boners all the time when I'm leaning on him. and he was kinda humping me last time we were makin out.TOday, he was askin me all these questions like, DO U LIKE IT HARD? DO U WANT TO BE ON TOP? I AM A VIRGIN CATHOLIC and i love him so don't say break up with him! I am only 14 and I don't want to risk pregnancy!

just tell him your feelings about the whole thing and why you dont want to have sex.. and all the things you think about and worry about.. a guy can think when his dick is hard.. much luv dez x0x0

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Well heres the thing..

Sex..

im completely ready but im scared that the condom will break and ill end up pregnant!

any advice on the subject??

thanks

i rate 5's

If your a female get on birth control.. if your a guy tell the girl to get on birth control.. i was the same way so i think if your just going to worry the whole time then you should just wait til you have better protection then a condom.. much luv dez x0x0

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what is it exactly? i am just thats tupid. but i dont know much about it, thanks.

you giving the guy a challege and not just saying okay ill go with you.. you jus make him still want to be with you til you know for sure thats someone you want to go with

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I met up again with a boy I had been talking to online for a while an hadn't seen in a bit. He was totally ecstatic to see me! He gave me the best hug of my life and all. But ever since, our conversations have been duller and there are more gaps. He told me before we met that he was starting to really have a serious crush on me, and I felt so happy because I had liked him for a while. But I can't tell if I did anything wrong or anything. Is he losing interest in me? How can I tell if his crush is growing, shrinking, or not progressing?

If he treats you a totally different way

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hi, im 16/m and me and my gf have been talking about having sex for a really long time but i want to make it special for her. does anyone know any good positions or things i can do to make her feel good or turn her on? i rate high if theres a good answer!! thanks

the regular way for her first time..

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how sure are trojan condoms.. like what percentage??

they work pretty good.. its not 100% but pretty damn close

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Any tips so i could look,well,prettier?
i have fair skin,big brown eyes, long eyelashes,kinda bushy eyebrows :(,medium sized nose,oval face,brown hair,I want a WHOLE make over this summer! but until then,could someone give me tips? thank you!

Um yea those eyebrows would look okay.. maybe wear a little bit of make up too.. like get a shde darker then your skin complextion in foundation or press powder to put more color to your skin.. keep your hair its color.. i would wear some black eyeliner to bring out your big brown eyes and wear some eye shadow.. dont sound like you need mascara since you have long eyelashes but to make em darker you could wear some.. you could add some highlights if youd like to put more color in your hair.. up too you.. good luck much luv dez x0x0

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I dance hip hop and I'm sick of dancing to the same songs over and over. Does anyone know any good hip hop songs that are danceable?
I don't want just normal hip hop it HAS to be dancebale.
Also; crunk or r&b would do as long as they are fast and dancebale.

I rate 5's for big lists.

try Ying yang twins *salt shaker..whistle while you twerk..i yi yi.. Lil Jon.. get low.. Ciara..Oh..Goodies..12 step.. Juvenile.. back that ass up.. slow motion.. the game.. how we do.. usher..Yeah Too short..shake that monkey
thats all i could think of.. much luv

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I'm a dancer and covered many different types of dancing and I'm only just getting in to hip hop dancing. I'm repeating moves so I need some new moves.
Are there any movies, music videos or places online where I could get ideas for new moves?
I rate high and especially to people with more than one suggestion.
(and when I said get IDEAS I mean IDEAS I don't copy moves, I reinvent them)

Don't say these music videos:
Usher - Caught Up
Ciara - Oh
Ciara - 1, 2 Step
Ciara - Goodies

Don't say these movies:
You Got Served
Honey

Try other usher videos.. um destiny child videos.. i think sean paul has cute dances in his videos.. and movies maybe save the last dance.. much luv dez x0x0

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