a lot of guys who haev asked me out say i play hard to get reeeaaalllllyyyy bad. i cant help it. i dont want to come off as easy , i want to give them a challenge to see how long the stick around before they give up. i still want to be hard to get but im scared that it will drive soem of thebest guys away. what should i do 15/F/MA
ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 6:03 pm: If they really like you they'll stick around til you come around and go with you.. if they dont stick around most likely all they wanted was some ass.. keep doin what your doin i respect ya completely.. much luv dez x0x0 [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
angel_sarah23 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 5:42 pm: hard to get is so much better then easy!!! way better!! people that r easy get taken for a ride and get messed about very easily theres nothing wrong with the way u r and everyone is different just because u make it a challenge it gives the guys a test ;) to see if there really going to hang around good on ya girl and keep it up ! xXx [ angel_sarah23's advice column | Ask angel_sarah23 A Question ]
Airie answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 5:39 pm: There's nothing wrong with being hard to get. Infact, some boys like the challenge. But if you really like a boy, go for it! You don't want to come off as a cold person, do you? Just try not to be too hard to get. If you think they had enough, and if you like them back, give them a chance. But also, if you don't like a boy, you don't have to go out with them. The worse thing is pretending that you like them when you really don't.I hope I helped!:) [ Airie's advice column | Ask Airie A Question ]
i_define_weird answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 5:25 pm: You do what you feel like you want to do. If you wanna play hard to get, then so be it. It's just how you are. You'll find the right guy. one that wouldn't care if you play hard to get or not. don't be scared to drive some of the good guys away. If you really want to stop yourself from playing hard to get, try saying yes for a change to a guy. See if it works out or not. good luck, and hope i helped. [ i_define_weird's advice column | Ask i_define_weird A Question ]
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