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sex addict! my Boyfirend is a complete sex ADDICT! This is the first guy I have actually had true feelings for! I have known him since I was 7 and I have liked him since. We started goin out 3 months ago and we made out the first night. We have madeout countless times now and I SO LOVE HIM!but, he has boners all the time when I'm leaning on him. and he was kinda humping me last time we were makin out.TOday, he was askin me all these questions like, DO U LIKE IT HARD? DO U WANT TO BE ON TOP? I AM A VIRGIN CATHOLIC and i love him so don't say break up with him! I am only 14 and I don't want to risk pregnancy!
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Girl i kno where you is coming from and im just bout your age if youre unsure you shouldn't do anything ]
Hey tell him that you dont wasnt to have sex all the time. if he really likes you then wont he do what you want him to do?but talk to him if he says that he wants it all the time. he isnt a good boyfriend.he shouldnt pressure you into somethign that you dont want to do!
Love Kim
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well i'm gonna take a more typical guy approach than the other people. it sounds like you've only kissed him. yes, make it clear that you're not gonna have sex and your religion forbids protection anyway, but give the poor guy a break. he's got so much tension built up and he has to go home after you guys fool around and masturbate to release it. give the poor fool a handjob. and it he starts begging for that, tell him you'll stop (threaten). if he keeps begging or asks for more than you're willing to do (oral), send him home. i feel kinda bad for the guy. make sure the virginity issue is clear tho. i know you loved my advice but i'd like to hear you say it and rate me and stuff =) ]
Tell him you're not ready and he has to respect you. You're right you're only 14, and that's to young to think about that kind of stuff. Just talk to him and if he really likes you, trust me he'll wait until you're ready(which I hope isn't until you're married)
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Taniqua's-teen-advice
Illinois, 13(almost 14) ]
The very first thing that you have to do is tell him how you feel.. let him now how far you want to go. If you want to continue to be a virgin then let him know. If he is the right one, then he will respect that. The ones you love should never push you into something you do not want to do... Hope I helped!!
~Linda ]
Sounds like you asked this question about a week or two ago. I think you got enough answers then. QUIT ASKING THE SAME QUESTIONS! ]
Just tell him how you feel and talk to him about it. dont have sex with him if you are not ready for it. ]
just tell him your feelings about the whole thing and why you dont want to have sex.. and all the things you think about and worry about.. a guy can think when his dick is hard.. much luv dez x0x0 ]
TELL HIM! you are too young and its a good thing that u know the consequenes that there is . .u need to talk to him about it! good luck! X0X` ]
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