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How can you tell when guys lose interest?
I met up again with a boy I had been talking to online for a while an hadn't seen in a bit. He was totally ecstatic to see me! He gave me the best hug of my life and all. But ever since, our conversations have been duller and there are more gaps. He told me before we met that he was starting to really have a serious crush on me, and I felt so happy because I had liked him for a while. But I can't tell if I did anything wrong or anything. Is he losing interest in me? How can I tell if his crush is growing, shrinking, or not progressing?
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If he treats you a totally different way
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Just ask him. Sometimes it can be exciting to talk and fantasise about someone you have never met, you build up the person in your mind. The reality can then become a let down, not because the people concerned are not nice and exciting on their own merit but because the fantasies and expectations have become too much. Talk to this guy and just ask outright, it's better to know than always wonder.
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You will know if his crush is shrinking if his answers are like no consideration to your feelings. They aren't nice anymore and not at all entertaining. They're boring and he doesn't care if he'll talk to you once in a blue moon. You'll know if the crush is growing if he makes it to the point that he talks to you everyday or if not everyday then he always finds a way for you talk together. You'll know if the crush is not progressing if it's still the same. He's not getting sweeter and the time he spends with you is still the same.
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I don't believe in internet relationships. Long distance relationships become harder to handle since you two don't have the same friends or even live near eachother. It's probably becuz you two have nothing to really talk about.
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I'm gonna guess it's going to taper off and die. I don't think you did anything wrong, I think maybe he thought you didn't hit it off very good.
I would definitely discuss it with him next time you get the chance...there could be valid reasons, just be prepared just in case okay?
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Well.. not that there is anything wrong with you but he might of. Im not saying he did or didnt and no1 will know but him. I think he still likes you so you shouldnt worry about that. When your converszations start getting boring bring up a new subject. Honestly I would ask him whats going on! ♥
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