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Hello. I have a problem... sort of. Me and my best friend like each other alot, okay? But, we're both girls. We're both afraid of ruining our friendship. But I always feel obliged to kiss her, yet, I never do because I'm scared of the reaction she'll have. But we always get so close to doing it... it's just really starting to bug me. I mean, should I do it anyway? And if I do... how, or even when do I do it? I've never kissed anyone before, so I'm lost.
Thank you in advance anyone who reads this... (link)
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Go for it. Kiss her and if you guys have came pretty close to kissing, than she has probably noticed this too. So, if she hasn't said anything about not wanting to kiss you...then why not? But I agree with the advice below me, you should like ask her if it would be awkward or something, because if she doesn't want to kiss you it would be like....you only kissing her or taking her off guard or something.
Best of luck :]
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i had a dream and in that dream my hair was perfect i loved it i was so disaponted when i woke up this morning but i want to know if any of you know what its call or have a website i can go to so i can see it again so my hair looked like:
I was wearing my hair back in a pony tail (like i always do) but my bangs were diffrent they were all the way down my face and it had it on both sides of my head if you get what im saying
so does anyone know what this is or is it just somthing i dreamed of please help and dont worry if i dont get answers i will just look up hair styles on google thanks if you guys answer PPPEEEAAACCCCEEE OOOUUUTTT (link)
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Maybe this....
http://img.timeinc.net/instyle/images/2006/galleries/050806_240x320_carmen.jpg
Good luckk
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Riiight. This guy.
Another one of those questions.
I have mixed feelings for him.
I think.
Well this is how we are.
I have at least one class with him a day.
I talk to him EVERY DAY
He ALWAYS makes me laugh
We are pretty close
We hug quite a lot
When we're saying bye to each other, we kiss each other on the cheek
We sometimes go on the subway together. And if we do, he usually rides to my stop with me, and then rides three stops back to his stop.
we've never had a fight
We're into the same music and so on
He comes over to me to talk to me.
But I fucking don't know if he likes me, or is just being friendly.
I think he likes someone else..but we never talk about stuff like that..
what's going on?
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I'm pretty positive that he is into you, because if a guy is being friendly, he would just talk to you, and stuff, not hug you a lot or ride all the way to your stop on the subway and then go back 3 stops, I mean, seriously, the guy would have to be EXTREMLY friendly and curtious. So, I'm guessing that he likes you.
So just go with the flow, and hang out with him some more, outside of school. yuh know?
[If you are feeling brave, give him a kiss on the lips instead of the cheeks]
Best of luck and have funn
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My supposed best friends are acting like biotches. For science, every quarter we switch partners. We made a plan, me and 1, 2 and 3,then me and 2, 1 and 3, then me and 3....etc.
The night before we switch when i am with 3, she ims me, when my away says: Out dont im, "hey is it okay if i am with my boyfriend for the third quarter? He asked me, and i dont want to turn him down...sorry!" then signed off! THE NERVE! it was the day before we picked partners and i was sick so i wasnt going to be in school. I was mad at her and she imed me, "are you okay? you seemed mad on saturday" I said, "Well you left me stranded the day before we picked partners, yeah im mad." then walked away
DO i have a right to be mad at her? Thanks in advance! (link)
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You have a right to be pissed, because she shouldn't have ditched you like that for her boyfriend, even though he is probably a big part of her life and obviously wants to spean as much time with him as possible.
BUT, at least she had the decency to ask you if you were mad....but you were totally right by speaking your mind and telling her that you are mad, because sugarcoating the truth wouldn't have been as effective.
However, if I were you, I wouldn't dwell on this for a while because, yeah she was wrong, but she is your friend and she should apologize soon enoough [if she really is sorry]
Although, you are so right for being mad, who wouldn't be? She ditched you, and I know how that feels. Being a third wheel is not fun.
Good luckk
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Does anyone know where I can find a pic of a clown holding an M16? I know it is a wierd question, but it is a long story...lol (link)
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Okay, not exactly an M16, but a gun nonetheless.
http://images.buycostumes.com/mgen/merchandiser/21024.jpg
or maybe this one...
http://www.xiiidesign.com/illo/images/boc_clownwgun.jpg
Uhm yeah. haha.
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hey, does anyone know a site i can get FREE, totally free no charges applied ringtones? (link)
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myxerones.com
--best and no charge, absolutley no charge.
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i think im falling for my best friend!
and im scared to. i mean i have all ways thought he was sooo cute. but know that me and my boyfriend broke up he was like hes must be blind to break up with you your beautiful. he held me for like five minutes while i cried on his shoulder. he took me to the movies the next week but his girlfriend came too:[ but he didnt pay for her he payed for me! i told him not to but he said he needed too.. i didn't know why he had to but all during the movie i would look over and he was holding her hand and i wondered what if that was me what if he held me? his friend Dylan came too. he tried to hold me like Cody was holding his gf..
it made me feel weird bc Cody wouldn't get out of my head. next day he called me and asked me to come over but i was at his gfs house so she came and there was Dylan there..waiting i ran over to give cody a really really big hug and he picked me up..i laughed adn his gf glared at me...
so i get a call from his gf a couple of days ago and she told me to break uuup with him for her soo i did but i broke down in tears bc i couldnt tell him but i did and and he was like ok thank you and when we hung up he said I LOVE YOU it was the first time he had ever said that to me!i was liek cody i love you too....and now i want to go out with him but im scared to go out with him bc i dont want to ruin a friend ship and i went out with one of his best friends and i dont know what that would do to his and my ex's friendship!!! (link)
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If you both love eachother, why not go out? I mean, you guys already pretty much are, so just make it a definite. I mean, if people are gonna bitch and whine about you going out with Cody, then they really weren't your friends in the first place and need to chill. If Cody makes you happy, you should be with him and nobody should come between the both of you. And I'm sure that you and Cody will always be best friends, because you have both been through a lot, which is good because you both must have a lot in common, which is good.
If you don't take chances, you'll never know what you're missing out on, and love is a risk, but it has to be a risk you are willing to take. If you don't go out with Cody, you'll never know what you are missing out on, and he could wind up being your soulmate...
Good luckk! and give Cody a chance, you both deserve to be in a good relationship :]
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13/f
I'm in 8th grade and have a huge crush on this boy. He sits behind me in math and he is very funny, he pulls my hair and jokes around with me too. I have 3 classes with him and he talks to me a lot. I don't really know if he likes me or not. But I told my friends yesterday. We are in a year-round school so we are off this month. So I won't see him valentines day and until March. He talks to other girls too so I am not the only girl that he talks to but as far as I know I'm the one who gets my hair pulled. But I still like him. I think he is funny, so thats not the problem. I really have no idea what to do. Is there any chance that he does like me? I am kinda more of a shy girl so you won't see me going up and talking to him. I usually wait for them to talk to me. I am just confused of what to do. Should I give hints or what? Sorry this was long but please help. Thanks! (link)
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Yeah, there is a HIGH possibility that he likes you, because he playfully pulls your hair, and since he is talking to you a lot, that is also a plus. And you're not the only one who is shy, join the club. So, when I like a guy, I usually just give him some hints. Yuh know? Like I'll wink at him, or giggle and stuff like that. But in class, make sure you talk to him, and maybe [if you are feeling like this is a good idea] ask for his screen name or cell so you can keep in touch with him over your one month break, then he will know you want to talk to him, and go out of your way to say hi :] which is always a good thing.
You'll be fine, just hint to him that you like him, and maybe you could work up the nerve to go and talk to him, because guys like that, a lot.
Have funn and good luckk :]
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OMG i just remebered as i was thinking about what you said considering yours was the best advice out of all of them, but like two weeks ago i had this dream about him and we had this shutdown at out school and the principal let us skate around, and i started skating and then i fell and said oh my geez (which i say a lot. lol) but anyways and then cj was helping me up and he said i love when you say that and he grabbed my hand and led me into the art room which became a huge HUGE skating rink and he sat down and i sat down but he was with his friends and me with mine, and he kept on looking at me and winking. and i have this like huge fear of crickets, and this one like colassal cricket appeared out of no where in the art room and i started screaming and cj ran over and killed it. Then he kissed my forehead and i woke up....
then last night i had a dream that me and him was at school and we was talking there about the game and he was like i saw you, you were right behind me. And i was like yeah. And he was like yeah i was telling the boys that the reason why i done so good was because my good luck charm was there. and i was like really whats that and he was like more of a who and i was like your girlfriend and he was like no you.....
thats all i remember and i know its corny but it like just dawned on me. what could this mean?? (link)
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okay that is just sooooo good that you are having these dreams! It means that you really like him, and you can't get him off of your mind. And like, sometimes my dreams come true, like I'll recieve a test that has a big F on it, and then I'll get an F on the test, legit.
So, I really think that you're mind is trying to tell you something, like you know that you're going to start liking eachother, and that you are just anticipating it.
So, persue him, definetly. :] definetly.
Have funn and if you need anymore advice just ask :]
Have funn with CJ :]
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okay so if he needs to figure it out, then what do i do in the mean time. I dont see though why she would be trying to save me from him, he is a really nice guy, but do i just talk to him or do i leave him alone? Okay this class we have, he is a mentor and it is the most retarded class ever, well one of them anyway, its called freshman focus and it is every thursday. well my friend matt usually gets the group im in because he calls it and he fights it. But the last time cj, as soon as he said four, he just said BAM i got twos. and i was a two. And matt is really smaller than cj. so i dont think he would fight it. haha. and what do you think the disappointing look meant at the game? i didnt catch that part, sorry. haha.
And another thing, how much do you believe in horoscopes? because mine says (reminding you freshman focus is on thursday...):
Love feels out of control on Saturday. Watch spending too. Emotions and logic collide on Sunday. Your braininess brings you admirers on Monday. A miscommunication upsets love on Tuesday or Wednesday. Love is wild and chaotic on Thursday, which is both unsettling and fun. Romance blooms with promise on Friday!
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I totally believe in horoscopes because one time it said I was gonna do extremly bad in math today...and uhm yeah, I did hahaa. :] so be expecting so crazy love on Thursday, maybe from the senior :] hehe
But in the mean time, you should just let him lead and you follow. Keep talking to him and let him figure all of his stuff out, because in the long run, that will help his decision.
You definetly need to keep talking to him, he seems into you, and you never know what can bloom from this friendship thing both of you have going on :]
And the disapointing look at the game probably meant that he was dissapointed that you didn't talk to him. Like, he wanted you to say hi or something, not just like look at him and exchange glances, but actually, verbally, talk to him. yuh know what I'm saying? Cuz guys like that kinda stuff, when a girl works up the nerve to say somehting to him.
And cj fighting for the twos thing was definetly a good sign for you, because you are a two...:]
Any more questions, I'm always here :]
Good luck and have funn
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okay so me and this guy cj well we have been getting to know each other...like friends. But a while back i thought that he liked me because well we never talked and he would just like look at me a lot and he started a paper wad fight with me. But then this past thursday, we was doing this project and he said he had a girlfriend. and there was like 4 people in the group including him, and they all raised their hands but me. and when he raised his hand he kinda looked at me. I cant explain it, it was just like he was trying to tell me something. I didnt know what it was but when he looked at me it was eye contact and i just got this feeling. But anyways, ever since then we have been getting to know each other, like i always talk to him when we are in that class. And like last night i went to an away game with a friend, a basketball game. And he is on the team. and i sat like right behind him, my knee was touching his chair. And he would look at me and smile, and i would smile back (we was like saying hi.) But i didnt talk to him cause i didnt want to take his mind off of the game. and he didnt talk to me. And after we won, me and my friend was standing in the corner trying to get service on our phones. and the team left, but as they were leaving he kinda looked at me then looked down like he was disappointed or something. But we are still like friends. People say that i wouldnt have a chance because he is a senior and im just a freshman, and my friend says that he is ugly and he dont like his personality but everytime i say something about him she says well he told me that he dont like that class....so my question is what do you think about this?? what does everything mean..? (link)
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I think that this guy might like you and that he wants you to talk to him so you can both become mutual friends. You should try getting to know him even more and to see whats up with this guy.
Your friend may or may not be jealous of your growing relationship with this senior, or he/she may just be warning you to back off and find someone else to like.
But the side glances and playful paper throwing is a definite flirtation tactic on his part. I think that there is a high possibility that he can like you more than a friend, but for right now he doesn't know you or trust you completley, so the realtionship between both of you is just friends.
Good luck and if you have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask me :]
He also seems very unsure and confused, let him get his shit together before you start building a stronger relationship with him. He needs to figure out what he wants and needs, so try talking to him, get to know him even better than you already have.
And even though you are a freshmen and he's a senior, that doesn't mean anything! I'm a freshman, and my friend [who is also a freshman] is goin out with a senior, no joke. Actually 2 of my friends are going out with seniors, so don't let your friends bring you down, if you and this guy are meant to be, you will be together. Trust me.
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I'm outgoing, and i'm pretty popular, but i'm not one for parties. Like i don't like when there's tons of people, and everything. I always feel like i have to find a group.
It's not the drinking or anything that's my problem, i just don't like going to huge parties.
BUT I LIKE TO BE LIKE WITH A COUPLE OF FRIENDS.
is that weird? (link)
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nope, not wierd at all...i get the same way...most of the time. I really just dont feel like doing anything big. sometimes, when you push yourself to go, you end up having fun...then you dont feel like doing it again the next time haha :-)
but nope its not wierd at all, so im with you!
hope i helped!
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17/ m
so i saw my ex and her new boyfriend this week and i was with my new girlfriend and it was just a weird feeling like all my feelings for my ex came rushing back. and when i got home i noticed her away message was the lyrics to the song walk away by paula deanda. and i was wondering if there is a song just like that but from a guys point of u? ill rate 5s (link)
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Here are a few like that...
-The Postal Service: The district sleeps alone tonight
-James Blunt: You're beautiful
-October Fall: Hey Hey
Enjoy :]
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I'm outgoing, and i'm pretty popular, but i'm not one for parties. Like i don't like when there's tons of people, and everything. I always feel like i have to find a group.
It's not the drinking or anything that's my problem, i just don't like going to huge parties.
BUT I LIKE TO BE LIKE WITH A COUPLE OF FRIENDS.
is that weird? (link)
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No, that's not wierd, that is perfectly normal. It's your preferance and I mean, I like parties and all, but a get together with a couple of friends is just as much fun as being at a party because you would probably just hang out with your friends at a party anyways, so what's the difference? yuh know? But yeah, thats not wierd at all, just you comfort zone. and it's totally fine, and don't let anybody tell you otherwise :]
Have funn
xxoo
Understatementoftheyearx3
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yesterday i said i liked a guy but he dosen't like me! well i went to his b-ball game and after the game another guy starts to talk to me and say how good i am @ b-ball. then he challenges me to a 1 on 1! im pretty sure he likes me! im so lost ! i don't know what to do!
ps they are both like 4or5 years older than me! (link)
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It depends on your age, but a guy being 4 or 5 years older than you is kinda a BIG age difference. So, maybe you should just get to know the guys better and become friends before you do anything you may or may not regret. See how that turns out and go from there.
Good luckk
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Alright, Well my friend bailie is in town only for two days and she lives about 3 hours away , she use to live here. Well Bailie wanted this boy taylor to drop by and see her [ we were at my house ] and i felt bad because i have a boyfriend and he's kind of jelous & we've been dating for 11 months & i was like ok they can but ill just stand up front while you talk to them & thats exactly what i did , they came over i said hey and went walking for a lil . They wasnt even for 10 mins and i told them to leave . Well a while ago my boyfriend had a girl to come over to his house that i didnt like for his friend & they B0TH had cars . But after i told justin he got really really mad ! and i said sorry a million times & when i said well you know what its like to do that , you did it before & they actually came in your house and everything and all he said was " see your bringing up crap in the past because you know your wrong " I dont know what to do . this happend last night & i texted him over and over again & called a thousand times ! he didnt reply to my textes or my phone calls ''/
He's really mad but i mean gosh i didnt even do anything .
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Okay, let him cool off for a little bit. I mean, you did text him and all of that, so it's not like you can do much more...if he doesn't call you by Monday, I'd talk to him in person and explain the situation again. Your not the one who is at fault here, he shouldn't be getting so pissy about nothing, because you did nothing wrong. yuh know?
When guys are mad, they don't usually back down until they are fairly levelheaded and aren't actign so macho and when they aren't about to explode. So don't over do it by calling him too much, that could also get him even angrier. I know this is gonna be hard, but sit tight and hold off on calling him or talking to him, let him talk to you, and he will when the time is right and he's not about to like say stuff he doesn't necessarily mean.
Good luck, and I'm sure everything will be fine.
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15/F
I recently got in the finals at my school and I am a relatively good speller but I get extremely nervous and stutter a lot. Is there anyway I could relax in front of the whole school? Also, do you know any tips for spelling? Like, how to spell a word you don't know.
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just ask your family to get together and have a mini spelling bee and then you know that your not going to be nervous cause its just infront of your family and then when your at the actualy spelling bee just think of it the same way just infront of your friends good luck i hope i helped and i hope that you win
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what does it mean when a guy says that you are a fox ? (link)
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it means that your hot he likes you its a complete good thing good luck i hope that i helped
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Okay...I really like a guy that I met recently, and he just asked me to be his girlfriend. The only problem with this is that he lives in Tennessee and I live in Indiana. I really like him and think that I should go for it, but I'm afraid that if I accept that I wont be able to handle the fact that he lives in TN. What should I do???? (link)
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I lived in TN! -lol- When I did, I dated this guy from AR for two months. He was great, but you need to realize that he could cheat on you, and your risking getting hurt. SO it's a risk, but i've learned the hard way that they NEVER work out.
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Call me desperate, but there's a lot of nice guys that I'm pretty close to that I'd totally go out with. I've never had a boyfriend. I was asked out twice in 5th grade, and now I'm in 8th grade, and I want to be a new person. Well just my love life. I'm funny, outgoing, guys think I'm awesome, I'm tall, athletic, tan. All my friends think I'm laid back and easy to talk to. So what's wrong?! I want guys to notice me more. I don't know what else to do. I'm not the flirting type but I just want some more tips. I really want to have a boyfriend before I get to highschool. I want to have a first kiss. So what do I do to be even more noticed? (link)
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Guys may think that your one of the guys. Maybe ( doll yourself up...) Or, be bold, ask a guy out. you don't have to kiss him, but hunni, the first step is REALLY getting yourself out there. I f other guys know you have a bf, the'yll relize that your unavalibe, and want you more.
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