Question Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 10:24 am
Alright, Well my friend bailie is in town only for two days and she lives about 3 hours away , she use to live here. Well Bailie wanted this boy taylor to drop by and see her [ we were at my house ] and i felt bad because i have a boyfriend and he's kind of jelous & we've been dating for 11 months & i was like ok they can but ill just stand up front while you talk to them & thats exactly what i did , they came over i said hey and went walking for a lil . They wasnt even for 10 mins and i told them to leave . Well a while ago my boyfriend had a girl to come over to his house that i didnt like for his friend & they B0TH had cars . But after i told justin he got really really mad ! and i said sorry a million times & when i said well you know what its like to do that , you did it before & they actually came in your house and everything and all he said was " see your bringing up crap in the past because you know your wrong " I dont know what to do . this happend last night & i texted him over and over again & called a thousand times ! he didnt reply to my textes or my phone calls ''/
He's really mad but i mean gosh i didnt even do anything .
What do i do ?
orphans answered Saturday January 26 2008, 2:34 pm: Okay, let him cool off for a little bit. I mean, you did text him and all of that, so it's not like you can do much more...if he doesn't call you by Monday, I'd talk to him in person and explain the situation again. Your not the one who is at fault here, he shouldn't be getting so pissy about nothing, because you did nothing wrong. yuh know?
When guys are mad, they don't usually back down until they are fairly levelheaded and aren't actign so macho and when they aren't about to explode. So don't over do it by calling him too much, that could also get him even angrier. I know this is gonna be hard, but sit tight and hold off on calling him or talking to him, let him talk to you, and he will when the time is right and he's not about to like say stuff he doesn't necessarily mean.
Good luck, and I'm sure everything will be fine. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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