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love/firendship
i think im falling for my best friend!
and im scared to. i mean i have all ways thought he was sooo cute. but know that me and my boyfriend broke up he was like hes must be blind to break up with you your beautiful. he held me for like five minutes while i cried on his shoulder. he took me to the movies the next week but his girlfriend came too:[ but he didnt pay for her he payed for me! i told him not to but he said he needed too.. i didn't know why he had to but all during the movie i would look over and he was holding her hand and i wondered what if that was me what if he held me? his friend Dylan came too. he tried to hold me like Cody was holding his gf..
it made me feel weird bc Cody wouldn't get out of my head. next day he called me and asked me to come over but i was at his gfs house so she came and there was Dylan there..waiting i ran over to give cody a really really big hug and he picked me up..i laughed adn his gf glared at me...
so i get a call from his gf a couple of days ago and she told me to break uuup with him for her soo i did but i broke down in tears bc i couldnt tell him but i did and and he was like ok thank you and when we hung up he said I LOVE YOU it was the first time he had ever said that to me!i was liek cody i love you too....and now i want to go out with him but im scared to go out with him bc i dont want to ruin a friend ship and i went out with one of his best friends and i dont know what that would do to his and my ex's friendship!!!
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I know this is hard but just go up to him and tel him that you really like him. What he does next is up to him, or you could also ask him out which is also hard. I know it's difficult but in the long run it will pay off. Since neither of you are dating anyone and no one seems to have hard feelings no one should be mad at you. If they are then dat's there problem you aren't doing anything wrong.
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If you both love eachother, why not go out? I mean, you guys already pretty much are, so just make it a definite. I mean, if people are gonna bitch and whine about you going out with Cody, then they really weren't your friends in the first place and need to chill. If Cody makes you happy, you should be with him and nobody should come between the both of you. And I'm sure that you and Cody will always be best friends, because you have both been through a lot, which is good because you both must have a lot in common, which is good.
If you don't take chances, you'll never know what you're missing out on, and love is a risk, but it has to be a risk you are willing to take. If you don't go out with Cody, you'll never know what you are missing out on, and he could wind up being your soulmate...
Good luckk! and give Cody a chance, you both deserve to be in a good relationship :]
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