okay so me and this guy cj well we have been getting to know each other...like friends. But a while back i thought that he liked me because well we never talked and he would just like look at me a lot and he started a paper wad fight with me. But then this past thursday, we was doing this project and he said he had a girlfriend. and there was like 4 people in the group including him, and they all raised their hands but me. and when he raised his hand he kinda looked at me. I cant explain it, it was just like he was trying to tell me something. I didnt know what it was but when he looked at me it was eye contact and i just got this feeling. But anyways, ever since then we have been getting to know each other, like i always talk to him when we are in that class. And like last night i went to an away game with a friend, a basketball game. And he is on the team. and i sat like right behind him, my knee was touching his chair. And he would look at me and smile, and i would smile back (we was like saying hi.) But i didnt talk to him cause i didnt want to take his mind off of the game. and he didnt talk to me. And after we won, me and my friend was standing in the corner trying to get service on our phones. and the team left, but as they were leaving he kinda looked at me then looked down like he was disappointed or something. But we are still like friends. People say that i wouldnt have a chance because he is a senior and im just a freshman, and my friend says that he is ugly and he dont like his personality but everytime i say something about him she says well he told me that he dont like that class....so my question is what do you think about this?? what does everything mean..?
Additional info, added Saturday January 26 2008, 3:00 pm: o yeah and he told me that he dont even know her or remember her...and when he would smile at me it was like a half smile...THANK YOU . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Saturday January 26 2008, 3:19 pm: I think that this guy might like you and that he wants you to talk to him so you can both become mutual friends. You should try getting to know him even more and to see whats up with this guy.
Your friend may or may not be jealous of your growing relationship with this senior, or he/she may just be warning you to back off and find someone else to like.
But the side glances and playful paper throwing is a definite flirtation tactic on his part. I think that there is a high possibility that he can like you more than a friend, but for right now he doesn't know you or trust you completley, so the realtionship between both of you is just friends.
Good luck and if you have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask me :]
He also seems very unsure and confused, let him get his shit together before you start building a stronger relationship with him. He needs to figure out what he wants and needs, so try talking to him, get to know him even better than you already have.
And even though you are a freshmen and he's a senior, that doesn't mean anything! I'm a freshman, and my friend [who is also a freshman] is goin out with a senior, no joke. Actually 2 of my friends are going out with seniors, so don't let your friends bring you down, if you and this guy are meant to be, you will be together. Trust me. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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