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Best Friends??
My supposed best friends are acting like biotches. For science, every quarter we switch partners. We made a plan, me and 1, 2 and 3,then me and 2, 1 and 3, then me and 3....etc.
The night before we switch when i am with 3, she ims me, when my away says: Out dont im, "hey is it okay if i am with my boyfriend for the third quarter? He asked me, and i dont want to turn him down...sorry!" then signed off! THE NERVE! it was the day before we picked partners and i was sick so i wasnt going to be in school. I was mad at her and she imed me, "are you okay? you seemed mad on saturday" I said, "Well you left me stranded the day before we picked partners, yeah im mad." then walked away
DO i have a right to be mad at her? Thanks in advance!
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You should be quite annoyed because you made plans with her before her boyfriend asked her.
Try not to blow it out of proportion, though. Yes, she was wrong to let you down at the last minute, but now she knows how it made you feel, I doubt she will be doing it again in a hurry!
Talk to her, let her know it annoyed you, but then make up. It's silly to get in petty arguments when they can easily be resolved.
Good luck.
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You have a right to be pissed, because she shouldn't have ditched you like that for her boyfriend, even though he is probably a big part of her life and obviously wants to spean as much time with him as possible.
BUT, at least she had the decency to ask you if you were mad....but you were totally right by speaking your mind and telling her that you are mad, because sugarcoating the truth wouldn't have been as effective.
However, if I were you, I wouldn't dwell on this for a while because, yeah she was wrong, but she is your friend and she should apologize soon enoough [if she really is sorry]
Although, you are so right for being mad, who wouldn't be? She ditched you, and I know how that feels. Being a third wheel is not fun.
Good luckk
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I think you do, but i wouldn't make a big deal of it!
A lot of girls would pick their boyfriends over friends, it's just the age some girls are at.
If you're between 13-16 then i wouldn't worry about it! She just wants to hang out w. her boyfriend while she has the chance.
It really doesn't mean that she doesn't like you! But maybe you should just know, she probably isn't your true friend! Sorry! But i'm sure that there is someone out there.
Next time i think you should let her answer.
But really, in the end you were right.
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