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i used to be able to connect to the internet on my ipod, but latley, it wont let me. anytime that i try to connect to my wifi connection, i try to type in the password, but when i do, the "join" button turns gray, and i can't do anything.

does anyone know what the problem could be?

Definitely take it to Apple and have it looked at.

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I know that vampires suck has a deleted scene called John's Love Letter. where he responded to his girlfriend's letter. Does anyone know what it said? i mean his response? (i bought the movie today but it didn't have special features)

Did you try YouTube? If it isn't on there, search Google. You'll probably be able to come across it. You could also return the movie you bought for the special features edition if you're really interested in seeing it.

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Im 16, and i am trying to get over my last relationship . it was over a year and a half.
it ended 3 months ago. its not that i want him back, i just get so upset that he is moving on.
please give so suggestions.

People move on especially in your age group. It's hard to get over people, but not many people find the person they are going to marry at 16. Just think of it that way. If he is moving on, you have to as well. You should go on dates with people. Have fun with your family and friends. Don't be bogged down with what he's doing. You might enjoy yourself with other guys. Try it.

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I am fifteen. Last summer, I made the biggest mistake of my life. I had sex with an ex. It completely erased my mind, really, until in January. My parents found out. They were absolutely ashamed. I could understand why, because I have always been a good child. But then they started treating me like I was a slut. My mom bought me all these old tight shirts that didn't show my body or cleavage, and I went to counseling and the doctor. I was punished, confined in my house with no communication to the outside world.

Two months later. I have my phone back but I am not allowed back on Facebook yet. My parents and I are good, and I am repaired. The most hurt of all this is my stepdad. He didn't talk to me up until March. We have been friendly and like nothing ever happened, laughing and having fun, staying up late together and just spending so much time together. A week ago my mom said he was still upset over me having sex. He said I should apologize. Sure, it was a mistake but I don't think I should apologize...do you?

I want to have his forgiveness. I know there's a pang of hurt when we lock eyes. I don't regret anything, I just wish the situation turned out better. I feel so bad for not being what my parents wanted, but I know they weren't perfect, either, as teens. Should I apologize? And if so, how? I choke every time I want to speak and it can't seem to come out without any tears.

If it would make the situation at home better, you should just apologize. You might not feel it was wrong but your parents didn't like the way you conducted yourself and it went against the way they raised you. It's good that you don't regret it so much that you need to apologize. Sex can be a scary thing. If you cry while you're trying, that's okay too. It will show that you care.

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What does it mean when your cold all the time

It could mean a few things.

You might not have enough body fat. Body fat is used as an insulator. If you have the recommended or average amount, you should have a regular temperature. However, if you are underweight then you would get colder a lot easier.

You could have anemia. It's a condition where you have an iron deficiency. I'm not sure the reasoning behind it but you should talk to a doctor if you think you have this. You can Google "anemia" for symptoms.

You could have hypothyroidism or a slow thyroid. Not sure the reasoning behind this either but look into the symptoms and see if you have any.

Candida overgrowth could be another reason. It's yeast that lives in the body that can be treated with antibiotic.

It might not be any of these reasons, but if it's interfering with your daily routine then you should see a doctor.

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Just a friendly reminder: Only answer questions where you can be helpful. Try not to insult people. This answer:

"If this is a legit question, you shouldn't really have a need for ejaculating at 68 years old. And I don't think there's a way to go about stopping that."

... caused this note.

My former grand-father-in-law is still getting it on at 84.

Basically who are you to judge people like that?

Lastly, there is something to be done about it. the Kama Sutra (should be required reading for anyone having sex) has a great deal of info on this.

Glad you are back, but please be nice to people.

DN.

I apologize. However, I also have seen that person on Yahoo Answers (I have been a member there for quite a few years) and I know that isn't someone with a real question. It's someone that spams the internet with that same exact question (same wording) continuously for "fun" you can say on all the advice asking websites. Their account on Yahoo Answers does not show that they are an elderly man but a teenage boy which would explain my rashness. Not making excuses for my response but I don't think someone should spam the internet with those questions. I can assure you it isn't a legitimate question and it is not a 60 year old man.

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I love my boyfriend more than anything, and last month I realised that he lies. Quite a lot. But he only lies about the insignificant things? For example, what time he got up that morning (to avoid sounding lazy). We argued over the matter, and ever since I've been unsure as to whether or not he's changed. I haven't caught him out but that doesn't mean he isn't lying. Should I be worried?

You shouldn't be with someone that you don't trust. If you don't have any real solid proof he's lying, you need to explain why you think he is and find a way you guys can either work together or break up.

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So I literally just committed to a College that is about 33 minutes or so from my house, I am staying on campus. Freshmen were allowed to have cars when I went to visit, but today in the mail I received an email from the college saying there is a no first year students on campus policy now. It says I can appeal, what are some good reasons I can use to appeal?
I'm very angry with this because 90% of the reason I committed was because I can bring a car. I was supposed to get a new car next month!

Your appeal is that the only reason you were going to go there in the first place was because you need a car because you have duties at home you committed too and you still need to do that when you're in college.

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My mom and dad both work long hours during the day so until they get home I know I'm expected to watch my 3 sisters. I don't complain about that BUT, even when my dad is home hes up in his room doing whatever. And my mom is always out running errands or something. Or doing paperwork. So basically I am babysitting.. ALL THE TIME. And on-top of all of this even when I don't have to babysit, and I want to go to a friends house, my mom wont let me go. I have no freedom and WAY too many responsibilities. I have considered running away so many times before. I mean I'm there sister, not there mom. Help me. ):

You should talk to them about it but in a very respectful manner. You can't really do much since they are your parents and you might really appreciate the time you're spending with them sooner or later. It also will give you great experience when you have a kid of your own. Maybe you should go out and get a job of you're choosing. That way when they want you to babysit, you can tell them you have to go to work.

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How do i open my online pix album?

Have you recently seen that on the Verizon website? I know a very long time ago they had that but I don't know if it's still up and running.

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Where could I get social networking applications (i.e. Facebook, Twitter etc. ) in Java ( .jar) format?

Only certain apps use Java. You'll see which ones those are when you go to use them.

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What measures can I take to stop ejaculation when having an orgasm. Male 68years

If this is a legit question, you shouldn't really have a need for ejaculating at 68 years old. And I don't think there's a way to go about stopping that.

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my name is Rachel and my ex boyfriend's name is kenny he just broke up with me this past weekend and at first it didn't bother me at all and then later on I became depressed. I go to a mental health center 5 days a week and he goes there to and I have to look at his face every day and it makes me more upset and ever since he broke up with me i've been drinking untill I get drunk every day and smoking weed until I get high.
He broke up with me becouse he thought I was cheating on him when I kept telling him I wasn't and I don't know why he would think that I would cheat on him when i've never cheated on him in the whole year we was dating. please tell me How I can get over him?

You can get over someone by finding someone else or just realizing that you weren't meant to be together. That's most likely the easiest way.

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I have already tried tunebite, soundtaxi and noteburner and they all had mass amounts of popups which caused my computer to lag and then eventually stop & require a restart. if you have any dependable links for these programs that won't lead to these problems, or else similar programs that you know are effective please let me know. time limit on the recordings can't be less then 3 minutes please & thankyou (or else I just find it to be pointless lol). this is a new computer (it's Gateway if that matters) so I can't figure out why these programs would be failing unless the programs themselves are flawed or just designed to mess stuff up. anyways thanks in advance for any advice :)

Check out these websites.

http://removedrmfromwma.com/tag/how-to-remove-drm-from-wma
http://www.softdiggs.com/media-converter.php

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s just wondering if any of you had experienced with being plural wives

That's up to you. However, you should talk to people who are plural wives and see from their experiences if it's the right thing for you to do.

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What is the general format for a physics CXC SBA

Do you have a textbook? It should be in there although it requires some reading but it would be helpful anyway so that you can study it.

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The people in Japan need help after the earthquake and tsunami and now the nuclear reactors melting down. I have seen the videos of Japan and it is awful! How can we who are in other countries help the people there?

What are the best charities to donate money to for Japan? Which ones are honest charities?

Thank you!

Like the other columnist said, Red Cross is a legit organization that you can donate too. Check out their website.

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i have a serious problem..

im a buff girl, im not skinny, but not chunky, and im pretty musculor. i used to be in a lot of fist fights and think i can beat everyone up and have that mentality that i was strong, and people were afraid of me.

until last year, my junior year of high school, i got beat up by a sophomore.. this girl completely caught me off guard and i was humiliated in front of my whole school.

this girl continued to cyber bully me for a few months but it ended last summer..

my problem now is that this girl is taunting me. i was hospitalized from the fight, and had a serious concusion and the fight always replays in my head (what i can remember of it).. i can never stop thinking of this girl and it drives me crazy! especially because its so old and i know she doesnt care about me anymore.

besides just her, im scared of everyone now! i feel weak, like i cant fight, and like i cant stick up for myself,., im always scared of getting beat up by people and my stomach turns everytime i see this girls face in the hallways at school.. i dont feel myself anymore. i feel so weak and helpless and i hate it,, i dont know what to do anymore. why is this girl haunting me SO much for SO long and what do i do about it?




also, i am pregnant now and my mom even asked me if i got pregnant on purpose so that the girl wouldnt be able to hit me again.. and now i wonder if subconsiously i did get pregnant thinking that.

i dont know, im messed up.. someone help me gain my strength back :(

You can't let someone bully you, especially at school. You need to tell an adult. Seriously. A counselor, a teacher, your parents, a neighbor, someone. Who cares what she thinks? Yeah, she might try to make fun of you for it. But it won't work because you told someone. If you ignore her and don't seem to care what she thinks or says, she'll get tired of it and leave you alone. Also, you shouldn't be stressing out especially when you're pregnant.

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I feel really ashamed for posting this question, but I'm 18f and I've critiqued my body for so long everyday that I just don't even know if I look skinny or good anymore. It's so frustrating, I don't know if I'm beach ready yet. help?

If you can easily fit into your bathing suit, you should be fine. If you wear it and there's a lot of "extra" going on, then try coming up with a work out schedule that consists of running and weights.

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my hair is long past my eyebrows to keep it down I just a wear a beenie but I'm thinking I should straighten it but what I'm wondering is if thats a good look for a guy?

A lot of guys straighten their hair. My brother does and he's 17. It looks better for some people. You should try it. Have a girl do it with her straightener to see if you like it before you buy your own.

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