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scared of this girl at school
i have a serious problem..
im a buff girl, im not skinny, but not chunky, and im pretty musculor. i used to be in a lot of fist fights and think i can beat everyone up and have that mentality that i was strong, and people were afraid of me.
until last year, my junior year of high school, i got beat up by a sophomore.. this girl completely caught me off guard and i was humiliated in front of my whole school.
this girl continued to cyber bully me for a few months but it ended last summer..
my problem now is that this girl is taunting me. i was hospitalized from the fight, and had a serious concusion and the fight always replays in my head (what i can remember of it).. i can never stop thinking of this girl and it drives me crazy! especially because its so old and i know she doesnt care about me anymore.
besides just her, im scared of everyone now! i feel weak, like i cant fight, and like i cant stick up for myself,., im always scared of getting beat up by people and my stomach turns everytime i see this girls face in the hallways at school.. i dont feel myself anymore. i feel so weak and helpless and i hate it,, i dont know what to do anymore. why is this girl haunting me SO much for SO long and what do i do about it?
also, i am pregnant now and my mom even asked me if i got pregnant on purpose so that the girl wouldnt be able to hit me again.. and now i wonder if subconsiously i did get pregnant thinking that.
i dont know, im messed up.. someone help me gain my strength back :(
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You need to let someone know, This girl is harassing you and bullying you and that is not okay.
Stress can cause miscarriages, Try to avoid all stress as much as possible.
Who gives a crap what she thinks, The reason she makes fun of others is because she probably has low self esteem. Don't let her bully you, This is about you and the child's well being. Trust me, She isn't going to find it that funny when she gets her ass in trouble.
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You can't let someone bully you, especially at school. You need to tell an adult. Seriously. A counselor, a teacher, your parents, a neighbor, someone. Who cares what she thinks? Yeah, she might try to make fun of you for it. But it won't work because you told someone. If you ignore her and don't seem to care what she thinks or says, she'll get tired of it and leave you alone. Also, you shouldn't be stressing out especially when you're pregnant.
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You should really go talk to a counselor. The hormones during pregnancy make you more vulnerable to depression and other things. You shouldn't be feeling the way you are, it is not normal at all. Talk to your parents about seeing a counselor, if they won't help, talk to the one at school. Planned parenthood might even be able to help in some way. Your OB-GYN can help also.
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