about

Hi, I'm Kristin..

I'm sixteen
I love to read the directions on everything.. Shampoo, cake, you name it..
I'm a pretty laid back person, in general.
I don't like annoying people, or things, but then again-- who does?
It really bothers me when people walk slow.
I'm really into photography and my camera is my pride and joy.
It's about the only thing I'm known to take care of in my life.
I'm on drumline.
Austin and Tarra are my Best friends
I'm in band, which goes along with the drumline.
i love just standing in the rain.
I'm easy to get to know.
Easy to lose my trust
Hard to get it back.
Obbessive people really aggrivate me

advice

How can I straighten my hair properly so it will stay straight thru the whole day?

First you take a clip and/or hair scrunche and you put most of your hair up in a pony tail. You leave the bottom layer of your hair out of the pony tail. Straighten that until you like it. Once you're done with that layer, take a little more hair out and do this again until all your hair is straight. It should stay straight through out the day! ♥

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Are 9th graders aloud to go to prom?

At our school it's the senior prom, so if you are asekd by a senior to go to prom then yes.

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you didnt find the sparkly person. you didnt get the paper. you dint find the secret!! ekk... im dissapointed in you. lol jk

Say what? Me too.. I didn't find the paper? WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?

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do you think fighting and being mean solves a problem? me and my friend have been fighting a lot latley what other ways can we deal with the problems?

Nikki
I can't deal with a problem with you any other way because you give me no other choice. You push my buttons and make me so upset I have nothing else to say, but yell! I'm mad and I'm going to stay until I decide not to be mad!

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first of all i wanted to work things out with you. i hear all these rumors about how you say that i am not good enough for that team. how do you know. your not a coach. and by the way me and charlotte run the same time. so instead of just attaking me for my spot why dont you attack someone else. all i wrote in my xanga was that i do deserve the spot. because i do. some coaches told me they herd you talking about me. and i dont think coaches lie. so dont act like you didint start all this stuff. if you wanted the spot so bad then you should have come to practice like EVERYONE ELSE. i am not fighting about this and i am not holding grudges this is a little middle school track team. and over all track sucked anyways i hope we can be friends and look past all this. i am over it. but are you?

First of all I didn't say you didn't deserve the spot because OBVIOUSLY YOU DO. Good job. No not ONLY did you write you deserved the spot, but it's YOUR relay team. Nikki don't even pawn this off on me. Why didn't I come to practice? I had band. I was UNABLE to come to practice. I was sick, couldn't come. I'm sorry that I'm NOT everybody else!!! Over it? There was nothing to be over, I was mad. That's all. Once I wished you good luck I was over it. I'm not going to attack charlotte because she doesn't deserve the attacking.

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does anyone know where i can get one of those rings that symbolize that you are saving yourself until you are married- i forget what they are called- jessica simpson used to have one, they are silver bands..thanks!

James Avery has a whole selection of them.
I have one that is a silver band with a cross in the middle.
Or, you can get one that says hope, faith, love.
I used to have one that says true love waits.
♥

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16/f
I'm extremely shy, and I've never had a boyfriend, or a kiss. I want a boyfriend.. should I continue to be shy, do guys think it's cute? Or should I push myself to be more outgoing.. but idk how? I try to be myself, but I get so insecure, I always think people are judging me. I've had a few boys ask me out and everything.. but they were all losers, not to be mean or anything. So it's not like i've never had a chance of having a boyfriend. How do I get a decent guy to notice me?

A lot of guys find shy cute, but to an extent. Some guys don't like the "Wild Let Me Take Off My Shirt" girls, sometimes they like a more laid back girl. People aren't always going to judge you, and if they always are they have nothing else better to do. Don't worry about others, just be you.

As for the guy to notice you? Be more outgoing. I know this is probably really hard for you, but you've got to try. Try something simple like asking to use a pen, or if they have seen your friend. Something simple like that then they'll know you aren't afraid to talk to them. The next day, try up and just saying Hey or something, don't be scared they don't bite. This will prove to the boy you like that you're confident in yourself. Boys like confidence! ♥ Good luck ;D

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okay so i spilt some soup on my dad's laptop keyboard! now some keys will not work and i dont know how to fix it! can someone please tell me what to do.. please dont delete this

Well, I spilled juice on mine once and I used alcohol, not what you drink the clear stuff. Put it on a Q-TIP and wipe inbetween the keys! ♥

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Im 14/Female and i havnt had my period yet. But i discharge...its heavy (been heavy) since maybe october. Not all the time though. Is it normal for it to be yellowish white? Because i will be in school sometimes and i will discharge and i will always look down to see if i had my period and i dont but its scary. When i do get my period and if im in school will it just come out when it wants to (like people could see it) that would be embarresing! Please Help Ladies! i rate high and give feedback!!!! Thank U

Yes it's very normal to not have it yet, don't worry. All girl's bodies are different and will start at different times. Your discharge is going to be heavy for maybe a month or two more then you might start. Starting carrying things in your purse so just in case. ♥

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okay so i had sex with my boyfriend and now i am pregnant. i dont know what to do because i think i am a lesbian. i am scared to let everyone know my secrets. i have dropped out of school and decided to run away with the baby and my lesbian lover. what do you think i should do about the babys dad? i have been thinking about murdering him but that is if i dont commit suicide?

Whoa nelly.. Are you for real? You can't KILL someone because you think you're lesbian.. Don't commit suicide either.. Whoa.. Okay...

Well if you think you're not straight, you're not straight. You can't kill someone because of your sexuality. Why would you think about killing him? you'd go to jail? Who would benefit from killing someone? No one, because you'd be locked behind bars the rest of your life and he'd be dead. It's not HIS fault you aren't straight. So don't punish him for that.

Don't run away either. Stay in the comfort of your home. Your parents might kick you out because they;d have a lot on their hands. Stay with your parents because they'll help. Hopefully.

As for commiting suicide, it's a very selfish notion. Not only is it selfish because you're taking yourself out of the world because YOU are having a rough time, so are other people. If you commited suicide you'd be killing 2 people. ♥

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How can you find out someones IP address? My friend always accuses me of signing peoples guestbooks with my name but i don't! and shes like o but it had your ip address..and then another time i imed her with a different screen name and shes like i knew it was you because of your ip address! HOW? Thanks!

If she commented in somebody's chatterbox, it has the first 6 or 7 digits of your IP address. it does not have your full IP address, so you could have been mistaken for somebody else. Your IP address is your Internet Protocol, it can tell you what your internet provider is and where it is located. So if you know for a fact you aren't commenting in people's chatterbox, it is probably somebody else with almost the same IP as you. This happens all the time. ♥

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today in lacrosse practice we were running up and down metal bleachers when my leg caught a corner. the cut is a little deep but my friend put peroxide on it and a bandaid. when i got home, i changed the bandage. now i just took a shower and put bacitraycin plus on it but it looks red around the cut. does this mean its infected? if so what do i do (besides see a doctor)??

It's probably the beginning of an infection. Clean it daily with peroxide and put neosporin on it. If you put neosporin on it, it heals it faster and lessens the apperance of the scar. It should probably heal in a week or two if you clean it daily. When cleaning it, put peroxide on it until it stops bubbling completely. Then put a band-aid on it all night and in the morning put a new one on. ♥

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hey, i was just wondering what is an "eprop" on xanga?

It's really nothing. It's basically a notion to tell the person you liked their site. It's kind of like a thumbs up. 1 if you liked it, 2 if you loved it, 0 if you didn't like it.

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Ok so I use to play an instrumiment it was the fluet how ever you spell it. But i want to play drums or guitar my dad says no becasue I'll
quite like last time .The only thing i've tryed something and quite was the fluet which was like 3 to 4 years ago. I love the way drums, guitar and some other things sound when I grow up want to be some one who makes up beats. But he said i don't have a good enough reson. I listen to music 3 hours a day(screamo kind)my dad also said he doesnt want me playing drums and guitar cuz there loud . I told him if doesn't let me do anything how I'm I ,going to know what I like if he doesn't let me try. Can you guys give me a good reason that might change the way my dad thinks about drums and guitar?

Say that it's your true passion and that'd you really like to pick it up and learn some beats and rhythms. Ask him to let you try it, and see what you think. Tell him you'll be honest and tell him your honest opinion about it. IE:: If you truely like it and want to continue, don't really like it and wish to stop, things like that. Try to convince him that you have drive and determination and wont quit because this is something you love. Don't be too pushy because I know with dads that they don't like to be TOLD to do something, they like to make a desicion on their own. Good luck and I hope you get what your wanting! ♥

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Me and my boyfriend loved eachother so much! Well.. Just to piss off my best friend he always said "I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU!" to her! i started to get a little mad! Besides my best friend has a boyfriend! When i slept over my best friends house.. she said "if your bf wud stop throwing things at me at lunch..i'd actually love him!" Well My boyfriend and me were talking on-line and he said "HAHA! Elise (my best friend) finally said she loves me too!" I was soo pissed off! Then he said "It would be soo cool to have 2 girlfriends!" "what wud you do if something like that happened?" I had enough! so i dumped him yesterday! should i be mad at my best friend or should i not be? I havnt talked to her yet and she still doesnt know i even dumped him! wud do i do?

Well your boyfriend might of been joking about that, I doubt he acutally liked the thought of having two girlfriends, but you never know. As for your friend, she has no right to say I love you to your boyfriend. That's wrong, but did she mean it? If she didn't mean it, and your boyfriend didn't mean what he said either, you jumped to conclusions too fast. Make sure that neither of them were kidding because then you'd have no right to be upset with either of them. Talk with your friend to get all the details worked out and if she did mean I love you then yes, you should be a little upset.

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well latley things have been good until just recently. this year i decided to try out for the track team and i thought i was a pretty good runner and it would be fun to be in. i didint know that it would be so dramatic. you see there is this one girl and i took her spot on the relay team. i didint take it because i am faster but because the coaches just put me there. i am pretty sure that the girl that wanted the spot is faster then two of the runners on the team. i feel a lot of tention between me and this girl. i dont want things to be this way because i think she is very fun and sweet. and i want her to know that she is an awesome runner and i never ment to hurt her feelings. so what should i do ? should i confront her or just let things go?

Hi Nikki.
Well obviously you've confronted me about it. Yeah, there's tention because I'm mad that you took my spot. Who wouldn't be, but obviously you deserved it more than I did so good job. It's over track is over and the last meet that I was ever going to run on a relay team in my life is now over. Moving on

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Since last night I have had a pain in my chest. It hurts just as and after I swallow, and whenever I take deep breaths. Sometimes I just feel the pain when I change posture or even move. It feels as though there is something there. The pain comes from right in the centre of my chest.
Does anybody have any idea what this could be?
If it helps I'm 14 and female!
All help appreciated!

I know this is what you probably don't want to hear, but see a doctor. You might have fluids down there and it might turn into pneumonia or the flu. That'd be yukky. SO let a doctor check it out he'll put you on some type of antibiotics. ♥

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The other night, I was out with a friend, and we met up with these guys. I guess you could call them 'skaters'. So. The two of us walked around, while they skated around us. They asked us if we'd let them finger us, and we joked around saying yeah. We told them we'd have sex with them in an instant, even though we were kidding, which I guess they didn't realize.
So, we headed for a park by a school, and they got behind a bush and pretty much just pulled it out right there, and they were begging us to come back there and, well jerk them off. I wouldn't do it because quite frankly, I've got a little more self respect than that. I wouldn't let my friend do it even though she was tempted because she has a boyfriend and she knew she'd regret it right after she finished.
So, these guys were telling me I'm a total "downer" and a "prude" and later they told my friend that they really didn't like me, just because I wouldn't give them a handjob.
So, I feel really bad about myself, like I let them down or something, even though I know that they're just huge jerks. For some reason, I can't stop thinking about it and wishing that I had just done it and everything would be fine now.
I'd really like some advice about what I should do. Thanks.

These guys are jerks and you did the right thing. I know you regret not doing it, but you'd regret it even more if you had done it. I know how it feels to regret something, but if you think about it a little more you'll realize what you did was right. What if you did that and then they'd though it'd be okay since you did that, that you'd what to do it with them. What would you do in a situation like that? You got yourself out of a huge mess. If anything, you should feel proud, not regretful! Who cares if you let some random guys with raging hormones down? They could find another girl with no self respect to do that to them any day. ♥

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i really am so ready for sex and my bf and i already have it all planned out...the thing is, im not very self-confident when it comes to my body. my legs are slim, which all my friends envy, but i feel so wierd! my hands get clamy ALL the time...is there anything i can do about that? and finally, i am really self-consious about the hair on my body...like on my lower back, a tiny bit around my belly, and 'downstairs'. i dont want to shave these regions, but im just worried about what he'll think...and i dont want to be all high-maintenance about my body, but i dont know what im supposed to do! please help

Your boyfriend souldn't care if you have a little hair here and there, but i'm pretty sure he'd care about downstairs. I have some hair on my belly, and on my lower back and your right, DON'T shave it because it will make it 18923347984 times worse! It isn't that bad when you think of it because it's only a little bit of hair, nothing big. If your boyfriend truely loved you and you feel you are ready to do it, then he shouldn't care what your body looks like even if you had a HUGE mole on the middle of your back. It'll be fine ♥

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ok this is a stupid thing to say but yeah, i've been under alot of stress here lately for the past year or so now.I've been starting to think about cutting I have once before but dont know if I want to again last time I did my parents found out and said they were going to put me in a hospital if i ever did it again.But I can't think of any other ways to relieve my feelings in a way only I can control.

Don't cut. don't don't don't What if one day you were just cutting because you >strong>felt stressed and you struck a major artery and killed yourself. How would that make your parents feel? Your friends? When you cut think about everyone else you are cutting, when you cut yourself. Next thing. When you feel stressed you could punch something. Anything but a wall! IEPillows, punching bag, matress, anything that is soft. Trust me, it gets out a lot of stress. Think things through before you do anything because you don't want to do something you will reget and can't do anything about. ♥

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