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Q: Does anyone know of an eyeliner that is waterproof and wont smudge?

-Thanks.
hey! well i use marykay waterproof eyeliner..it works REALLY good!! seriously like i could go swimming in it in the summer and take a shower or wash my face and it doesnt come off w/o babyoil or makeup remover!
xoxo helpachick

Q: i need to know what is the best kind of make up..
i'm alleric to cover girl
hey! well i usually use either mary kay, some avon (those two are practically the same) and i use revlon fabulash mascara cuz it stays on really good and seperates all the lashes so they dont clump! xoxo helpachick

Q: okay well i see alla these people goin everywhere but i dont have my license yett!! and my parents like dont wanna drive me hardly anywhere..and neither do my friends parents..so i can like never go anywhere! city bus and taxi..alla that is outta the question..my parents wouldnt let me..and i dont know anyone else that knows how to drive :(
hey! well not having a liscense yet can really suck huh? but what you need to do is talk to your parents about it. make it known that they can put all their trust in you and that you will bring friends w/ you wherever you go so you will never go anywhere alone. ask them why they won't let you go (not asking in a mad voice, just questioning) and see if you can come up together w/ a plan that will allow you to go places and to also follow some of their rules. xoxo helpachick

Q: 15/f
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months now and i still havent given him a handjob yet because i am so nervous (ive never given a handjob before).. can you please tell me everything i need to know.. like should i use lotion or not? etc.. and just any tips would be great.. if you can't say it on here then you can give me your sn for aim.. thanks
hey well personally i dont think you should be doing this until you feel totally confident in what your doing. but yes make sure your hands are soft so lotion them every morning and night or something but dont have any lotion on right before you do it...u dont want the chemicals in the lotion to like hurt him or something. make sure he's ok with it too. has he said something about you giving him a handjob?? hope i helped never really had a question like that before xoxo helpachick

Q: hey

ok my friend just a car and for her birthday i want to get her like cool seat covers and stering wheel cover . . where would i go to get that . .would like wal-mart or k-mart carry it??

Thanks!
hey! yeah i know walmart and kmart have them, and sometimes (i dont know if they do RIGHT NOW) but stores like icing or claires have cool ones. hope you can find something she'll like! xoxo helpachick

Q: ok well this guy stares at me alot(ALOT),showsoff infront of me..and doesnt talk to girls other thenme...talked to me once but never did again...but still stares...does he like me?

well i think that he's probably interested. but maybe he's just a guy who gets a little shy when it comes to girls. i think you should try talking to him again and making the first move that way. hopefully he'll start feeling more comfortable in time and will make "the bigger move" he needs to! xoxo helpachick

Q: what happen to the desperate housewives? they havent had a new episode for like 2 monthes and the season cant be over because it only started like 3 monthes ago... is there ever going to be a new episode? i know tonight is a recap
hey! well i think what happened is they took a break for the holidays, as did a lot of other shows as well. i think it should be back on next week or soon after! xoxo helpachick

Q: Do you guys believe that high school sweethearts can last throughout adulthood? I've heard from many people that if they end up getting married they'll just end up miserable. Or that most end after senior year.
umm..well some work out i know a few couples who are like in they're 50's and have raised families and are really happy:)
xoxo helpachick

Q: Hi everyone I am planning to start my own magazine company. I wanted to know from teenagers what do you'll look for in a magazine. If you have any suggestions or comments let me know I will greatly appreciate them. But I don't want comments on celebrities because I already have that covered.
Thank you :)
hey! well i love magazines and some of the things i look for are
**quizzes
**dating stuff
**things about the opposite sex
**real life stories of other teens
**horoscopes
**shopping things
**fashion
**latest movies, music, books, etc.
**and yes, celebrities
xoxo helpachick good luck!

Q: I have Msn Messenger for about 4 months now. The problem is, is that when you play a song on Windows Media Player it won't show up on Msn Messenger. I've clicked "Turn On What I'm Listing To" and it still doesn't work. It did the same thing a while back before I downloaded the never verison. It would work or a week and then quit. So whats up with that?
hey! well this happened to me for a while what you do is go to windows media player and click view; plug ins; other; and then it should say msn messenger and click that and then it should show up on msn what your listening to! xoxo helpachick

Q: hey everyone. need some help.. well im goin to a party tonight for a friend who moved away but is in town now.. i dont know if this is just like a chill party or like dancin. you know? so i was thinkin of just jeans and a cute top.. but now i dont know bout hair.. i was thinkin either a cute messy bun or completely straight. anymore ideas.. the outfit is not dressy so nothing dressy. if you could give me a link too that'll be great

x0o
--tosha
hey! well i would go with the messy bun for tonight so just in case your dancing you wont get TOO hot. but if you like the way you look with you hair down, then i would definitly go with the down straightened hair. xoxo helpachick

Q: I have been begging my mom for a REALLY long time for a cell-phone. She doesn't know what i need one for. but i could use it for a lot of reasons i just can't think of them. so she refuses to get me one. one day my mom gave me one other old phones that doesn't have service but u can still play games, mess with ringtones, etc. and now all of my friends think i got a cell-phone. n-e-waze(anyways) not long after, mybest friends got cell phones. so now i am the only person who doesn't have a cell-phone. is there a special way to talk her intogetting me a cell-phone? wut should i do about my super long story?
hey! well you're right; there are many reasons it is a good idea to have a cell phone! especially at our age (i'm guessing your a teen) bring up the subject of you getting a cell phone, that can be used for calling. some good reasons to have one is if you are at a party or something and you need to have her come pick you up afterwards, you can call her. if you are somewhere and your in trouble, you can call her or the police or w/e you need. you can also use the cell phone as a sort of finding eachother thing:P like if your somewhere shopping and your not with her then you can call her on her cell phone and say hey where are you?? and find eachother easier. tell her your getting to the age where you are away from her a lot more, so a cell phone would be a good idea for you because you could always reach her, or she could reach you! hope i helped good luck! xoxo helpachick

Q: I need to get a new perfume, and I want my boyfriend to like it. What are some inexpensive (under $35) perfumes that guys will like? I started wearing JLO Still, but my boyfriend never even commented it.. and also my mom said it smelled bad. Any other suggestions?
hey! well i love perfume so here's some that i think are pretty good!

**curious by britney spears
**hollister
**american eagle
**victoria secret
**abercrombie
xoxo helpachick

Q: Hey everyone. For Christmas, I got the Sims 2 Computer Game. I was just wondering, do any of you have cheat codes so I can get more money? That'd be great, thanks.

Merry Christmas!
hey! ctrl shift c then a box will come in the top left and type motherlode and press down enter until your money is what u want it to be! also if u wanna move something and it wont let you, you can do ctrl shift c and then moveobjectson enter and then try moving the thing you want to move!
xoxo helpachick

Q: ok so im doing my first audtition ever for a musical in school. i have to sing a portion of a song thats pretty medium paced. also i have to sing "do re mi fa... etc" do you have any tips that will help me do a better audition? oh yeah also i have to do a little speaking.. like not singing.
hey! well for the singing part just do your very best. you obviously know you can sing, or you wouldnt be trying out. but for the talking part just be sure to make your things that your saying VERY animated and theatrical like. xoxo helpachick good luck!

Q: I know everybody sees this question 5000 times a day but, I'm not sure if I'm reading her right. This girl, let's say "Hermione Granger", and I have been out a couple of times and I really like her. But Hermione always seems to break dates. She says she feels bad about it, but does it anyway. When I asked her if she'd like to go out with me, she said she would, but she would be usually busy the night I asked and I see very little of Hermione anymore. She acted like she liked me, but girls never say what they mean. I say actions speak louder than words, but I wanted y'all's opinion:What should I do here? As I read the notes, they want me to add my age:19 and my gender should be self explanatory.
hey! well some girls like myself make plans in advance. maybe you should try if you wanna go out say saturday, then ask her like the wednesday before or something. try this and see if it works, chances are she wouldn't have made plans yet. give her a chance a couple of times trying this and see how it goes
xoxo helpachick

Q: Wat do I do?! My boyfriend just left for Dallas and I'm never gonna see him again. But i've thought it over and over again. I didn't really like him. It's all confusing.
hey! well yeah, if i were you i would break up with him. long distance can be hard. since you didnt really really like him, then it shouldn't be that hard for you to break pu w/ him. but when you do it make sure you either call him or something and sound sorry not just like ok yeah watever...if you get what i'm saying!
xoxo helpachick

Q: ever since my parents have divorced and me and my 2 sisters and my brother have moved to LA my youngest sister (7th grader) has been acting older then she is she can definally pass to be about 16 but that never mattered much in NY but here she is hanging out with girls that were to much make up and not enough cloths. Shes learned how to dirty dance and is making out with tons of guys. She is never home nemore and she looks like a whore when ever she goes ne where! like this morning: she came home around 2am this morning no one new where she was er any thing and when she got in she was wearing a black mini and a hot pink holter top. she was wasted and she had on so much make up that when she took it off she went through 13 clearisel pads! what should i do? she is so smart and pretty but now shes acts stupid and is flunking school!

HELP!!!

xoxoKristen
hey! wow well it sounds like your sister does need some help now. what you should do is a. talk to your parents and get them (the one your living with) to counsel her a little. b. talk to her school counsler and maybe she can help her get back on the right track (maybe even put her in one of those groups they have at some schools -its a group of students that have problems like this and it seems to really help some people-) also it would be great if maybe you started attending a local church and have her get involved in things there such as CHURCH, youth group(there are really cool people there who dont have to do things like this to be that way), bible school, and things like that! also try talking to her yourself about these things and remind her of her life back in NY, and her old friends and how great those things were...maybe she'll go back to some of that!
xoxo helpachick
good luck!

Q: Does anyone know a good acne face wash that is really good and makes all the acne go away quick? i dont have a lot of it but i really want something strong and make it go away in like up to 5 days or a week. thanks so much
i rate 5's
hey! well i use proactiv and it worked really good for me! like i was kinda like you a little bit but not MAJOR, but sort of..so i started using that a while ago and it showed effects in like a week or two. so i'd try that if i were you!
xoxo helpachick

Q: Can anyone give me good brands of Hair Straightners? Doesn't matter if expensive, just the best brands in your perspectives. Thanks.
NaImEE ♥
hey! well i have a conair hair straightner and it works really really good. like your hair stays straightened until you wash it and it straightens really well! hope i helped ya
xoxo helpachick

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helpachick
hey im helpachick & i want to help you if i can. more than most of the questions i answer i have experienced something close to that myself. so feel free to ask&leave stuff in my inbox or whatever, and i'll try to get back soonish.

what about me?
I'm in college majoring in Fashion Textiles and Merchandising. I love fashion, boys, my friends, music, and love being active and outdoors. theres a lot more i could put about me but this is advicenators not myspace!!
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