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15/f
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months now and i still havent given him a handjob yet because i am so nervous (ive never given a handjob before).. can you please tell me everything i need to know.. like should i use lotion or not? etc.. and just any tips would be great.. if you can't say it on here then you can give me your sn for aim.. thanks
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Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
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I've written a novel on this very subject. But, you're right, I can't tell you here. But feel free to IM me, anytime. I'm literally always online, so reaching me shouldn't be any problem. You can message me now if you'd like. My screen name is: SimpLyxGirL ;]
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lol im def not an expert..but i'll try. i cant say here because its against the rules or whatever..so IM me on eatapasty
also..keep in mind dont do anything your too nervous about or arent ready for.
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Well, hun... I'll just tell you some things I've picked up along the way.
I'm as new to this as you are. My boyfriend and I have been dating over nine months and we haven't even kissed; though that is our choice. I will try my best to answer your question.
Make sure your hands don't have cuts on them. If your boyfried has an STD or an STI (whether he's aware of it or not) you could get it from an open cut. Always use a condom. Some people like to use lotion, some don't. It's up to your and your boyfriend.
Considering my lack of knowledge... maybe you should ask someone more experienced. Mackenzie [[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)] would probably be of more help than I am.
Before I sign off though, I've found you a helpful website... you could always try Google, too.
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-FunnyCide
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hey well personally i dont think you should be doing this until you feel totally confident in what your doing. but yes make sure your hands are soft so lotion them every morning and night or something but dont have any lotion on right before you do it...u dont want the chemicals in the lotion to like hurt him or something. make sure he's ok with it too. has he said something about you giving him a handjob?? hope i helped never really had a question like that before xoxo helpachick
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hey, I'm honestly not an expert on all this.. your bf would be the best one to ask but i can see it being really akward soooo i'll hook you up with some links that give you everything you need to know:
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have fun! <3
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I remember my first sexual experiences. They're so exciting because you have no idea what you're doing.
And then you realize, "..I have no idea what I'm doing."
You can fumble blindly and enjoy the cluelessness, or you can suck it up and be a woman.
There's not a person in the world that can tell you what your boyfriend wants out of a handjob. Do you need lotion? If he's circumcised, maybe. Some guys like myself prefer, or even require lubricant for any pleasure. Others don't. If he's intact, your experience will become much simpler; the glans will retain its own moisture and you simply use the foreskin and shaft skin to stroke.
But otherwise, there's a simple point: Ask him what he likes. It need not be a complicated or demanding question. If you can't ask him something as simple as, "So do you use lotion when you masturbate?" consider why you want to do this in the first place.
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