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hi,
my girlfriend was late on her period by 2 days and then we had sexual intercourse. she is still late 5 days after we had sexual intercourse what does this mean? im sure the condom did not split and everything went fine but im still worried. was she most fertile then or least could you please tell me?
thanks,
rob (link)
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you need to tell your girlfriend to get a pregnancy test if you are that concerned. she may just be really late.
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I really want one of those cool quizes people have in their profiles on aol instant messanger. I cannot figure out how to get one though. Could any of you help me? (link)
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go to www.quizyourfriends.com and you can make one there! hope i helped!
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Since October last year, I haven't been having a proper lunch at school. At first it was because I just wasn't as hungry as I used to be and I didn't need to eat. Now, I do get hungry at lunch but I don't like bringing in a lunch from home and I hate queuing in the lunch hall to buy a school meal, I never have money to buy it anyway. My friends have started to comment on how thin I am getting, I have always had a slim build but now they say I am getting too thin. I can see what they mean, I am thinner but I haven't lost any weight at all. I don't think I am overweight or anything but they think I have an eating disorder. I know I don't, how can I get them to see that? (link)
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you need to start eating more. it is very unhealthy. your friends are right. eat more and they will stop bugging you. bringing a lunch to school isnt that big of a deal so start doing it. i know how much you hate yo be told this but you really do need to eat more than you do now. plz eat!
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i told this guy i liked him and he told me he likes me. well we are unable to go out cause of his grades in school and because he can't have a gf right now.but today was weird cause i got something on my shirt and he wanted me to take it off. and then he put his hand almost all the way up my shirt. what does this mean?! he did that so i pulled on his boxes and i think he liked it. this is definitely flirting i know it!
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ok well yes thats obviously flirting. he likes you but is afraid of commitment to someone while his grades are suffering because if he goes out with you that will cause them to suffer more. hanging around with him and flirting isnt a bad thing. he definitly likes you and cant wait to be able to go out with you. good luck!
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what does it mean when a guy says "he can't have a gf right now?" is that a way to let the girl down easy or is it the truth?! (link)
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usually hes telling the truth but if you find out there is someone else a little while later and doesnt have a need to see or talk to you anymore then its obviously an excuse. sorry if this happened to you. i know its painful.
xoxo steph xoxo
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Who will win the super bowl? I am betting 100 dollars on the patriots and i was wondering if that would be good? (link)
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no, i am a big eagles fan and im betting they WILL win. dont bet on the patriots. yuck. have fun losing your money.
go eagles!
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I said yes to this guy when he asked me out. I felt bad for him that is y i said yes. My best friend sadi he would like litterly cry if i said no. So what the heck i said yes. I don't like him and i like someone else but we r going out. Is it okay to like someone else but go out w/ someone that u don't like more than a friend??
signed,
lost lovr (link)
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i would break up with this guy if you dont like him. but make sure you and him are friends still. if you dont like him then you shouldnt go out with him. maybe you have a chance with this other guy. see.
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me and my boyfriend broke up cuz he just does'nt want a girlfriend right now. But the thing is I still have REALY strong feelings for him and I try tellin him how I feel but it's like he dont care. What do you think I can do to get him back or get him to understand me? I mean I really really have it bad for him and i'm nothing without him. please help me someone!! (link)
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i was in the same sittuation back in september. it was very very hard at first. i dont know why guys use that "i dont want a girlfriend right now" it kind of sounds like well "i dont want you right now." and thats pretty hurtful. he may get back together with you or he may not. in my case he never even talked to me face to face again, only online once in awile. in time things will stop hurting or maybe he'll want to get back together with you.. good luck!
*steph*
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i am just gonna come out and say that i've been playing with anorexia but i have a question regarding the actual cycle. I'll do really well starving for awhile then ill end up binging and it just throws all my hard work out the window. what are some ways i can curb my appetite-are there any tips to prevent yourself from eating id rather just not put it in my mouth to begin with because if i eat too much ill throw it up anyways. also everyone always says to drink a lot of water to curb ur appetite but i do then i gain even more water weight-i know its just water weight but it makes it that much harder to step on the scale. help please! (link)
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well im not going to answer the actual question because im not trying to give people a plan on how to make a long hard painful death. you need to stop. i have expierence with this and the same thing happened to me though. i would always mess up, eat too much, and throw up. im now doing better. (i was anorexic until about a week or two ago) im eating healthy and losing more wait than i would've by starving myself. if you think your not skinny enough then you need to just start eating more healthy foods. good luck - and plz start eating!
**steph**
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A bunch of my friends cut themselves..but for no reason..they just do it because they want attention and they want people to feel sorry for them. They always talk about how depressed they are and how much life sucks for them, and it's not true at all. Because one friend started to cut herself, the other friend started too as well, and now another one is on the verge of cutting herself. They all do it for attention and I'm positive of that, and they drive everyone crazy. I'd like to just not be friends with them anymore but I don't want to see them get hurt, and they won't listen to anyone when theyre told to stop. What should I do to make them realize how stupid they're being without actually giving them the attention that they're cutting themselves for? If they're given the attention they're cutitng themselves for, then they'll just do it again. If we all just ignore them, they could seriously hurt themselves.. please help. Thanks. (link)
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well tell them how they need to stop because you know they are seeking attention. then research some stuff about cutters and tell them all the effects and permanent things they can do to themselves. if they dont stop after that them they definitly need to get some help. so if that doesnt work you need to tell on them and make them realize what it really means to have to go through the consequinces of cutting themselves. then they really wont be happy or allowed to do it anymore because there will be too many people checking their wrists. i know that right now it seems like that would be a bad thing to do as a friend but later in life they'll thank you. i know this is hard for you but you have to save these people. hope i helped!
***steph***
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i starting to really like this guy and he likes my bestfriend but she doesnt like him at al. what should i do, should i just try to stop liking him? (link)
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well if she doesnt like him he'll eventually get over it. then he may start to like you. dont give up, just wait for him to move on from yuor friend before you make a move on him. good luck with him! hope i helped!
**steph**
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Hey okay ill get to da story... im going out with this kid i meet and this Dance and his friend is going out with mii cousin.. well the day after i had meet him he came over my house with his friend and my two cousins were over after awhile my one cousin left and we were all making out and my boyfriend and i started doing things together.. till it was time for them to leave... and then i guess my mom got mad and my dad did to he called my uncle and told him but c my cousin is allowed to stay with her boyfriend and its not fair and my mom told me i have to break up with mine im not going to but i dont know how i will be able to see him even tho theres a party next saturday he invited me to and i rilly want to go but im afired to ask mii parents PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well you'll just have to sneak around with him. tell your parents your going over a friends house when your really going to your boyfriends. if they arent accepting you having him as a boyfriend now then they'll never want to you be with him so theres nothing you can do about it except keep him from your parents. even though it will be hard, isnt it worth it?
hope i helped!
*steph*
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week now. and the other day he asked me if i wanted sex.
we r madly in love, but im not sure if its the right time in the relationship?
what should i do?
luv nicki xxxxx (link)
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if you dont want to then just tell him that your not ready. if he really cares about you then he'll understand. wait until your ready.
hope i helped!
*steph*
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Last night I had a party because my parents were away. This guy that my friend has a crush on was there and we both made out with him multiple times while she was there.
After she left we were both lying on the floor together and started making out again. Then it started to get a little more serious, and he put his hand up my bra. We went into a bedroom and continued to make out more, and then he sucked on my breast, and then we made out more.
Afterwards I felt horrible and guilty and bad. I talked to my friend and she asked me what happened after she left so I told her that we made out and left out the second part and she wasn't pissed. The problem is that she's going to be hanging out with him and he's probably going to tell people, and it might get back to her.
Do you think I should tell my friend? (link)
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well, you should tell her because 1. it probably will get back to her and 2. you have to be honest with her. if your not honest then she may feel that she can not trust you. she may be mad but she'll get over it. if she doesnt then shes not a good friend because she got to make out with him anyway so whats she complaining about? you need to tell her tho. hope i helped!
*steph*
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Okay, first of all, I'm 15 and a freshman in high school.
So, last year in eighth grade, this new guy came to our school and joined band (which I am in), playing the trumpet. Him being new, all the girls but me immediately jumped all over him, wanting to date him because he knows nothing of their past. Well, I decided that I wasn't going to do that. I quietly said, "Hey, what's up?" one day in the instrument room and gave him my Yahoo! IM screen name (after we talked for a while). I didn't realize that I liked him then.
Well, a few weeks after his arrival I started liking him. He's cute, sweet, and has abs to die for. And he's my age (always a plus).
Well, he didn't ask me out, and I was way too shy to ask him out. So, I lived with unrequited(sp?) love until close to the end of the year.
One day, before a band performance, we were riding around picking up various band members with our director. It was then that he told me that he'd liked me since he met me.
Well, I was sitting with my best friend one day after school, waiting for our ride, eating ice cream that we just bought from the store, when lo and behold, here comes Tyler (that's his name). Well, I decide that since I only live a block away from the school, I'll let Megan go home and I'll stay and talk to Tyler. So Tyler and I share the rest of the ice cream and start talking. Innocent things at first, and then it gets deeper. I told him more about my life than even my best friend Megan knows. And he told me all about his.
Well, somehow, we ended up making out on the picnic table. And then we got up and made out by the brick wall. Then the next day, we made out in front of the band room. Then he came to my house and we made out. And then we made out one last time by the gym. We never spoke of it again.
Now, close to a year later, I can't stop thinking about this! We never dated, even though we both wanted to. It was too close to summer and we both thought we were moving. It turns out that neither of us did, but we still haven't dated. Now I have a different boyfriend, and it's killing me that I can't stop thinking about Tyler! And Tyler and I are now close friends! What do I do about this? I still like him, but I don't know if he feels the same way! :( (link)
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talk to tyler. just bring it up one time about what happened and tell him that you were just wondering if it still meant something to him. one thing i've learned is that if you like someone badly while going out with someone else it ruins the relationship between the boyfriend you have even though you dont like him as much as the other person your dying to be with. dumb your boyfriend, tell him you need some time and that maybe someday you can see him again. now is not a good time for you. tell tyler how you feel and see how he feels then if everything works out maybe you'll go out with tyler. your destiny is already decided for you. hope this helped!
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I've got a question about my friend. I think she may have some serious mental problems. This morning in first hour she was writing a note to someone (I didn't know she was). Well, I glanced over in her direction and she flipped the paper, turned to look at me, and said: "Stop reading my fucking note! God, are you ever going to leave me alone?!?!" So, I asked: "...what...note?" She rolled her eyes and moved to another seat. So, naturally, I was in my seat thinking "What the hell did I do?" Anyway, in third hour she sat beside me again. Again, she was writing notes and I didn't know that she was, so I turned around to talk to her. She FREAKED out and starts yelling about how I'm a nosy bitch. I was ...basically speechless. I mean, it's like she's got some mental problem with excessive paranoia. For instance, yesterday in our Study Hall my boyfriend and I were writing notes to each other. My friend wanted to look at them, and because I said no, she automatically assumed that they were about her and proceeded to call me a bitch. They weren't even remotely related to her. If I talk to anyone other than her she automatically thinks that I'm talking about her or telling them secrets about her. She spreads horrible lies about couples at our schools, including me and my boyfriend. Sometimes I wonder if I should get her some counseling to try to help her out. She's excessively paranoid. I think she may be bi-polar as well (either that or she has some SERIOUS mood swings). For example, in P.E. one morning she was on a different team than me and was so mad at ME that she rammed me up into the bleachers. After P.E. she cussed me out in the locker rooms for being a "complete asshole." Then at Lunch two periods later she acted like nothing was wrong, or that nothing had ever happened. In the hallway this afternoon, I was joking about her using her cellphone (which is strictly against the school rules) and she lost it. Is this just normal teenager behavior or does my friend need some serious help? All advice would be appreciated. (link)
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it seems like your friend needs help. this is definitly not normal. im sorry this is happening but she has some issues. is she gets that agrevated at things then you should look into finding help for her. good luck with your friend.
hope i helped!
**steph**
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okay, im a lesbian, and im 14 years old. i want to get with girl but im not sure how to approach one. There's also the complication that they may not swing that way. How do i join the dating world and how do i ask a girl out? (link)
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well i really wouldnt know because im straight. but i dont think you're gonna find anyone at this age. even if you find one or two people, you may not like them or they may not like you. try to take an interest in guys. you shouldnt go your whole highschool life without dating anyone just because your lesbian. you'll have to take the chance of asking out another girl that may not be attracted to girls. good luck.
hope i helped!
*steph*
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i have a good guy friend that i hook up with a lot. i really like him and ive been thinking about having sex with him for a while. im not sure if he'll think im easy because were not actually together. should i just do it or wait to see if we go out? (link)
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um.. i would wait. if your not even going out yet then no. if anyone finds out you'll have a reputation as a slut because you werent even going out yet, wait until you've officially been dating for a little while. ok?
hope i helped!
*steph*
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Well, I really don't know where to begin... the problem is, i am helplessly in love with this guy in Year 11 (I'm in Year 9). And whats the problem, you might ask? I have never said a single word to this guy. He is so totally HOT, and, when i look at him, i just want to do everything sexually with him. Another problem is that he is my brothers best friend, so he comes over like, every day. He sometimes smiles at me, and then i do stupid things, like drop the dishes, or trip over my own shoes or something. HELP!!!!!!!! It is getting to the point where i just want to jump on him like an animal or something! What should i do?? (link)
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well if you like him you could talk to him. then again, if he is your brothers best friend you dont want to mess any relationships up by asking him out and telling him how you feel and then getting turned down. if you go out then you have to also risk relationship changes because if you and this guy break up then your brother and him may have quite a different relationship. its your choice but consider all these things.
xo steph xo
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For my health class we are suppossed to find out if guys mostly prefer virgins or sluts, what do you think? (link)
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it really depends on the guy. some guys want a long relationship and they seek a virgin, a nice girl that they know they can have a sweet relationship with. some guys want a slut just so they can say they have been with that person and had sex with them. it just really depends. and btw - just because a girl has had sex with someone before doesnt make them a slut. i find that offensive if you say that girls who've had sex with a guy or two before are sluts. they're not. trust me.
xo xo steph xo xo
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