Question Posted Wednesday February 2 2005, 6:43 pm
I said yes to this guy when he asked me out. I felt bad for him that is y i said yes. My best friend sadi he would like litterly cry if i said no. So what the heck i said yes. I don't like him and i like someone else but we r going out. Is it okay to like someone else but go out w/ someone that u don't like more than a friend??
signed,
lost lovr
IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Thursday February 3 2005, 12:56 am: Honestly, I want to tell you somthing, going out with someone you dont like hurts them more than saying yes. So can you break up with him? You are going to have to do it eventually. Also, to answer your question, it is okay to like someone other than the person you are going out with!
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Teza answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 11:46 pm: yea its tottaly fine to like some1 else but let him down easy ! i went out with a guy i didnt like but a lil later i started to rele like him! so yu might like this guy to so give it a lil time if u want, x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 7:39 pm: ahh i`ve done that and learned the hard way -- the guy i was going out with eventually found out i liked someone else, broke up with me, and to this day still hates me. The guy that i liked didnt want to go out with me because of what i did to the other guy. I say you should just break things off with him, because its not fair to your boyfriend, also you might miss a great chance to tell the guy you do like that you like him, or maybe he was going to tell you. [ bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe's advice column | Ask bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 7:32 pm: Umm i've done it. We've all done it. Just dont lead him on to long. Go out till like mon. And just say its not working because you 2 were good friends from what you thought and its just to odd-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Karen answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 7:13 pm: If you think about it, it's not okay to like someone else but you're still going out with someone that you don't like that much because you are just making it worse for this guy, since he likes you a lot and if he ever finds out, he will be heart broken. You should dump this guy, just so he won't get hurt. Hope I helped :)
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frenchfries21 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 7:13 pm: i would break up with this guy if you dont like him. but make sure you and him are friends still. if you dont like him then you shouldnt go out with him. maybe you have a chance with this other guy. see. [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
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