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Question Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 11:24 pm

me and my boyfriend broke up cuz he just does'nt want a girlfriend right now. But the thing is I still have REALY strong feelings for him and I try tellin him how I feel but it's like he dont care. What do you think I can do to get him back or get him to understand me? I mean I really really have it bad for him and i'm nothing without him. please help me someone!!

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XoXSparkles57 answered Monday January 24 2005, 8:27 pm:
If he doesnt want a girlfriend right now back off and leave him alone sonner or later he might like you again or

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CaitLynnG answered Monday January 24 2005, 1:49 pm:
Well, I know what you're talking about. Maybe he is just not ready to have a relationship or he might not know what he wants yet. Believe me, people get like that. Give him time, and then go back and ask him again. The thing that is weird is that he isn't paying any attention to what you have to say, which in my point of view, Seems like he doesn't care anymore. Just talk to him and then if you need anymore advice, leave one in my inbox! Hope I've helped! xO- Caitlynn

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frenchfries21 answered Monday January 24 2005, 9:13 am:
i was in the same sittuation back in september. it was very very hard at first. i dont know why guys use that "i dont want a girlfriend right now" it kind of sounds like well "i dont want you right now." and thats pretty hurtful. he may get back together with you or he may not. in my case he never even talked to me face to face again, only online once in awile. in time things will stop hurting or maybe he'll want to get back together with you.. good luck!
*steph*

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Farren answered Monday January 24 2005, 8:58 am:
It seems like he doesn't like you anymore, or that he needs a break. If he's acting like he doesn't care, that's definitely a bad sign. I would back off and give him his space. Your feelings are just being wasted right now.
-Farren

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TheTeenGirl answered Monday January 24 2005, 12:21 am:
I'm sorry, but you're going to have to give it some time, the more you try to explain it, or the more you're around him, the moe you want him back, you need to stay away from him, thats the only way you can get over him, I have a feeling hes not willing to take you back right now, but until then, just stay away from him, I kno its hard but you can do it, just talk to someone, cry in a pillow just let everything out.

I'm very sorry.
-TheTeenGirl

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