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Okay, so there's this guy...
Okay, first of all, I'm 15 and a freshman in high school.
So, last year in eighth grade, this new guy came to our school and joined band (which I am in), playing the trumpet. Him being new, all the girls but me immediately jumped all over him, wanting to date him because he knows nothing of their past. Well, I decided that I wasn't going to do that. I quietly said, "Hey, what's up?" one day in the instrument room and gave him my Yahoo! IM screen name (after we talked for a while). I didn't realize that I liked him then.
Well, a few weeks after his arrival I started liking him. He's cute, sweet, and has abs to die for. And he's my age (always a plus).
Well, he didn't ask me out, and I was way too shy to ask him out. So, I lived with unrequited(sp?) love until close to the end of the year.
One day, before a band performance, we were riding around picking up various band members with our director. It was then that he told me that he'd liked me since he met me.
Well, I was sitting with my best friend one day after school, waiting for our ride, eating ice cream that we just bought from the store, when lo and behold, here comes Tyler (that's his name). Well, I decide that since I only live a block away from the school, I'll let Megan go home and I'll stay and talk to Tyler. So Tyler and I share the rest of the ice cream and start talking. Innocent things at first, and then it gets deeper. I told him more about my life than even my best friend Megan knows. And he told me all about his.
Well, somehow, we ended up making out on the picnic table. And then we got up and made out by the brick wall. Then the next day, we made out in front of the band room. Then he came to my house and we made out. And then we made out one last time by the gym. We never spoke of it again.
Now, close to a year later, I can't stop thinking about this! We never dated, even though we both wanted to. It was too close to summer and we both thought we were moving. It turns out that neither of us did, but we still haven't dated. Now I have a different boyfriend, and it's killing me that I can't stop thinking about Tyler! And Tyler and I are now close friends! What do I do about this? I still like him, but I don't know if he feels the same way! :(
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talk to tyler. just bring it up one time about what happened and tell him that you were just wondering if it still meant something to him. one thing i've learned is that if you like someone badly while going out with someone else it ruins the relationship between the boyfriend you have even though you dont like him as much as the other person your dying to be with. dumb your boyfriend, tell him you need some time and that maybe someday you can see him again. now is not a good time for you. tell tyler how you feel and see how he feels then if everything works out maybe you'll go out with tyler. your destiny is already decided for you. hope this helped!
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Talk to Tyler. See if he has the same feelings for you. You don't have to come right out and say it, just sort of ask if he's seeing anyone or something along those lines. If he isn't, maybe you should think about breaking up with your current boyfriend. If you can't stop thinking about him, it must mean something, right? Send me a message if you need anything else! ♥ Kristen
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Just talk to Tyler it couldnt be hard after all you swapped spit quitea few times... then if there is something there tehn tell your boyfriend that you have feelings for someone else. Just dont go any farther intill you end it with your bf.
But just think who you like more.
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i think you should have a talk with tyler and see how he feels. but dont forget about your boyfriend when you talk to him because if you let your feelings get in the way you could do something you might end up regretting.
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okay well if you have a bf think about who you like more. if you like tyler more break up with your boyfriend. and since you do like tyler you should breka up with your boyfriend because its not right to like more then one person. then call up tyler or write him a note or something and tell him how ya feel
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just my opinion you should break up with your boyfriend if tyler is who you want to be with. then ask tyler out. i dont know, i hope i helped.
always-jamie
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