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heyy guys im jessica (jessie) and i love giving advice.♥ i may be younger than you but i will give you the best advice i can give =) .. ask me a question and if you want to keep it more personal or detailed you can IM me at unxreachhable , kisses♥

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ok well I am kind of mad. I think my mom's b/f is just using her, And I am to scard to tell my mom. But when I do wont to tell my mom he is there. He is always over and he eats all of our food. But he never cleans up. My mom has not been dateing for a while because my dad went to jail. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP (link)
tell her , you wouldn't want her heart to be broken .. you should just let her no what your feeling and maybe she'll consider it and keep a closer eye on him =)
hope i helped
-;-jessie xoo


okay. i like this guy alot. We flirt alot, and he gave me his sn once. Well, he has a gf. he gets on every few weeks *almost every girl in school likes him* but he still flirts with me. But, i'm afraid to IM him i get nerve and afriad to emmbarrasse myself! should i? i mean he gave me his sn! and how to I NOT get nerve before i talk to him?!?!?! (link)
GO for it !!!!


erm hey... i guess i really need help..i cant stop cutting myself i can not see the real colour of my skin on my arms now they are totaly coverd in purple and blue scars everything depresses me and i cant handle the smallest things i get so caught up with things that i just go for the knife and cut..i've lost many friends for this and been called so many things half the time its what people say to me ''why dont you just fuck off and kill yourself slit your wrist like you do you know like a good goth'' and 99% of the time i do ..im so weak i'm not good for anything..but i really need help too stop if someone could plz help me?? thanks ^.^chok^.^ (link)
let yourself heal and wear a rubber band on your rist.. when you feel like cutting yourself pull on it and it will snap to your skin.. its better than having permanent scars
hope i helped
jessie xo -;-


what are signs that you are pregnant? (link)
throwing up , uhmm headache , stuff like that - if you think your pregnant the go to the store and buy a pregnancy test =)


Well,there's a boy I like and my feelings are so deep for him,and he is my friend.But I don't know how to tell him or should I tell him,because he has a girlfriend.So how can I tell him and what should I say?
I am a female,
and I'm 14 (link)
well tell him how much you like him and let him no that youll always be here for him , as his friend or sooner - his girlfriend and that you love him =)
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo


well me and my friend went to wall mart and stole...and got caught but she blamed it on me and made my poarents pay for the shit she did and i dontr wnat ot tell my mom nor dad cause it will get her in trouble and i dont want to and she says that she will always be there for me....is she telling the truth or is she useing me
and
p.s
shes spoiled and boses me around liek im her slave...
help me please!!! (link)
im not her but it sounds like she is using you ... mean huh ?
xo jessie


well im really good friends with this guy and i like him a lot because were so close and similar and i think we both like eachother and we talk about everything but he always asks out other girl who turn him down, doesnt he know that im righ tin front of him and were perfect for eachother how can i help him see that? (link)
tell him , or have your friend say something like " i think you guys would be perfect together , your meant for eachother " and then when yer friend and him are together tell him taht you like him or somethign


me and this guy "B" went out 4 a year. he then went 2 a different school, and now starting high school, we go to the same one. were talking again...were eachothers 1st loves...except we didnt lose it wit each other. when we broke up he got with someother girl and they ended up doing it a few times. but when this school year started we have been talking alot laytlee...and well do u think it'll b weird if i lost it with him?! (link)
if he was your true love and you really like him , then nopee =)
xo jessie


16/f
well, there is this guy that i have known since i was like 4 and he really likes me! but i only like him as a friend and the thing is, is that i REALLY like his cousin! what should i do? (link)
tell him , and maybeee it mite lead to other thinggss !
xoo jessie


F/13 me and my sister was talking today and I told her I started my period to day. She told me she never started. (she is 16) Is that normal? (link)
yeah , the ages of getting your period can be from 9 - 19 lol
xoo jessie


well me and my parents got in the BIGGEST fight ever and i walked off and went to my boyfriends house...adn im 5months pregnat adn he said he would suport me and all that shit..well when i went there i didnt tell him and when i got there he was with a nother girl...i felt really bad...and i had no where to go so i went to my friends Marissas shes trying to help me out alot but i tinhk im putting alot of presure on her tho..and i fell bad adn i dont no what to do i dont want to tel lher that i feel liek tell her that...cause she might be liek yea you are and kick me out and i dont think i want to have this baby from that dude...so im tihnking about an abortion but if so then my firnd would get mad saying you made me go all throw that shit!!! i really dont no what to do and i havent heard from my parents for liek a month and i dont wnat to stay with her..what shall i do?
hel me!!
p.s im 17 (link)
confront yer boyfriend , confront yer parents , confront yer friend ! tell them everthing thats going on .. xo


Hello. Um, I have a problem with this guy who lives in my neighborhood. Everyday he harasses me sexually. I've tried telling the police, but they said without hard evidence they couldn't do anything. I'm sort of a feminist, so something like this shouldn't be a problem for me. But, I'm too afraid to tell my friends or family. I'm 16 and he's like, 25. So, I know it's illegal.
What should I do? (link)
set like a camera up or something , thats sexual harrassment .. tell your teachers at school or make a plan that you can catch him in the act - belive me your hard work will pay off , dont keep it a secret before it gets too serious.
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo


what is orgy? (link)
when alot of people have sex , more than 2 .
xo jessie


what is gyno? im so confused (link)
gynocoligast .. a doctor that helps you with yer girl issues , well lets just say that they have something to do with yer vagina . lol .
xoo jessie


im 13.by the way.me & my boyfriend have been on and off since June. were back together now. weve been together for 3 month's. ive never madeout with a guy before. and it seems like thats what all guys want is to makeout and shit. he knows that i never madeout. i love him alot but i dont really like to be around him becuz i know he will want to makeout the whole time. what should i do. and also his so call "bestfriend meghan" says that he flirts with other girls and shit and they talk all the time and he goes to the movies with her . they almost went out one time before. i dont know what to do
(link)
well if i were you i would tell him that your not comfterable doing that if you dont wanna ! i mean if you do have fun and stuff , but dont go to overboard.. if you think hes flirting with other girls he may not even notice it ! let him no what people have been saying about him ; he could get mad or have alot of sympathy... but if you really like him and you want to hold on to the relation ship you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and then he'll get the picture , and then you guys can take it slower =)
good luck , hope i helped
-;- jessie xo , sry i got to this later than you wanttedd ! if it ever happens again just IM me :)


Ok, this is a pretty basic question, but does anyone have any really good organizational tips for school and also study tips along with that...they kinda go hand in hand! I RATE VERY WELL:) (link)
just make sure that you have folders and binders and whatever you need for each subject and clean out your backpack like every weekend ! it really shouldnt take that long and sometimes its fun , because if you have notes you get to re read them =) lol
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo


my brother and i used to be extrmely close even though he is 14 yrs older than me. but after he found "the love of his life" he seems lik he doesnt even no who i am. when he got engaged i cried and when he was married i wanted to die. we can never seem to talk about anything and hes always saying how stupid i am for going out w/ my bf bc he doesnt live by me. hes wife is super awasome and i love her and all but sometimes its lik its her fault. everytime someone talks bout my brother i get rele upset and when they compare us i always say since you think hes so much better than me go get him to do it. i hate it bc everyone asks why ben (my brother) and i dont spend that much time together anymore. and hes having a child and im afraid hes going to rele forget about me. he relationship w/ everyone else hasnt changed only w/ me. when i was little and i cried when i had a nightmare hed come in my room and sit w/ me till i went to bed but when i my first bf broke up w/ me he told me to shut up and get over it. and it rele hurt bc i used to be able to turn to him when i was sad but now i cant. i rele dont no what im asking but do you think r realtionship will ever be the same? or how can i tell him how i feel? thanks and sry bout the length (link)
tell him how you feel and how you want to be closer with him , remind him of the memories that you had and remind him of how mean he treated you since he was married . he will think about it and it will bother him and he will make it up to you ! I GUARENTEE IT =)
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo


MY lips get really chapped over night. What's a way to keep them smooth? dont say chap stick cuz that doesn't work for me. Thanks! (link)
use blistex or carmax , they are special for chapped lips and you can get them @ walgreens or walmart or publix.. if you go to the mall more then those places there is this lip baum in burdines / clinuqe and it is REALLY good for chapped lips , it soothes them and protects them from UV rays =)


I'm a 16/m thats moving from California to Rhode Island. its the biggest change of my life and i'm not sure what to do about it. How will i ever fit in?? How do i get accepted by my peers? Whats that style/fashion there? Can anyone give me advice on how to make a smooth transition into Rhode Island?? Thanks! (link)
JUST BE YOURSELF if you need anything IM me , my screen name is on my column , xo
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo


My parents keep the house so so so so so cold...I'm always freezing and it's the middle of the winter...it's always like 60 in here, and I've told my parents so many times that I'm SO cold when its that cold, but they don't care. They say that they are comfortable that way, and that if they turn it up they will be too warm. I'm not the only one who thinks its too cold...friends or relatives who come over say its so cold! But, they don't have to live here!!! I DO!! What do I do??? (link)
turn the air down and say that a ghost did it and that it wasnt you =P
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo




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