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Well, awhile ago I offered to take this kid that used to go to our school to our dance so he could see he former classmates. I didn't mean it as a "date" type thing, but that's the way he took it. And now I don't really want to take him because I feel like I'll be leading him on if I do. :/ But there's more! I was single at the time, but (still am now) I'm really into this kid, and I really wanted to bring him to our dance. I'm really confused and frustrated! What should I do/ tell one of them?! Please and thank you!! (link)
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so you want to ditch your friend because some one you actualy want to take as a date might want to go with you? ask yourself that and if it doesnt make you feel like a jerk then go for it. you wont be leading him just say something like wow were so lucky most friends cant go to a dance together and not complicate things or something along those lines.
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sorry about that...i'm rice06 (link)
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yeah i added you
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now lori and alex are going out( if u readed my other questions you know that i like alex) well anyways alex is still flirting with me and omg he stares right into my eyes forever and i stare back and its like he can read my mind. our eyes justlock with each others. he is always hitting me like just playing around and i hit him back and lori gets all mad. anyways he treats lori like shit like if he doesn't care about her and he lies to her. but thats only when i'm there with them or near them. what does this mean? (link)
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i think hes jsut a moralless guy taht would cheat on his gf. sure you can for it but your friend will hate you and hell eventualy cheat on you and then youll have no one.
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ok so not to confuse, let's give names:
my friend: sara
her best friend: liz
liz's boyfriend: bob
bob is trying cheat on liz with sara. he's asked sara to have sex with him, take pictures of herself and give them to him, etc. sara refuses and has put up with this for a while, and then finally told liz. liz believed her at first and then i don't know what happened. sara tried calling liz and liz's mom answered saying that liz wasn't available. sara asked when she would be and she said, for you, never. sara is devastated and can't understand why liz would do this to her. (liz and bob are still together, btw). what can i say to comfort sara? is there any way i can help the situation? (link)
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tell her that bob is a lier and sara was telling the truth
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in 8th grade, ive been feeling so depressed. i just feel like everyone is against me. i feel so disgusted w/myself. everyone says that im so skinny and athletic and my family says im beautiful, even though i dont think so. i started cutting a little while ago. its nothing to be proud of, thats 4 sure. i just feel like everything is wrong with me. wut am i supposed 2 do?
signed
*deeply troubled* (link)
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all girls think they are ugly, its genetic. i actualy did a psychology project on this last year. your wrong, your family and friends are rght. stop cutting cuz its bad. live a happy life.
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13/F. A guy told me I had a hairy upper lip, and that I should shave it, but if I shave it, the hair is gonna grow darker, and make look like a man. My mom says I am too young to have a laser hair removal, and that I should have it when I am 18. This makes me soo mad! IDK WHAT TO DO! Please help! (link)
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waxing is the best way to go, otehr than the laser removal.
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how do u loose the flab in ur legs? besides running, because that just seems to make mine musclier (and bigger) so if you have any good leg workouts that would help~thatd be great!! (link)
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try elipticals those give you a running motion but they tighten muscles better than say a treadmill.
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ok so me and my ex-boyfriend broke up after about 3 months of seeing eachother...he said that he found someone new. Well we didn't talk for about a month and now about a week ago he IM's me online and was like hey whats up and i was very hesitant to talk to him bc he really really hurt me bad and i loved him and all and i thought he loved me (he told me he did but i didn't think it was true). Well he asked me if we could talk. So i went to meet him at our usual spot that we used to chill and he was like how have you been and everything. I asked him why he started talking to me again and he said bc he felt bad about everything and said that he acted like an A**hole. which is true. Well then i asked him how him and the other person he met was doing and he told me that it didn't work out between them. I was like oh okay. We hooked up and i knew i shouldnt of an now i like him ALOT again. I dont know if he only is talking to me bc it didn't work out with the other girl or what! can someone please help!! sorry its so long ill rate u high if u answer! thanx!! (link)
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yeah sorry hes jsut back with you becasue it didnt work out with the other girl, and he knew he could have you. there is a slim chance that he realized what a mistake he made but for that to be even remotely possible he would have said that.
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there this guy that i thought i kinda lyk'd but he lyks one of my best friends. It kinda sucks cuz im so use to feeling this way cuz everyone likes my best friend. I dont wanna stop being friends with her because of that cuz thats juss stupid. Well i told this guy that i'd try to help him and my friend be together although it would kinda suck. My friend doesnt really like him lyk tha but still i have a feeling its gunna happen. I dont wanna tell him that i like him cuz im pretty sure he doesnt feel the same way and afterwords it'd juss feel akward... what should i do? (link)
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if your friend doesnt like him then wahts stopping you from going for it? even if he lieks her you can still go for it and show him that you would be better for him than her
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i cant get on to aim or aol b/c my dad blocked it for some reason. i dont care about getting in trouble if i un block it i jus need to know how. i cant live without my buddylist. does anyone know how to unblock ? thanx (link)
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download trillian. its a program that lets you talk through any chat service including aim and it will auto copy your buddy list.
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(14-f) Okay..i met this guy ova tha summa...n we r real g0od friendz..well i am crushin 4 his older brother big time !! hes a junior(im a freshman) and he can drive..well last night he came ova to my house n it was me him my friend steph & one of his friendz...well we were hangin out n stuff n it was SOO AWESOME !he has a g/f but they r sorta...ech right now...they r both confused n yeah but anywayz...i like him alot n last night we hugged n stuff..n today i was tlakin to my mom n she said that since my friend Steph wont be in town tomarrow i should call up th guy i like n ask him if he wantz ta go see tha movie Saw with me tomarrow...just as friendz...i like him so much..n i would pay for myself n stuff so it would be as friendz but it would be so nice to hang out wit him like just us !! n my mom REALLA approves of him n yeah...my mom n sisters n stuff think i should call n ask him but wit tha phone im SOO NERVOUS !!! PlZzZz help ! should i just go ahead n call him ?? PLZ HELP ! Sm0ochez (link)
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sure go with teh guy as friends but dont be going after some otehr girls man lol. its wrong, and she could spread rumors about you.
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Should i ask out a girl everyone hates in school? (link)
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no. high school romances dont last long but rumors do. youll never hear the end of it. so unless you REALLY like her then find some one peopel dont hate as much. and maybe shes hated for a reason?
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Hey i have blonde hair about halfway down my back and i've been thinking about getting cut just for a change. Dose anyone have any ideas what hairstyles might look good?ThAnKs! (link)
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nooooo dont cut it lol. chicks with long hair are totaly hot.
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What's a good rate to charge for babysitting a 1 and 3 yr old? (link)
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generarly babysitters charge about 5-8 dollars an hour. if your experianced you can go up to 10 especialy since its two babies and they require more work than say a 6 year old. um so yeah id recomend asking for 10$ an hour plus snacks.
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HeY! xo_sherry_ox here! I'm going to be a Mean Girl for Halloween(You know the plastics). I'm not being a particular one, because I'm a Brunette but yeah anyways. I'm going to get a white shirt and I want to put anything that has to do with Mean Girls on it. I know I'm going to have "Thats so fetch!" and "Plastic" on the shirt but if you guys have any ideas that would be cool..i'll rate all 5's (link)
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Well you might wana put "Im a Mean Girl" so people who didnt see the movie will get it too.
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hey! does anyone know any good tips for training a rabbit? my rabbit's really jumpy and i want it to relax and be calm when i'm around... i also want it to play a little bit, and maybe let me hold it.. right now he barely lets me pick him up... thanks so much!!
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~Lana (link)
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hmmm training it not to jump is hard. positive reiforcement works best, when hes clam give him a treat. when hes noit calm dont feed him at all. well of course not to the point of starving him but you get the idea.
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there is this boy that goes to my skool and i used to have a crush on him until my friend called him on 3 way and she told him that i liked him and he was like HELL NO SHES UGLY AND FAT AND JUST HELL NO!!!! as you can tell 1 i was upset and 2 i was just str8 up MAD!!!so the next day at skool i told him my cousin Nikki(not a real person)had a crush on him well i pretended to be her on the foneand stuff and when we went to the movies my cousin pretended to be Nikki and he fell for it and he really liked her but some gurl thought that me and my friends were being mean and she told him what we were doing and hes mad...do you think he'll forgive me???Should i forgive him 4 what he said abuot me????PLEASE help me (link)
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no he wont forgive you. and it doesnt really matter becasue you shouldnt forgive him either
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ok.. my mom has been smokin since she was 16 and shes now 39. she constantly smokes and its disquisting. she says she wants to quit but she never trys and she says shes afraid that if she quits shell start eatin a lot and get realli fat. i told her id rather hav her fat then die of lung cancer but she dont care. can u think of anything i can do to make her quit cuz itz not only gunna kill her it hurts my dad, dog, kitten, and me and im tired of r house smellin like smoke. help please i rate 5s (link)
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my mom is the same way. ive been trying to get her to quit since.... well i remember being like 4 and flushing her cigarets down the toilet so its been a while. something i would recomend, though it didnt work on my mom, is ask her how your supposed to know that smoking is bad. tell her that if she doesnt quit smoking youll start. if that doesnt work then tell me what else you come up with lol. hiding/stealing the cigs doesnt work though she can just get more. another you can try is telling her to put an equal amount of money as she spends on cigarets into a jar, then total up teh money at the end of the month.
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ok my first home-coming..im goin with my friend..well call him bob..well anyways me and bob are pretty good friends and i jus asked him.. but anyways..do i have to get him a garter?(o by tha way..7th grade)and im not even sure bout the hole mum thing..i think hes gunna get me one..but i kinda dont wunna get a garter for him cuz its only 7th grade...help!! the dance is friday!! (link)
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eh you probly should. when i went with a friend i got her a corseage but taht was 10th. still you probly should
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One day, me and my best friend(a guy!) were just hanging out at my house, and somehow we started talking about what we liked in guys or girls, and we just kindda were like, "you know, were perfect for each other!" so we kind of hooked up right then. We were kising and cuddling at first, and then we started making out. And i dont just mean a lot of kissing and moving your head...this was very passionate and intimate. i was in HEAVEN. I thought he was going to be my knight in shining armor..but the next day it was like nothing happened. i called him to see what he was doing, and he told me he was getting ready to go out on a date with this really sleezy girl from another school. After about 3 days, he called me to tell me that they were dating. i was devestated. he truly broke my heart. It has been three months since they got together, and he just called me to tell me that they broke up. I have worked so hard to get over him, but now i have a chance to be with him. Is he even worth it? i mean...what if he hurts me again? i dont think i could handle that. Please tell me what to do! Take him back or Leave him in the dust? (link)
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hes not worth it. hes lucky you still give him the time of day much less still consider him a friend. seriously i can smell it 100 miles away (or however far away yall happen to be) hes a sleazeball, he will probably hurt you again.
so in sumation leave him in the dust
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