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Well, awhile ago I offered to take this kid that used to go to our school to our dance so he could see he former classmates. I didn't mean it as a "date" type thing, but that's the way he took it. And now I don't really want to take him because I feel like I'll be leading him on if I do. :/ But there's more! I was single at the time, but (still am now) I'm really into this kid, and I really wanted to bring him to our dance. I'm really confused and frustrated! What should I do/ tell one of them?! Please and thank you!!
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so you want to ditch your friend because some one you actualy want to take as a date might want to go with you? ask yourself that and if it doesnt make you feel like a jerk then go for it. you wont be leading him just say something like wow were so lucky most friends cant go to a dance together and not complicate things or something along those lines.
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Hi! i know this can be tough. and i .hope. i can help. well i know that you dont want to hurt the kid's feelings or anything. but tell him that you're just not into him that way. i know that you're afraid that he might be hurt, and chances are he will be for a little bit but shake it off. im sure he will find someone else. Dont be afraid to be nice! people interpert things differently. so, my adivce is that you tell him that you are thinking of going to the dance with someone else, but tell him if you .arent. going with anyone else, that you will go with him. But hey, he'll never know that you like someone else!
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damn that sux! look you already asked the first kid out it will be seriously sad if you just let him down like that how would you like it if they did that to you??????? not very huh!is the kid nice? does his friendship mean alot to you? because guys are sensitive and he'll most likely hate you after so you decide.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
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Tell the guy that wants to see his friends, that you will go to the dance with him but he needs to know that there is nothing between you two. And how about at the dance, dance with the other guy a few times(make sure the other guy knows before the dance that you might dance with other guys) hope I helped!
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