there is this boy that goes to my skool and i used to have a crush on him until my friend called him on 3 way and she told him that i liked him and he was like HELL NO SHES UGLY AND FAT AND JUST HELL NO!!!! as you can tell 1 i was upset and 2 i was just str8 up MAD!!!so the next day at skool i told him my cousin Nikki(not a real person)had a crush on him well i pretended to be her on the foneand stuff and when we went to the movies my cousin pretended to be Nikki and he fell for it and he really liked her but some gurl thought that me and my friends were being mean and she told him what we were doing and hes mad...do you think he'll forgive me???Should i forgive him 4 what he said abuot me????PLEASE help me
PerkyPeacock answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 9:40 pm: if he doesn't forgive you, i wouldn't worry about it. he's being a craphead... i have trouble believing any guy worth your time would say what he said about you, about anyone. so don't forgive him, you deserved better! [ PerkyPeacock's advice column | Ask PerkyPeacock A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 1:55 pm: He might forgive you but he might never give you the chance to end up liking you. But hunnie he sounds like a complite asshole so who cares if he forgives you! You should forgive him for what he said because it was him opinion but I dont think you should get to involved with him. He also could have put his answer with a polite ugh no i dont have feelings for her... but he went way over the top. MOVE ON! :-/ you deserve someone better
-holly-
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Berlynn answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 12:37 pm: I know this sounds weird, but I think it would be best for you if you forgive him. Certainly he was a jerk, and you should move on to a guy who will appreciate you instead of talk you down. But since you really are sorry for lying to him you should at least try to apologize, even if he is still mad at you afterward. Then you will feel better knowing you handled it well, and you can forgive him and be free of the whole thing, and show you're the better person. If you don't forgive him you'll only be hurting yourself by carrying around all the anger about what happened, like you were letting him say mean things about you again every time you thought about it. That wouldn't be fair to you, because you deserve to move on to something better and put all this behind you. [ Berlynn's advice column | Ask Berlynn A Question ]
advice_now_2334 answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 11:07 am: well he was an ass to you . when he said that about you then you should have just been like "ughh yeh hes an asshole i can do better then him" but the biggest mistake u did was when u nd ur freidns pretended to ebe someone else. you can apoligize and if he dont forgive you then u did what u can do and jus know that u felt bad and gave ur apoligies and be done with it and pretend like nothing happened, and maybe u should try to move on to another guy becasue he was an ass when he said those mean things about u.
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DrAnqel answered Tuesday October 26 2004, 9:53 am: you should talk to him about it.. you dont need to forgive him.. that was totally mean what he said about you... but on the other hand you probably shouldnt have done all that stuff to him.. he may have deserved it, but come on... I think you should just talk to this guy and if he doesnt forgive you over it.. its his loss and you will have to accept that.. but he should forgive you because that would be the mature thing to do in this situation.. forgive and forget.. hope i helped and good luck
-Anqel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
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