One day, me and my best friend(a guy!) were just hanging out at my house, and somehow we started talking about what we liked in guys or girls, and we just kindda were like, "you know, were perfect for each other!" so we kind of hooked up right then. We were kising and cuddling at first, and then we started making out. And i dont just mean a lot of kissing and moving your head...this was very passionate and intimate. i was in HEAVEN. I thought he was going to be my knight in shining armor..but the next day it was like nothing happened. i called him to see what he was doing, and he told me he was getting ready to go out on a date with this really sleezy girl from another school. After about 3 days, he called me to tell me that they were dating. i was devestated. he truly broke my heart. It has been three months since they got together, and he just called me to tell me that they broke up. I have worked so hard to get over him, but now i have a chance to be with him. Is he even worth it? i mean...what if he hurts me again? i dont think i could handle that. Please tell me what to do! Take him back or Leave him in the dust?
jazz82289 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 2:20 pm: GO FOR IT! Your'e young, guys are stupid, and they make mistakes, but make sure you tell him how he hurt you, make it known!!! But why not go for it ???? I mean even if he does hurt you again, it's ok love is all about the pain, and the fighting, that's what makes it so beutiful, just do it. [ jazz82289's advice column | Ask jazz82289 A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 2:35 am: hes not worth it. hes lucky you still give him the time of day much less still consider him a friend. seriously i can smell it 100 miles away (or however far away yall happen to be) hes a sleazeball, he will probably hurt you again.
lollypopgurl769 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 1:25 am: he fools you once, its his fault ... he fools you twice, its your fault ... talk about man whore ... lol this guy wants to get in your pants ... i've been in situations like this and i still cant get over the damn guys ... grrr, they're so confusing! but he had his chance, he dumped you for that sleazy girl, remember? you shouldn't even consider giving him another chance! [ lollypopgurl769's advice column | Ask lollypopgurl769 A Question ]
behindxthesexeyes answered Sunday October 17 2004, 12:37 am: There's nothing worse then the silent treatment, especiallly after expressing such feelings towards this guy. I think you should talk to him, maybe online or somthing...and let him know how he made you feel. After that, if you feel like you could give him another chance, try it out. Don't make the same mistakes though!
MaxwellsSilverHammer answered Sunday October 17 2004, 12:36 am: He's just a guy who wants to get into all the girls' pants... and unfortunately, you got caught up in an illusion where it seemed magical, and in the end got hurt. I feel bad for you.
MissEmmyBoo answered Sunday October 17 2004, 12:19 am: I would leave this guy in the dust!! It's like he just used you! If he truly liked you I doubt he would've done that and then acted as if nothing had happened. Forget him! [Hope I helped]
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