ok so not to confuse, let's give names:
my friend: sara
her best friend: liz
liz's boyfriend: bob
bob is trying cheat on liz with sara. he's asked sara to have sex with him, take pictures of herself and give them to him, etc. sara refuses and has put up with this for a while, and then finally told liz. liz believed her at first and then i don't know what happened. sara tried calling liz and liz's mom answered saying that liz wasn't available. sara asked when she would be and she said, for you, never. sara is devastated and can't understand why liz would do this to her. (liz and bob are still together, btw). what can i say to comfort sara? is there any way i can help the situation?
xoshaneyney3283 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 4:52 pm: omg....tell sara not to worry she did nothing wrong but be a good friend who told the truth. You can't really solve the situation if Liz won't talk. Tell sara she did the right thing.
joybell563 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 3:26 pm: well talk to liz about it try to be the third party who works the situation out. and if she doesnt listen to you just tell sara that she wasnt a good friend anyway if she got mad over a guy. if that doesnt work tall me and i will try to help further. [ joybell563's advice column | Ask joybell563 A Question ]
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Saturday November 6 2004, 3:12 pm: Tell Liz she did that right think by saying no to Bob and by telling Liz what he has been doing... Then tell Liz that she did all that she can do and now it's Liz's turn to do what she wants to do... I hoped i helped!! :)
112903 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 2:53 pm: just be a good friend to here im sure thats what she needs right now if liz cant see that saras a good friend for not doing that stuff with bob maybe liz just doesnt deserve a friend at all. just forget liz if she wants to be stuck with a cheater then thats her problem maybe someday she will catch him and wake up and understand that friends come before cheating boyfriends. hope i helped and good luck to you and sara.
frenchfries21 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 2:51 pm: the best thing for u to do is stay out of it... try to tell sara that she has to talk to bob and liz but if that doesnt work i wouldnt get involved... hope i helped ~stef~ [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
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