ok so me and my ex-boyfriend broke up after about 3 months of seeing eachother...he said that he found someone new. Well we didn't talk for about a month and now about a week ago he IM's me online and was like hey whats up and i was very hesitant to talk to him bc he really really hurt me bad and i loved him and all and i thought he loved me (he told me he did but i didn't think it was true). Well he asked me if we could talk. So i went to meet him at our usual spot that we used to chill and he was like how have you been and everything. I asked him why he started talking to me again and he said bc he felt bad about everything and said that he acted like an A**hole. which is true. Well then i asked him how him and the other person he met was doing and he told me that it didn't work out between them. I was like oh okay. We hooked up and i knew i shouldnt of an now i like him ALOT again. I dont know if he only is talking to me bc it didn't work out with the other girl or what! can someone please help!! sorry its so long ill rate u high if u answer! thanx!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoKGoX answered Friday November 5 2004, 2:04 pm: Love like you've never been hurt... Love is crazy! its misleading its passoinate and all those other things. I know what your goin through in fact i couldnt relate more! I got dumped for another girl. then my X- asked me back out. I set my hopes too high and after 3 dayz we broke up... i still to this day dont understand why! we're still friends now. but if i were you i would jus remeber to keep my feet on the ground. You never know unless you try. remeber not to fall too deep for him. i know thats hard. maybe also casually ask what happened? and why he came back to you. but please dont get hurt again! i would hate to hear of that happening so jus be careful of what you decide to do! good luck! [ XoKGoX's advice column | Ask XoKGoX A Question ]
KeLsEy__x3 answered Friday November 5 2004, 12:58 am: if he is willing to come back to you and have the guts to talk to you after a month or so and see fi thing are still ok then i think he is worth it! give him another chance! at least he is acting like a man and saying he was being an asshole. i wish guys around here were like that! well it is obvious that he likes you and you liek him so give him another chance!
*good luck* [ KeLsEy__x3's advice column | Ask KeLsEy__x3 A Question ]
mermaidpoetess answered Thursday November 4 2004, 9:47 pm: it's hard to tell. he might really like you, or he might just be saying that because it didn't work out with his other girlfriend. you could try it again, but take it slow, don't get too caught up in it, in case he's not sincere. i'd be suspicious, if he's done that to you once he might just do it again, if he's that kind of guy. overall, just be watchful. [ mermaidpoetess's advice column | Ask mermaidpoetess A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Thursday November 4 2004, 9:08 pm: yeah sorry hes jsut back with you becasue it didnt work out with the other girl, and he knew he could have you. there is a slim chance that he realized what a mistake he made but for that to be even remotely possible he would have said that. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
natcrazykat1103 answered Thursday November 4 2004, 8:58 pm: maybe why it didn't work out between him and the other person was cuz he still liked you and it got in the way. i wouldn't fall in love with him right away cuz you don't want him to break ur heart twice. ~Natalie~ [ natcrazykat1103's advice column | Ask natcrazykat1103 A Question ]
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Thursday November 4 2004, 8:51 pm: Hun, he may really like you and was telling you the truth about him apologizing after everything... Sounds like it to me... I hoped i helped!! :)
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