what do guys like better: a hard to get kind of girl... or like one that leads them on? thanks..
Depends on the guy i guess.. ♥ Dez
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i am a 16/f and i like a 19/m. we've been getting a lot closer lately and i know he likes me but i never gave him a straight answer if i like him. the thing is, i would love to go out with him and stuff, but he is my best friend's ex. they broke up because she cheated on him like five times. i couldn't believe she did that so i took him under my wing to try and cheer him up and we ended up liking each other. my best friend wants him back, but i'm quite sure he won't go back to her either because he's been hurt too many times or he likes me now. i guess what i am asking is, if you were in the same situation, would you risk breaking the friendship for the guy? do you think it would be possible to go out without telling her?
Most of the time when people have secret lil relationships they always come out eventually anyways or people get suspicious if your around them alot or doing alot of things together.. i think you should try talkin to this friend of your about being with him.. but i'd get with him before actually talking to her.. i mean seriously she cant really say anything she's hurt this guy and apparently there isnt some real strong feelings there if she kept doing that to him.. just give it time before actually bringing it up to her and good luck.. ♥ Dez
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I've been bleeding on and off for about 2 months...like I'll bleed for 2 weeks stop for a week bleed for another week stop for 3 days bleed again!...It's soo weird..I asked my mom and she said it might be stress cause my familys going though a hard time...but can it be something else like my cherry popping or something?? Oh and I've had my period for like 3 years so my periods been pretty regular well up until now that is.
13/f
i suggest you go see a doctor.. that would probably be the best way to go.. and plus your real young also so it could hvae something to do with it.. and you started at a very young age.. sorry i didnt help much.. ♥ Dez
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I have medium brownish red hair that is very straight and longish and layeredy..i want to do streaks of color throughout my hair---i mean crazy color, such as pink or purple or blue or red or SOMETHING..what would be the best color to do with my hair color? i have pale skin and light brown eyes
i would go with the red.. like a matallic red.. or maybe like a blackish blue.. i did the tips of my hair with both of those colors and it looked hot.. but i also did matallic red hightlights and it looked good too.. i think you should go with one of those colors.. ♥ Dez
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do girls where condoms?
there are condoms for females.. ♥ Dez
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umm how is anal sex does it really hurt? and can it mess with my....you know when i go to the bathroom? lol i need to know
okay i never tried anal but ive had a guy accidently slide it in a lil bit and it hrt really bad.. ♥ Dez
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when having sex with my boyfriend after a few mins my vagina starts hurting like sometimes I have to ask him to stop, I've been checked for STDs and I do not have any but sex is still very painful sometimes, what could it be?
you are apparently not wet or something.. use lube it'll help you.. and maybe try other positions cause your porbably not liking it that much or something.. ♥ Dez
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Hey.. i'm a girl and i used to look at porn, but i'm really trying to stop. and i want to masturbate, but is there any other way then actually having sex and sticking things "up there"? i mean, i've tried fantasizing.. but it doesn't work.. will rate high thanx!!
buy a freaking dildo.. ♥ Dez
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I am in a situation where i know i am eventually going to end up fighting one or maybe 2 people, one is smaller than me and one is bigger, i dont need any paficists telling me not to fight, its unavoidable, can somebody give me some advice on how not to get my ass kicked and preferably to kick theres, im m/15 5 foot 9, and quite strong, just havent been in a real fight before.
knee em in the face a couple times.. give hard ass body shots.. hit em in the face.. hit em in the ribs always cover your face.. and try to avoid getting hit.. usually a fight doesnt last no longer then 5 freaking minutes so i doubt your ass will be torn up.. ♥ Dez
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umm I’m turning 16 in a couple of months and I haven’t really had a real boyfriend. I mean I did when I was in 6th grade and only for a week and we did nothing it was a waste. I have never had my real kiss but all my friends have and they think I have too even my best friend thinks so. Also all the guys I talk to think I have to because I’m very flirty. I never really set my friends right about all this because I was scared to tell them. But I’m going into freshman year and I haven’t had a boyfriend, my real kiss or anything and I’m really sad about that im also scared to kiss someone now because i could be bad at it and that scares me a little. I don’t know what to do. Guys have asked me out and guys have hit on me but I just never liked those guys that have. My question is: what is my problem is there anything wrong with me?? and I’m VERY picky about guys if that helps u answer my question. thanks for the help.
P.S Sorry that it is so long I'll rate high thanks!!
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hey hey hey i can completly relate to you to this question i fifteen almost sixteen til i actually had my first real relationship and first kiss.. yea i was pretty scared and thought id mess up and be bad at it but all i did is go along with what he did when he kissed me.. and yes im also very very picky about guys too not looks but mainly their personality and i always want to get to know a guy before going with them.. i have stuck with my standards and always will.. i think if you have your own set of standards in what you want in a guy stick to em.. or you'll always run into bad relationships.. what ever you do dont just jump into a relationship just so you get a first kiss and a boyfriend cause im sure you want your first actual kiss to be special.. so if time is needed then let it be.. ♥ Dez
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how can a girl not get pregant when having sex?
if a guy cums inside of her or around her pussy.. duh i think you need to ask MOMMY! AND DADDY!.. ♥ Dez
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ok so..i broke up w/ my bf cuz his friends threaten me and fight w/ me and stuff and i just couldnt take it anymore..and now i think it was a bad idea to break up w/ him..wat should i do?
Talk to him about it and tell him to get his friends in check.. ♥ Dez
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Ok I can't decide if I should go to the movies with strangers tonight. My friend knows this girl from another school and they are going to the movies, and their supposedly bringing a bunch of hot guys. My friend wants me to come, but I don't know if I should. I'm just shy. These people are all the same age as me. I don't have a boyfriend, and I do kind of want to meet guys, but I'm nervous. I don't know, should I just go out with my normal group of friends tonight?
get out and meet new people its always fun to make new friends... and possibly meet a guy maybe not as a boyfriend but as a friend.. one of your friends is going to be there that you already know.. so why would you be complelty nervous.. try to loosen up and have fun.. i mean your not going to be talking a whole bunce or anything your going to be in the movies.. ♥ Dez
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my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help!
how about since you dont trust him just break up with him that way you have no worries and then he's not a problem and out of the way.. ♥ Dez
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I have Hazel Eyes and Brown hair and fair skin what kind of make up should i wear and i also have redish cheeks (nothing bad born with it) I am not dark but not to white and i wanted to kno what kind of makeup would be good for me.
Black eyeliner and maybe get a color of foundation or press powder that you think would be a good color on you.. id try maybe a shade darker then your natural color.. ♥ Dez
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well i was walking home from school and an old man came up to me he groped me so i punched him in his nose it was the first thing that came into my head,and it started bleeding he told me he was going to press charges what should i do?
he dont know your name or anything so dont worry about it plus he touched you first.. ♥ dez
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What kind of makeup should I get and wear like tell me brand names and what kinds of colors and where I can get them. Okay I have brown eyes, really dark brown hair it almost looks as if it is black, I have pale skin, and freckles. Honestly I wouldn't like to have freckles but yeahh...Soo please tell me what kind of makeup I should get!
try cover girl.. or loreal.. they are good brands and stay on for a long time.. for your eyes i would get black eye liner and line the top lid of your eye and bottom.. that will make your brown eyes stand out more.. also maybe get some eye shadows fo your choice.. like i would get some light and dark colors cause alot of eyeshadows look good with brown eyes.. i would get maybe a darker foundation or something for your face then what your natural color is so it covers your freckles that you dont like and it will also make you not look as pale.. and i would maybe a get a clear lipgloss thats a good tasting flavor for your lips so they are shiny.. ♥ Dez
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Ive had sex wit one guy and everything and Ive been on top and done the whole reg. position. But I wanna know how many positions are there, what are they, and how they work? People always ask me what muh fav. position is and I have no idea. Im not that experienced so I have no idea. I juss wanna know so I wont look stupid in any way and I can know for muhself..Thanks! Hope you all can help me
their are so many positions.. i mean here are very known ones.. *him on top..*girl on top..*doggy style.. But some people do it standing up like the girl in front of guy and hittin it from behind like doggy style but its standing up.. i mean also while the guy is on top you can put your legs on his shoulders thats good.. ummm you can also do a reverse cowgirl which is when you ride them the oposite way.. i mean you can make up different ways to have sex.. i have been having sex with the same guys for ten months about three times a week or more and everytime we do it..its like we have done a different position.. we never stay in one position.. ♥ Dez
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I was three days late for my period so I took two home pregnacy test and they both came up with a very faint positve. I then got my period like an hour after I took the second one. Is it possible that the test were wrong or can you be pregnate and still get your period?
Its ver rare that people have a period while being pregnant.. but my older sister had a period while being 8 months pregnant so its not completely impossible.. and she went to the doctor about it cause she thought she might of been miscarraging but the doctor said she had a period.. i think you should just see a doctor so that way you dont have worries.. ♥ Dez
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Hey ok i just asked a question about how old you should be to wear a thong and most people said about 13 and well im 13 and i wanta ask my mom if we can get some but how should i ask??
i dont think their is an age limit on how old you have to wear freakin underwear.. just tell your mom you want some thongs no big deal.. its like tellin her you needed bras.. ♥ Dez
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