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♥ Im suuuper bored right now. && I usually dont play games on the internet lol. But it sounds like fun riight now. Anyone know anyone good sites with lots of games? just like easy ones not like the sports ones. Thanks!!

go to www.addictinggames.com...theyhave easy games like "spank the monkey" (my favorite EVERR!) and "ping pong" which goes on forever but keeps you occupied. have funn!

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There is this guy that I like a lot and we tend to flirt sometimes and stuff..... Well the thing is he has a g/f and I am friends with her and I would never want to hurt her..... I just feel bad because this is the one guy that I have come to like a lot and he is taken..... And now he does not talk to me anymore and I just want to be friends with him because our friendship means so much to me its just I dont know how to aproach this... can you guys help me out

stay friends with both and do not, i repeat, DO NOT hit on the guy until they break up or your in for some MAJOR drama! be nice, stay the same and dont rush things.

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I want to get hair extensions. My hair is already long, but i want to cut it and get blonde entensions. Has anyone ever gotten them? Did you get synthetic or real hair? How much did it cost? How long did the hair look healthy for? Tell me about it.
Thanks.

my friend got human hair extensions and she had to save up for them. she got the glued on with latex glue and they would start comming off occasionally as her hair grew so she had the glue handy at all times. oh and yes, it looked natural. hope that helps!

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Okay, this was my first time using tampons. I used a couple, just to practice getting them in and out. I have a little trouble finding "the hole" and putting it all the way in. Is there anything I can do about this? And I know I could've gone a bit farther putting it in, but when I sit straight up, I can feel it just a little bit. Is this because I didn't put it in all the way, or I'm just not used to it.? And I'm worried about getting toxic shock syndrome, and everything. Andd I have to go to my friend's house tmrw and swim and it's like a bbq w/ her family and all. I am so scared about this...I'm just ready to crawl under a rock..Then i'll be gone all day at my other friend's house on Monday. Omg, what should I do about this situation???!!!! I'll rate high!!!

to get it in, its has to be slanted towards your butt, not straight in! it hurts b/c its not put in all the way or in the right way. you will fell it but then you kinda forget about it. as for tss, dont use to big of an absorbancy (regular at the most) and change it after 4 hours. keep a [makeup or otherwise small] mirror where plan to take/change your tampon.it will help you.

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ok well im 14/f n i dont consider my self as " ugly" but i still didnt have my first kiss but im not like some girls out there who are like freaked out bcuz they aint sure how to kiss. im ready n all but i want to kiss soon hehe. i dotn wanna b like 17 n still didnt kiss so my question is it better to tell the guy that you are about to kiss that you never kissed b4 or just go with the flow.srri its kinda long.

wait for someone special... most people dont realy care they just want to say that theyve been kissed. youll remember it forever so might as well be someone you care about, not just some guy thats kissed several hundred other girls taht wanted their first kiss. you're 14, youve got time!! they dont have to know its your first kiss. oh and im sure your not ugly...i know a lot of really pretty girls that have never been kissed.

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so i start school on tuesday and im gonna be a freshman. im a girl im 4'9 i have brown hair and green eyes. i dont know very many people i know like 6 poeple in the whole entire school. is there any way i can make friends fast? any tips or anything? i will rate high.

talk in class...dont be afraid to say things in class, smile, say goodmorning to people, ask questions, make eye contact, simple conversation and be nice...dont leave anyone out until you really get to know them...you wouldnt wanna be the one who nobody talks to. talk to everyone you see && dont take yourself too seriously. works for me, just passing down the wisdom!

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If yur on the 1st day of yur period, but yur flow is just normal, not heave and not light, can yu go swimming w/o a tampon? Like is there anything yu can use or do to go swimming w/o a tampon. Dont talk about how easy to use and comfortable tampons r, thats not what i care about. Plees help, i rate high

if your not heavy then you can go without protection. if you have more than just a bit, wear a tampon because otherwise you are either in a puddle of blood or not swimming at all. dont wear a pad in a pool no matter what anyone says!! (just a word of caution.)

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Why when your on the phone with a guy and he's playing Madden 2006 or any kind of Football game on X Box or Playstation 2 or what ever. That it sounds like he's masturbating?

-ShanN*

hmm, it could be that he's really into the game and he's overjoyed with the play or really mad at the team. thats hilarious tho! anyway, since most guys have those games in their rooms or basement and spend hours at a time in there, i wouldnt be surprised if he was giving himself a hand while talking to you.

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i had unprotected sex about 3 days ago. he didn't cum inside me, so i know i'm not pregnant. but could i still have gotten any stds, even though there haven't been any signs so far?

right now, you could have both and not know it. stds dont always show up quickly and im pretty sure precum can get you pregnant sooo go online, look up all the info on this and get well informed, take a pregnancy test and get tested for stds at a local clinic. http://www.about.com, hope this helps!

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Hey. I was wondering in what stores do they sell some good matresses. (Besides IKEA cuz me and my parents dont like their stuff) .. and I was wondering where are some cheap but quality places? lol

also.. does anyone know where I can get a feather matress? Those things rawk, but I can never find them anywhere.

Also what are some cool stuff for rooms. Not fancy or anything or too decorative, but just weird pillows or colors or anything like that.

Thanks in advance.

i dont know if these are all over the us, but try furniture fair and other places like that.
as for the feather matress, i have a feeling you mean feather conmforter but anyway i havent heard of those.
cool stuff for rooms: groovy lamps, window treatments, beaded doors, lots of color, pillows you can get at target, pics of friends, cool picture frames. (i dont know what falls under "too decorative" so im just naming things.) try pbteen.com for some ideas!

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well, my mom doesnt know i am having the discharge thing, how can i tell her? i alwys email her but i dont wanna tell her though that way.... or talk to her in person eather.. or a note and that shizzz. i dont wanna tell my sister bc shel be like "okay idc" so how can i tell my mom?

discharge is normal unless its green and smells like dead fish so really, your mom doesnt need to know if its not a huge infection. just flat out say what you told us and she'll reply with "ok, that great hunny". hope that helps!

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Aight, I just had my first taste of love, and now, I'm pissed off at people who look for just sex appeal or hotness. That's not true love, it's just how they look. How can I get un-pissed without seeing a therapist? Thanks, and by the way, I give 1s to wiseasses.

it makes a lot of people mad. knowing what people want that isnt love will make you a better judge of charecter and you will find better people to date than horny kids looking for sex. to get un-pissed, ignore guys (or girls, you didnt specify, sorry) until dating is real and its not all about being physical for popularity. hope this helps!

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what is a next bird or next girl i hear lads talking about it all the time they go oh i went with a next bird last night or a next girl it really anoys me cause i dont no what it is but i dont want to ask them incase i end up looking stupid they just come out with things like my mate wen of with a next girl does anyone no what it is or what it means

hmm, i've never heard that before... i would ask them. you cant just know everything, they had to ask someone to find out too so if they make fun of you, laugh it off! well my guess is that the "next girl" is like a "holla back girl" which is like a rebound girl...not your first choice, your second choice. hope this helps!!

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Is there anything I can do to make myself look older? I already dress my age and wear enough of makeup. But there's something about my face that makes me seem younger. Are than makeup tips that can help change this? 17/f. Thank you!

well if you dont already, wear eyeliner. dont wear tons of makeup tho. shape your eyebrows too. hope this helps!

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Can a yeast infection delay your period and make it late?

well i dont know anything about this honestly but i can give you some links and hopefully you will find what you need.
http://www.about.com
http://www.ivillage.com
http://www.beinggirl.com
http://www.pinkslip.com
^hope that helps!

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If you went to the doctor for a pap smear, they would be able to tell if you're pregnant, right? What other things show up on the pap smear results besides if you have any kind of cancer down there?

i would think it would show if you have any kind of stds and things along those lines but im really not sure. try www.ivillage.com, they have all kinds of articles on female problems.

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So I shave my underarms every day...but lately I've been getting ingrown hairs and that's never happened before. It's kinda gross...it looks like I have pimply armpits or something (I wash my arm pits every day). I think it might have been because I changed my deoderant recently...but I don't think that makes sense because I don't put on deoderant until after I shave. So does anyone know why this happened and what I can do to fix it? Because it's the hottest month of the year and I would like to be able to wear tank tops again.

shave every other day instead and use some kind of moisturizing deoderant and/or soap like dove. hope that helps!

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What happens durring sex? Like what all do you do?

www.about.com

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See I want to learn how to play the bass.... that is not my problem my problem is I dont know what is the best bass to get when you are first starting off.... And I need to find a cheap one.... if you can give me a link to as site I will be very greatful..... I also always rate 5's

well i dont play personally, my bro wants to tho. there are good priced basses at willis music && guitar center(

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Okay, I finally convinced my mom to start letting me wear tampons. But we're going in the afternoon to get them. (And Im on my period) But my dad wanted me to go down on his bike (motorcycle) to a couple places that are hours away, even in another state, and I have to wear pads. Last time I had an overflow. I'm afraid of that happening again. We're going in the morning at like 11:00am. So what can I do to prevent this? Is there anything I can do? And for another question, what about the tampons? Will they hurt, what if I forget about them,or if I can't understand the directions? Please help. Sorry this is so long. But i'll rate high for good answers. Thanks a lot.

if your heavy (it can happen the second time your on it) get regular. that should keep you safe on the bike. if your still nervous wear a thin pad along with it. no, it wont hurt.

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