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Age: 15
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i know this question was already asked but i need more opinions... ok im in 8th grade and ive been going out with this guy for a long time we useally go to the movies talk on the phone and just hang out in school..the other day i asked him to come overmy house and as soon as i left went to my best friend and was like guess where im going on friday ..rachels house and she like she didn't tell me that and he goes i know she just asked me and like the whole week he sounded really excited that he was comeing to my house he would be like im dying to see your house and i can't wait till friday.. the night before he came over he called me and was looking my house up on map quest lol and then he was like we have to do alot of stuff over the summer because ill miss you too much and i thought that was soo cute the next day in the hall i asked him what time he was gonna come over and he said after lacrosse practice he had to take a shower and then his parents were going to his grandpas birthday party and they whould drop him off on the way there and i was like u can't miss your grandpas party for me and hes like yeah i can its the same thing every year soo i was like okk then he sat next to my best friend and goes im goign to rachels tonight but im scared i haveing been to a girls house in forever...later that night he called me and said that his grandpa was going to flip if he didn't go to his party and hes like this sucks i really wanted to hang out with you and was like i promise well do it this week which we have off..i even drove by his house and there was no lights on and nobody was home ....today someone told me that they saw him at a lacrose game that night..im soo shocked i can't believe he would tell me that he hd to go to his grandpas party and then go to a game with his friends ive allways thought he really liked me like with the stuff he does and says but i dont why he did this like i cant believe it please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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That person could've lied about seeing him at the game. Or, maybe they have mistaken him for someone else. Just talk to him and try to find out the truth. Ask him if he really does like you and if so why would he do that to you. Make plans for another time, and if he ditches you again, well you get the picture. Good luck hunnie!




-Brianna


I just got a boyfriend 2 days ago, but i havent had a b.f. in a while and i dont noe how to like act like his girlfriend and not just his friend. I only see him a few times a day, cus were not in many classes together, but i dont noe whut to do! Id appreciate anything! =] .. i rate high! (link)
Just talk to him and be yourself. Just act like you like him and make sure he knows for sure. Give it some time, you guys will get more comfortable with each other as time goes on!




-Brianna


well i have a mole on my cheek and i told my mom i wanna get it rmoved she said yea, but it depends on when the doctors say i can... does anybody know if theres a certain age you have to wait til to get something like that removed? (link)
18 legally, but I think you have to be 16 (I could be wrong and probably am) to get it removed with parents signature. I am not 100 percent sure though!




-Brianna


is it safe to try inserting a tampon if you dont hae your period? (just for practice) (link)
No, if you do you have a bigger chance of getting TSS (toxic shock syndrome). Read the back of the box.




-Brianna


well my eyes keep stinging latly around them.. there not red but they string like crazy and it makes me want to itch them more why is this and how can i stop the sting.. its like i been crying for ages .... and my eyes are stinging and also they keep feeling as if like an eyelash is in them and you just rub it and rub it till it goes away and when you open your eye it waters and hurts and feels as if something is in there, please help ima go put some water on them now xxx lush me please help (link)
Put in eyedrops, it sounds as is your eyes are just really dry or maybe you have allergies!




-Brianna


ok so i was being really stupid but i was talking on the phone and trying to straighten my hair at the same time when i accidentally burnt myself right below my chin!! it looks so bad, so does anyone know how to cover it up or get it not to scar!! please help! (link)
Put concealer then powder on it!




-Brianna


hey everyone. i am thinking about cutting my hair. my hair is kinda long. its right below my breasts. i want to cut it like jamie lynn spears in this picture.
http://www.tvtome.com/images/people/138/8/17-36657-sm.jpg

right above is the link to the picture of the hair cut i want to get. tell me if you think its cute and i should get it. p.s i will even side part it like hers if i get it (link)
Well, it depends on what you look like. Everyone is getting that haircut and it looks good on most, so it will probably look good on you too! Go for it.




-Brianna


My boyfriend's parents just don't like me and I can't figure out why! I don't smoke, drink, or do anything like that. I'm in college with a 4.0 GPA for Journalism and Communications and I do lots of volunteer work. What's not to like?!? All my ex-boyfriend's mom's have loved me to death: I even still hang out with one of them! I also do so many things for my boyfriend, such as when he has a big test to study for, I'll organize his desk, do his laundry, or bring him dinner. I leave him sweet notes in the morning! We've been going out for 2 years, and he absolutely loves me, yet his parents have a different opinion. They tell him that he needs to date other people and that they don't think I'm right for him. This is just so strange to me! What's going on? (link)
Some people when you meet them have negative feelings for them. That is just human nature. Maybe they think you are too good to be true and a fake. They could think that you are only nice when they are around. I don't know what else to tell you talk to them or something! Good luck.




-Brianna


What's better..

Ipod Mini that holds 1,000 songs
or
Ipod Mini that holds 1,500 songs

It's a $50 difference and I'm wondering if it's worth the 500 songs, and if anyone has one please let me know what types of problems you've had if you've had any (link)
Do you actually think that you listen to 1500 songs? If you do, then get the bigger storage holding one. I would get the 1000 one though!bye




-Brianna


This may not sound serious but it is. I was having a nervous break down during math because of this.

I can not stand the phrase "I never knew that." It just drives me insane. Whenever I hear it I either cry or scream. I just hate the phrase. So my question is how can I get over this? I am asking this in all seriousness. My friend who has a column here (she's asking this since I can't get on) has even told me do get help for this. (link)
Yea, that is a little weird. I would go see a therepast or something!



-Brianna


Hey, Im 15/f and I have been having some problems with my breasts> (Yeah, I'm sorry...it's sorta ugh). Anyways, recently my breasts have started to hurt. It's not major pain or anything or severe. They've just been feeling like their stretching or something.... Also if it helps, I'm not exactly well- endowed right now....Thank you so much! ~West (link)
That means they are growing. Or, it means you are going to get your period soon. It's nothing to worry about! Hope I've helped.




-Brianna


ok, here's the story: i liked this guy (let's call him Bob) and my friend likes (or liked) this other guy (let's call him Bill). well, we told each other during spring break about who we liked. and we promised not to tell. and neither of us did.
But now i don't like Bob and i think she still likes Bill, because it's really obvious (she flirts with him and stuff), but now that i say i don't like Bob, she acts like she doens't like Bill and if i tell her it's really obvious, she threatens to say that i still like Bob to one of the school's blabbermouths.
i know she still likes Bill and i'm getting sick of agreeing that she doesn't like him.
(by the way, we're only in junior high) (link)
What a friend you have blackmailing you. Even though you know you know she likes Bill and she says she doesn't just let it go. It's obvious that she does. Don't let it ruin your friendship!




-Brianna


ok i have stretch marks on my legs (15/f) and i was wondering how the heck do i get rid of them? summers comming up and i dont want to be seen in a swim suit with stretch marks on my hip/legs...
please help i rate high (link)
Palmers Cocoa Butter. They won't go away for good, they will just fade a great amount. It won't be that fast either until they go away!




-Brianna


How do I lose weight fast. What should I watch for in my food like how many calories or you know. How do I lose weight and get a tight stomach at home without buyin things like pills. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!1
I will rate high to any one who answers my question bad or gud thanx (link)
No such thing as losing weight fast, sweetie! Drink alot of water, don't drink soda, don't eat candy. Eat alot of fruits and vegetables. Go to www.toneteen.com they have good work outs!




-Brianna


Ok. There us this guy named Josh. We have had plans to go out after my best friend had broken up with him (for the 50th time). We wanted to wait a while so she wouldnt get mad and so she would get over him. Well it turns out she isnt over him and hes not over her, but he still likes me. So i see him flirt with her all the time, and it really hurts. I know he still likes me because we always flirt together all the time. But i just dont know what to do. I don't think he can choose between me or her. I REALLY like him. But i dont want my best friend to hate me. And i am affraid that if she goes out with him again i will be really hurt and depressed, i have a funny feeling i wont want to hang out with her anymore. PLease help! I dont want to loose my best man or my best friend!! (link)
Hoes before bros. It is like an unwritten law that you aren't suppose to date your best friends boyfriend if they have been dating atleast more than once. I can see if they went out for like a week. But as you said they were on and off. He thinks he is a "player" since he knows the fact that both of you like him. He isn't a good boyfriend as you aren't a good friend for making plans to go out with your bestfriends boyfriend while they were going out.



-Brianna


alright, can masterbation do anything to make it where you won't be able to get pregnant in the future or cause like any damage down there (link)
No, lol.




-Brianna


I've realized how alot of girls are asking how to loose weight and such. Everyone wants a flat, toned tummy, and it really bothers me because we think we have to be like all of these models and stars so guys will like us. Guys, honestly, do you want a stick for a girlfriend or a little cusion for the pushin? I mean back in the 70s and 80s people werent so judgmental and didn't look at someone and say, "your fat". I mean can i get an AMEN! Im sick of people saying they are fat, and saying they need to loose weight when they dont. Think about it! Leave comments and explain why you want to be a stick.
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People who want a toned stomach and whatnot aren't necessarily "sticks" that is stereotyping right there. Would you want to see a 300 pound woman in a bikini? I don't think so! It sounds like you are just jealous. Being skinny came make a person feel better about themselves and therefore, they think they will look better. People are trying hard to be skinny because hello, half of the US is overweight. When the government steps in and says it's not right that soo many people are fat, then that's what people should want to be skinny.




-Brianna


I'm 14 and I already lost my virginity... Is that normal? (link)
Yea, it is a little young but nowadays everyone loses their virginity before they are 15. I think you were to young but, that is just my opinion!




-Brianna


my boyfriend always trys to get me to do things in front of other guys... and when i dont' he gets mad and says stupid and prude. he gets his other guy friends to rag on me. and the other night i was on my rag. he wouldn't leave me alone.. so i took out all my anger on him... then he told me i was lucky to have him... hes realy sweeet wen nobody else is around.. and i dont' want to break up with him...what should i do? (link)
Sorry to hear that your boyfriend is a jerk around other guys. He is not a good boyfriend if he calls you stupid and prude because you don't do shit with him. You do not have to do anything with any one if you don't want too! I can see that you wouldn't want to do stuff with him in front of his friends too! Tell him that you don't like how he acts in front of his friends and that you are uncomfortable doing stuff in front of him. In my eyes, he is not a good boyfriend. Good luck!




-Brianna


This morning my boyfriend is being a major jerk. I don't know why, but it's like he doesn't even care how I feel today. I wish he would just talk to me. I am trying to send him hints, but it's not working! How can I get his attention? (link)
Ugh, tell him that he is hurting your feelings today. Maybe something is bothering him lately and he doesn't want to tell you. Give him some time too cool off! Good luck.




-Brianna




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