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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.



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Ok I am freaking out right now and I really need help! Today During dinner I accedentaly spilled some of my milk on my MP3 player that I got for christmas and it was a lot of money! Well I just went to go turn it on and it's not working! What should I do! How do I get it to work! Please help me!

maybe it is still wet insdie, so ket it dry ut for a while. or take it apart and look at it. see if you ruined anything inside of it or if it is just wet. if its wet, then take a hairdryer and blow dry it dry. see if that will help make it work. if you do that and you cant get it to work, then you ruined it and there is no fixing it. which means if you want an mp3 player, then you have to buy a new one.

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i have a naturally quiet voice, especially when singing, any advice on how to sing louder? i have to sing in fron of judges ina couple weeks and thats one thing i would like to work on

well breath from your diaphram, sing from it with air. take a deep breath before you sing. know how to control your breathing. and belt.

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I was at my friend's house the other day and we decided to make him pass out. Then i wanted to try it just to see how it felt. So i hyper-venalated myself, held my breath, and let him pick me up with my arms crossed at my chest. Before i knew it i woke up and was on the floor. Everyone was staring at me and i didn't remember anything but it was really cool. I did it about 12 more times. Is there a health risk when you do this? Can it cause serious damage to your brain or anything??

i know that feeling. i have done it once before. lol. it is just a really odd feeling. but yes, every time you do that, your killing brain cells. it can be really dangerous if you keep doing that.

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So on AIM you can send IM crushes through this IM robot named Cupid. And I did that, and I sent it to this guy I like and well...now hes going to know! So when he asks me about it..what do I say? I kinda regret it...and I'm scared hes just going to laugh and totally be like "ew". He said I was pretty but hes so hott and theres too many girls that like him. So, is my friendship ruined with him or what...ahh im scared! I wish we could un-do the IM crushes

dont regret it. he was prolly going to find out sooner or later. and what better way to do it than to hear it from you. that way he will know it is true. dont hide the way you feel about him. you have nothing to hide. i dont think he will stop being your friend just because you like him. he may just let you know he would just rather be your friend. so dont let anything be wrong with that.

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okay in school every one calls me a slut and im not one i never had sex,or gave anyone head!! what should i do when they call me it? please help!!
i rate high

you need to tell them that. when they call you that next time, then just be like "how can i be one if i never had sex"

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ok, like 2 years ago i sprained my ankle from cheerleading and ever since then it always pop when i walk up the stairs or get finished working out. is that normal? and my wrists pop everytime i bend it back and forth, but i think it's from tumbling, but is that normal too? i was just wondering cause some of my friends have the same problem. thanx!

well i sprained my ankle when i was really little, then about 4 years ago i broke my ankle, then afterwards, i sprained it again. so i know what you mean about your ankle. mine pops all the time too. i dont know if that is normal or not, but i do know that it is normal for your wrists to pop, every ones wrist pops. sorry i know this wasnt much help, but if you find out, let me know. (

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(16/F)
i have been spending A LOT of time with my b/f and i haven't been spending as much time with my girlies. i want to hang out with my girlies more and spend time with my b/f just not as much. how can i tell him, nicely, that i would like some space to spend time with the girlies? thanks in advance.

well when he is talking about something for you guys to do just be like hey, im gonna spend some time with the girls. i dont really know if that qualifies as nice to you, but there is really not bad way or good way of saying it. you just tell him that you want to go out and hang with the girls for a day/noght. whatever. trust me i dont think he gonna care

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Every time someone says I wanna go to Mardi Gras, I'm always like "ME TOO!" but the truth is, I don't know exactly what its for and what you do there. I've only seen clips of people partying on the street... I think it would be fun, but what is it your doing and is it some type of celebration of some sort? It looks fun, but what is it?

http://www.infoplease.com/spot/mardigras1.html
^^^ a site to let you know everything you need/want to know about mardi gras.

its hella fun!!

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i'm dating this guy who i've known for a really long time, and i'm afraid that if we broke up we wouldn't be friends anymore. anyone have some advice? f/14

that is very possible. usually that occurs over time though. but it doesnt always work out that way. trust me. i wouldnt really worry about it. alot of times they remain freinds. you got a 50/50 chance of that. as long as you two arent thinking of breaking up right now, then dont worry about it. if your that worried then talk to him about it. let him know what bothering you so much. im sure he will talk to you about it.

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Ok. There is this girl at our school and like 2 monthes ago, i got the same shoes as her. Now, yesterday she wore these shoes to school and my friend and I alreayd have them but we were just too scared to wear them. So anyways, should we wear them to school or what, beacuse this girl gets mad whenver people :copy: her. What should we do?!

omfg... people need to grow up
it is only a pair of shoes. who the hell cares if you have the same ones. jsut wear them. if you like them and they are comfortable to wear, then thats all that matters.

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what does it mean when a guy says "he can't have a gf right now?" is that a way to let the girl down easy or is it the truth?!

it could be both. sometimes it a guy will say that to let a girl down easy.(that could be one of many excuses). or it could really be true.

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about the gyno thing... if didnt want my parents to know then how would it get paid for.. would it on be on the insurance, and it would be could they find out?

well it could be. but all you have to do is let them know that you want the billing in your name. or they can mail it in a plain white envelope, so it deosnt have your insurance company's name on it. so let them now that. and plus your 18, maybe try putting your medical insurane under your name. usually they make you at the age of 18.
anything else, let me know.

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My parents got divorced and i'v been living with my mom, brother, and step-dad for over a year. I feel really bad for my dad because he lives alone and seems lonley. I think he should get a pet too bt he works and say`s he wouldn`t be able to take care of it and stuff. I think i want to live with my dad, but if i do i know my mom will cry and get alll upset.. :/ what should i do or say?! Plez help

well that is something she will just ave to learn to deal with. she sohouuld understand. but if she doesnt seem to get why, just explainto her that he is your dad, you o have the option to choose who you would like to live with. tell her you find that he is lonely and would just like to try it out and see how things go. tell her its not permanent at frist, but it could very possibly becme a permanent issue. tell her that you will still see her and all but just choose to want to live with your dad.

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im 18 years old and my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year and were thinking about having sex.. if we do, do i need to see a gynocologist (sp?). thats what ive heard but i need to know if its really necessary and how i would set it up. and what would happen there if i went?

well you should start going once a year and get checked out. most females start going between the ages of 16-18. it is best to see a gyno when you are thinking about being sexually active. if you are living with parents annd guardians and you do not wish for them to know about you seeing the gyno, then you can call your family doctor and have them refer you to one. then you may proceed in calling the gyno's office and let them know that you want to schedule an appointment, but you do not wish for your family to know about it. you can tell that that you prefer if they only talk to you and dont leave a message on the machine or anything like that. when you go to the gyno they will just check you. they will give you a pap smear, check your breasts, and show you how to check them yourself.

it will be a little uncomfortable, but nothing to worry about. its is normal to feel nervous about going there for the first time. but again, you shouldnt worry.
if you have anymore questions, just ask me.

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I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?

yes you should shave your legs and armpits. you dont have to shave as often in the winter, becasue no one will see you, but you should still shave. instead of like every day to every other day maybe like once a week would be better. but if you dont shave, that is sorta very unlady like. sorta gross to.

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I like this boy and I know for a fact that the feeling is mutual. I know enough about boys to be able to tell. But he isnt making a move. He's said before that he's pretty shy when it comes to girls..But this particular boy has had sex before. Only once though (so he says). Is it possible for a boy who has had sex before to be shy around girls now?! =S Help.

yes
he was comfortable around that girl. your not that same girl. so itis very possible.

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i have windows xp and im using the regular Word processor that it comes with (not microsoft works word processor) just REGULAR WORD and i NEED to double space my paper but i cant find any possible way to do it, but i know there's a way. how do i do it? (dont say press enter cause that'll get screwed up when i print) thanks SO much!

go to the format column at the top of the window screen, look for paragraph, when you fnd it click it, then choose the setting that says "spacing" and then clikc it and choose double.

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how do you do thoes cool things like Ä ╝ like what are the codes? does anybody know where to get the codes to do it, i know its alt suttin ? please help me!

there are so many codes. but the site i have listed below gives you them--

http://www.coloryourprofyle.com/phade/alt.html


just do a search, under google or whatever your homepage is for your internet explorer, for alt codes. it will bring up a whole bunch of pages for you too choose from. pick one and there ya go.. you got the alt codes you have been looking for.

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okay i like this guy we'll call him erik so anyways erik and i have been good friends since school started and well now that he had found out that i liked him he flirts with me even more and gives me at least one hug everyday but you see the hug is longer then it is with the rest of the girls that gives him hugs and also he holds me really close to him so i really want to ask him to the dance this friday but im not sure how does anyone have any ideas so i possibly wont get rejected if he was just playin with me? sry for the length

just come out and ask him. be like
hey so and so i was wondering if you were going to the dance on friday and if you had someone to go woth. if he says yes hes going and no he isnt going with someone then, be like would you like to go with me, atleast as a friend.

that way it shows that you like him and would like to go with him if only just as friends. this way he cant say no because he doenst like you like that, because youa sked as a friend. it may help aid in the rejection.

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Well last night i went to a superbowl prty at my friends b/f house, his friend was there!To be honest i nvr really liked him but we were flirting and we sat down to watch the superbowl and he sat next to me, we went closer and closer and by the end of the night we were holding hands and cuddling.But in the middle of all this he starts talkin about the girl he likes.And he says he likes me but he likes the other girl more.But it's one of those shes way out of his league and she doesn't like him at ALL!!Should i ask him out or should i get let him get over her?But i want to go out wit him in time for valentines day!

~Tina~

you should ask him out and see how it goes. if he says yes, then your set. if he says no, then he just needs time to get over her and only wishes to remain cool with you.

but try it. the worst he can do is say no. what do you got to lose?

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