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NEED SOME SPACE!
(16/F)
i have been spending A LOT of time with my b/f and i haven't been spending as much time with my girlies. i want to hang out with my girlies more and spend time with my b/f just not as much. how can i tell him, nicely, that i would like some space to spend time with the girlies? thanks in advance.
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ummm you can either hang with your girlies and your b/f. or tell him that your friends want to go to the mall this weekend and i think i'm going to go with them is that alright. if he says but i want to spend the weekend with you. then hes not worth it. hope i helped
*airhead*
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Make plans with your friends over the weekend and tell your boyfriend that you want to spend some time with your friends and he should spend some time with his friends, since you both haven't been spending as much time with them. If he wants to ask you to hang out, tell him that you are going to hang out with your friends. He should understand. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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just talk to him truthfully. tell him nicly that you would like to spend some more time with ur girlz but he still means everything to you. just make sure that he still knows you want him, and maybe have some of his friends and yours spend a day together so your still with your gurls and him.
good luck!
hope i helped!
xoxo
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you have to be sweet and upfront about it. just say "hun, i love ya and all, but i think i need to spend some time w/my girls! they are like sis's to me and i miss not being with them, not that i dotn like being with you! cuz i do! but i really need time with my friends just like you need tiem with your friends!" or sumthign along those lines. you juss gotta reassure him that you luv being with him and stuff, but you need a bit of space ot still be you! i hope things go good! drop me a message if ya need more help!
Juelz
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You should have days were like you can spend time with him and other days with your girlies. Well if that doesnt work than you can just tell him that you need time to be with your friends.
-poopiepantsgirly*
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You need to spend time with your friends, so I'm sure he'll understand when you tell him that. Friends are just as important and you can't keep ditching them for your boyfriend. If he wants to do something one night, explain to him that your having a all girls night. Then maybe he can go hangout with his friends and catch up on old times. You can even start hanging out as a group. Go to the mall, movies, your house, etc, with your friends and his friends all together. That way you'll get to see eachother and your friends!
♥ Krissy
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Tell him that you still want to hang out with him... but you think you should hang out with your friends more and he should do the same... there is so many situations when girls and guys ditch their friends for their boy/girl friends... and they end up loosing their friends. he'll be thrilled to hang out with the guys... as you will with your girls. make sure he dosent take it the wrong way... that your getting annoyed of him or soemthing.. :( just tell him that you never see your friends anymore and they miss you and you miss them and your gonna start to hang out with them more... if you put it nicely and innocently like that... he'll be perfectly oK with it! gOOd luck HuN!
xOxO, aLeX
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well when he is talking about something for you guys to do just be like hey, im gonna spend some time with the girls. i dont really know if that qualifies as nice to you, but there is really not bad way or good way of saying it. you just tell him that you want to go out and hang with the girls for a day/noght. whatever. trust me i dont think he gonna care
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hey if i where u, i would...
next time he asks you to go somewhere with him, tell him u have plans with yur friends. do this until u feel comfortable
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just tell him that you need some time with your girls to catch up, and he can go with the guys. that way you both are out with friends and nobody's left out in the cold!
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Tell him you have friends outside of him, if he cant accept that, drop him like 3rd period french, hes a demanding bitch if he cant understand you.
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Whatever you do, don't use the term "some space" or "more space". It sounds like you're blowing him off, when you're really not. Just tell tim that you want a couple more "girls night out". He can go hang with his male friends for a while.
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be straightforward with him. tellhim that you have to put your friends first. friends will be there always but b/fs leave. so just let him know. good luck
~ANGE
*~respect yourself~*
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Well, try saying that you are having a girls night only. Or tell him that he can hang out with his guy friends also! He should understand, because maybe he feels the same?
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