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Well I had a 50 dollar bill and well my cousin watched me put it in my purse and then I walked away for a second and well I know for a fact that she steals stuff from my family cause my family geos on vaction every year and she and her mom and brother stay at our house and one time she told me that she stole my sisters cds and bra and underwaer and I think that she took my money cause I cant find it anywhere! How can I ask her without getting her mom mad at me?? easy fives thankss...and I will report bullsh*t answers

Just straight out ask. If she doesn't respond right away or looks like she's lying, tell her mom. I'm sure she will be forced to return it.

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okay, for starters there's this guy named connor.he's my ex but the only reason we broke up was because his family was moving to richmond.
but the thing is during this summer, when he was suppposed to move to richmond, his dad got a job offer that was really great over here.so now he's my neighbor and it's really weird cause i have no idea how to act around him.i mean i got over him this summer but something in my head is telling me that if we were still together then we really could have had something.is it wrong to think that?

No not at all. I would wait it out and see what happens between you two. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok well there's this guy...and i think i might like him! well... i used to really hate him, but i barely knew him...and now that i know him really well, we're really good friends- and hes so cute! he has a girlfriend who is in high school now (we are 8th graders) but he flirts with me a lot, he pretends to ask me out in a kidding way and he like tells me i'm hot, he actually flirts with a lot of girls though, especially one of my best friends, but i totally like him! another thing is that he used to go out with another one of my friends, who i am kind of making up. she really hates him now, though,and this is just so weird. I don't know what I should do! i like this guy sooo much! please help me! i rate ♥

Well if he flirts with other girls, its probably not worth it. Another thing, if he has a girlfriend, find someone else. Maybe you two can become really good friends. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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is masturbation bad for your body?

I've heard its healthy.

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Hi I am an advice columnist. I need some help. I am at a friends and I was at her neighbors house. We were tumbling and I knocked over one of the nice lady's pot holders. I broke the pot and I have scratches all over my legs. My friend got me out of there as fast as she could. I feel so bad. What do I do?

I would either a) Replace the vase or B) Apologize for breaking it. One of them's bound to work. As for your leg, put some bandaids on it and tell your parents about it. Hope I helped!

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in your xanga where it says comments, hoe do you change it to say something else.if you don't get hwta i mean then just say so.

Go to the side and at the bottom is says Need help.. Click here. Go to the section where it says Comments and EProps and it should have a link. Click it and you can change the comments and EProps. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Hey. I was recently thinking about becoming a model, I dont know...just for fun for a little while. Everyone says that Im really gorgeouse (spelling??) and that I should go for it while I am still young. The thing is..I have no idea where to start!!! So I guess my question is, how would I break in...are there any former or current models here that could help. I just dont really want to get screwed over by some stupid company that says they know what they are doing, but really its just a scam...I've heard the horror stories. so Any Ideas??? Easy 5's!!!

I want to be a model too. Try www.Barbizon.com. I've called them. Go to an audition and see if you have what it takes. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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my boyfriend and i have been together for about 2 years now and im really upset tonight because he promised me he wasnt gonna go somewhere because todays our anniversary but then when he got here he told me he had to go and he couldnt help it. we got in a big fight before he left. i just had surgery and he wasnt able to be there because of his dad and this weeks been terrible. anyway we had a big fight and he said he was just gonna go so i could sleep and not be angry at him. and i havent talked to him since then and that was several hours ago and he said hed be back before then. i guess i dont really have a question, i just need someone to tell me something idk if anyone wants to talk on aim please leave me ur sn

Well my AIM is mooch774 if you want to talk about it hun. I would wait it out and if he doesn't return, ask him what's up. Leave a ton of messages on his cell and his answering machine at home and he should get that you're upset. Hope I helped!

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I need your opinion:
I have been love for four years.
I am 17 now.
Some people say I'm too young and others say that seventeen is ld enough to know what you want.
I've always been mature for my age and when I told everyone I was in love at fourteen, needless to say, they didn't believe it. But it has been years and I am still in love.
Do you think I'm "old enough" to be in love? If I am, then wasn't I old enough when I was fourteen because back then, I was sure I would be in love forever and I still am.

Yes you're old enough. You can find true love at any age. And yes you were old enough when you were 14. But there are other guys out there.

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i know this is the dumbest question ever. but my and my boyfreind are going on being together a month. do we celebrate by the date (it was september 16th btw, which will be four weeks on tuesday) or do we celebrate it by the day of hte week? i have no idea wether i should do somehting for him on tuesday, or wait until the 16th?

Usually you celebrate by the day that you got together.

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ok things have gotten really stressfull in my life right now and i need soem help. the only way i have found to handle my stress is smoking. i have smoked for 4 years offa nd on. but never as much as i smoke now. about a year ago a pack would last me almost a week. now it barely lasts me over a day! i want to slow down, but i tend to get grumpy and really super stressed when i do. any ways i can either cut down with out freakign out or just take away some of my stress? i know smoking so much is only harming my body not helping, but i dont know any other ways to handle my stress

Well the best way to quit is to not start. The best way to quit is maybe going to a support group where there's kids your own age who suffer from wanting to quit smoking. Hope I helped!

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Hello...
i recently just broke up with my boyfriend.
now, i am a tom-girl. i hang out with ALL boys. and 2 of my best friends have a crush on me. my boyfriend was not okay with this... at all. he told me he broke up with me because he can't handle me hanging out with 2 boys (that like me) all the time. he just doesn't trust me. and he's already moving on. how can i make him see that i love him, and i only want to be with him? words aren't enough... and i just want him back.

You have to prove to him that you love him and that you'll do anything for him. He feels insecure because of these boys around you. You have t o control yourself. Hug him, make an effort to be around him and make him feel loved.

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i really like this guy.. a lot =[ i know im only 13 but i like him so much i really do. He just moved here in fifth grade, adn i liked him the first day.. hes was soo nice ! now 2-3 years later i still like him- ive been trying not to for soo long but i cant help it... we dont even talk anymore sorry this is so long =[ welll anyway he always flirts with my friends and hes like really popular and really cute he had like 5 "girlfriends" already. i never had a boyfriend. and im not that pretty, i dont think much of myself becasue i think i am kinda fat =[ i have what you call love handles and its soo embarassing.. he only likes skinny girls, im not saying im like a geek adn have no friends but i do have friends, real good ones to =] well thats a different story im trying to keep this as short as it can possibly be and sorry if i spell things wrong. i dont no what it is that makes him not even talk to me but i just wanna figure it out... sometimes hes nice but sometimes hes not i get confused. i just wnat things to go back how they used to be with us. do you have any ideas of what this could be about... =[ im soo confised and i really need to set this whole thing straight, its not wasy to talk to him when hes the most popular guy around, theres a whole other story but i think what i typed is most important.. please help!!

xoxoxoxo

No harm in asking if he wants to go out. If he says no, don't mope around. He's a guy and 99% of the time he'll still like you. Hope I helped!

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One of my best friends thinks she fat when she's really not and she says she on a diet. When I asked her though if she was on a starvation diet, she said "Next subject please." That tells me she needs help. I don't know what I should do though. I'm really worried about her. Should I tell someone even though she made me promise not to?

Thanks! I rate high! =]

Love, Brittany

I would get her help. Its one of your closest friends. Would you want her to tell someone about you? Hope I helped!

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ok, why do people not understand that you cant get over a guy so fast! i mean all my friends tell me to get over this guy! but i cant! n thn they say im dumb! WTF?!

If friends tell you to get over a guy, it takes time to get over a guy. Give it time and it'll happen. Hope I helped!

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Ok well I have a boyfriend but the thing is thatI like this one other dude too...Im not realli sure if this other dude likes me tho my friends say he does the case is dat this dude wants me to go sumplace with him and his friends and sum of my friends...I want to go b/c i just want to see if i actually have a a chance with him but im afraid i might end up cheatin on my boyfriend but i also dont want to break up with my boyfrind till im actually sure dat the other dude likes me...and wut i want
So pls help me im so confused right now
WHAT SHOULD I DO????

Forget the other boy if you love and want the relationship with your boyfriend to last. That's just kinda wrong to like a dude when you already have someone. Hope I helped!

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I broke up with this guy that i really liked and its been about a week now. Friday I went to the football game and i saw him there. He waved and so did i. But i have another boyfriend now and he saw me with him. He has a girfriend too. Today i called him and he told his mom he didnt want to talk to me. So i had my friend call him and halfway when she was talking he hung up on her. I have been crying my eyes out all day. What can i do??
I rate high!!

If you liked him, why did you dump him? If he moved on so quickly, you have to move on too. Hope I helped!

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What would be worse?

Straightening your hair alomost everday

or

Putting mousse,gel and hairspray in it almost everyday as well?

Putting gel, mousse and hairspray in it everyday. Chemicals can damage your hair. Hope I helped!

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me and my bf just kissed yesterday..he did it so unexpected i got shocked..and im a little werided out cause i dont think i kissed right and he kissed weird...i love him so much nd it doesnt matter to me..but it just seems weird...i dont know what to do...and me and him want to kiss more

Well kissing takes practice. Don't stress on whether or not you did it right. Did you enjoy it? If so, keep going. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Sorry for another guy question, but I could use some help.
I like a guy that I went out with about a year ago. ( I never stopped liking him, he broke up with me ) Well we've become really good friends again. We started to hang out, go on golf cart rides, talk at school, phone calls. I didn't wanna tell him I liked him, cause I didn't want to scare him away. Well someone found out and told him. I called him and he said someone told him that I liked him. I got embarressed and mad so I hung up. He called me back and told me I didn't have to hang up. He said he didn't mind. later that night we talked for hours on the phone. How do I find out if he likes me back or not? ( I don't want my friends to ask him, cause I know he seriously hates when other people ask him stuff like that.) Do I just go up to him and ask him ?

I will rate all 5`s since it's so long.
xox

Go up and ask him. What's the problem? Have some courage and be prepared for a No answer. 9 times out of 10 they either aren't interested or have a boyfriend. No harm in asking. Good luck! Hope I helped!:)

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