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Ok well I have a boyfriend but the thing is thatI like this one other dude too...Im not realli sure if this other dude likes me tho my friends say he does the case is dat this dude wants me to go sumplace with him and his friends and sum of my friends...I want to go b/c i just want to see if i actually have a a chance with him but im afraid i might end up cheatin on my boyfriend but i also dont want to break up with my boyfrind till im actually sure dat the other dude likes me...and wut i want
So pls help me im so confused right now
WHAT SHOULD I DO????
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Forget the other boy if you love and want the relationship with your boyfriend to last. That's just kinda wrong to like a dude when you already have someone. Hope I helped!
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If you have a boyfriend, this means that you are unavailable. No matter how many guys like you, you and your boyfriend are exclusive. They can like you all you want, but you have to remember that that's THEIR problem. Since you're dating, you have to keep telling yourself that you can't just flirt with any guy you think you have a chance with, the way you could when you were single. On the other hand, the fact that you're considering breaking up with your boyfriend just because another hot guy came along kind of shows that you don't really care about him. You may be doing him a favor if you break up with him--but not to date the other guy. Please do not be upset by what I am about to say, I am not doing it to be judgemental only to give you advice. You do not seem serious about guys, and until you are serious, you are probably not mature enough to handle a relationship. So you break up with your boyfriend for this other guy, what happens when ANOTHER guy comes along? Are you going to do the same thing? You can't change your boyfriends the way you change your tampons. Haahaa, I just made that up. Pretty good, huh? But I digress. I think if you can't decide which one you like more, you shouldn't date either of them. It seems hard now, but in the long run it is better for all three of you.
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You aren't married to your boyfriend. Just go for it.
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hmm...well tell your boyfriend that you wanna give someone else a chance...tell him your confuzzed and wanna try someone else! if he loves you he'll let you go
Hope I Helped Hun! Good Luck! =)
- Samantha
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go there and see if theres something going on between yall
write me bac so all know what happened
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i think you should listen to your heart for this one. do you like this guy enough to possibly break up with your boyfriend? etc, etc. if you really like this guy enough then you know what to do, i would def. break up with your bf and go out with the guy you really like because theres no point in staying with someone you dontlike. if you still like your bf enough, i would find out some other if the guy likes you than to go over to the guys house because it would seem like cheating. have some friends find out but keep it on the down-low. basically, all i can say is follow your heart but thats just some advice!
♥ hope i helped and good luck on this one hun! X0X0
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Hey,
I think that you should go to that place with that guy and see if he does like you and if he does then just follow your heart.
Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2
P.S.Write back and tell me how my advice was and if it helped.
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Cheating is very bad. It's better to break up with him than to cheat on him. It still hurts to be dumped for some other guy, but in my opinion, it's better than being cheated on.
I guess just decide which one you like better, and go from there. If you're not satisfied with the boyfriend you have now, then obviously something was wrong to begin with. You're going to hurt him either way, but that is the way life works.
Good luck with whatever happens.
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OMG! you are pathedic! no offence but DAMN! cod you get any lower? you obviously dont care about your boyfriend enough! your pretty much leading him on!
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I dont blame you for not breaking up with your boyfriend until your for sure that the other guy likes you back or that yall have a chance with each other. Hey i've done it . i think you should go to this place with him and friends and just get to know him and see if you guys have some chemistry just try and not cheat on your boyfriend and if you do . tell him
hope i helped <3
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