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Question Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 10:14 am

ok well there's this guy...and i think i might like him! well... i used to really hate him, but i barely knew him...and now that i know him really well, we're really good friends- and hes so cute! he has a girlfriend who is in high school now (we are 8th graders) but he flirts with me a lot, he pretends to ask me out in a kidding way and he like tells me i'm hot, he actually flirts with a lot of girls though, especially one of my best friends, but i totally like him! another thing is that he used to go out with another one of my friends, who i am kind of making up. she really hates him now, though,and this is just so weird. I don't know what I should do! i like this guy sooo much! please help me! i rate ♥

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mooch789 answered Monday October 10 2005, 9:54 pm:
Well if he flirts with other girls, its probably not worth it. Another thing, if he has a girlfriend, find someone else. Maybe you two can become really good friends. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Vendetta answered Saturday October 8 2005, 6:13 pm:
Do whatever you can to get over him. The fact that you like him might possibly be blinding you to reality -- he is a womanizer. It may be hard to get over him at first, but eventually, you will.

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deathwillcome answered Saturday October 8 2005, 1:58 pm:
I think that you should talk to him about it. He flirts with you, you should see if he really likes you. And don't do one of those have the friends ask him thing, it isn't very cool. If you want to know, you ask him. With him having a girlfriend already, I don't know what to say, it sounds like he isn't really with her if he is flirting with a bunch of other girls, but maybe his girlfriend is okay with that. But the worst thing to do is to not do anything. You can strieghten it out, just think about what to do, and do it! I hope I helped, and remember, My inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice!thanks

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BumbleBee035 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 12:40 pm:
Make him like you! Just flirt with him a lot, but don't go overboard on it. Talk to him a lot and that kinda stuff. Don't interfere with his relationship though, cuz you don't want either him or his gf to get PO'd at you. If you're really concerned you'll hate him later, go with what your heart says. Don't make it a situation where you feel like he's more important than your friends.

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angelfire2708 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 11:57 am:
Think about why your friend hates him now. Youre seeing the whole picture, but youre choosing to ignore it. He cant stick to just 1 girl. He flirts w/alot of girls because they give him the attention back, which is feeding his big ego!
Dont fall for his lines, or he"ll be reeling you in, and youre gonna end up getting hurt. After awhile the guys gonna run out of options, because girls are gonna wise up to him. If he respected his "gfs" he wouldnt be flirting w/every other girl out there!!! Youre young yet, dont fall for the guy just because youre 1 of the many that he chose to play with, or because hes "cute." Dont always go for looks. Get to know the real person from the inside, because thats what really counts!!!

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mystical_breeze answered Saturday October 8 2005, 11:50 am:
I was in the same situation before, and it turned out this guy was just messing with my head and giving me mixed signals. If he has a girlfriend, just leave him alone, and no flirting anymore. It's okay to be friends, but don't get into a situation where he already has a girlfriend. I was there, and it wasn't a good ending. I told him how I felt, and he got mad. So please, for your heart's safety, try your best to find someone who isn't taken.

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ItzMzManda answered Saturday October 8 2005, 11:25 am:
If you really like him this much then you should tell him and ask him what he thinks. Don't worry about your other friend that used to go out with him because people change. It's best to let him know because if you dont tell him you'll just regret not telling him, but if this guy is flirting with everyone it sounds like he's a player. But that is my opinion so you just follow your heart. Hope this helps!

-Manda

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Jessica13 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 10:50 am:
man this sounds just like this guy at my school exactly like it
are you from lathrop
well what you should do is tell him how you feel and mabey ask him out and see what he says
just flirt with him a little more and mabey he will ask you out
ask him if you guys will ever be more then just friends

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RockStoleMySoul answered Saturday October 8 2005, 10:45 am:
Okay honey, I'm going to cut to the chase with you. This guy is a player. Nothing more to say. I've dealt with guys who are like this and nothing good ever, emphasis on ever, comes from "relationships" with them. They like one girl one day, and then the next day, it's a completley different girl.

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