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I'm Kaylee, I'm fourteen but many people say I act older then I really am. People say I'm high maintence, I have no clue why they would ever think that! =P I have some people in my life right now that mean a lot to me and I would do anything for them. I love to give advice so send your questions to my inbox. ♥

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hi, well its going to be my friends birthday in november, and im wondering what to get her, incase i need to save up. she'z only a friend and i dont what her to think i like her in THAT way. she's going to turn 15 i think. any ideas? thanks in advance

you could get her...
a movie
giftcertifcate
cd
clothes
money
a movie pass

mm yeah i dont know what she likes so if you want to contact my inbox and tell me what shes into i can go into further detail with gift ideas...

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I'm 16 and i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 3yrs. it was just 3 days ago. we didn't use protection i'm worried i could be pregnant. i wouldn't have done it if i didn't love him. but his phones been cut off. He has a cell phone but hasn't called or anything. Should i be worried or relax?

WHAT SHOULD I DO???


go to planned parenthood and get on birthcontrol and then take a pregnancy test.see this is how foolish some teenage girls are to be having sex at such a young age and to add to the problems, without a CONDOM?! what were you thinking.i'd say get ready for the baby because theres a veryy good chance your pregnant.

http://www.babyzone.com/babynames/

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So there is this guy and he is very nice and he is always saying to me, you are really cool, you are pretty, etc. So sometimes online he will ask me questions like do you think i am hot, do you think you could ever like me more as a friend and stuff like that.

So usually I say no or idk. Because I don't want to lead him on by saying yes or something else. But then I feel bad, like I am hurting his self esteem and putting him down. What should I do? What should I say when he asks me?

you have to tell him the truth because hes just going to keep liking you more and more and then if you keep waiting by the time you tell him how you feel he will be even more heart broken. you should just say "im really sorry ____ but i dont like you the way you like me and i just want us to stay really close friends im really sorry i think your really nice but i dont see a relationship working out." if you say that he really cant be that mad just tell him your really sorry and he should understand.just be nice to him and let him know you 2 are still good friends.hope i helped!! ♥

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Is it whrong to like your brother if your addopted and your noit really brother and sister?

no if you were related to him that would be a whole different story but since your not from the same family,theres nothing wrong with liking him.its kinda like liking your guy friend if you moved in with him because technically your living in the same house but your not related. hope that helps

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I want to meet some nice, cute guys this year. How do I put myself out there to meet them and become closer with them? Answer this and if you give good advice IM me on CandyCaynex33.

start a conversation with them! be friendly smile alot ask them questions and then ask for there number or aim/msn screenname. get to know them well talk on the phone or online and learn about eachother and then when he considers you a friend and seems interested ask him on a friendly date to the movies or mall or somewhere fun.you could even go with your friends so it doesnt seem like a real date.once you hang out with him in person a few times ask him out.just be yourself hope i helped ♥

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okay theres this girl i sit next to in history, shees already a friend but the thing is im crazy about her we dont really het to talk out of class because her friends are always inturupting us whenever werre alone, we do e-mail each other alot and occasionally have long conversations on the phone but i really like to talk to her in person so is ther anything i can say/do to toher in history class to get closer to her closer to her?

if you have to choose partners for class ask if you 2 can be partners.or you can slip her a note in her locker that says "we need to talk alone" and if your really confident then you should talk to her friends and say i really need to talk to ____ so can you just let us be alone for a few minutes while i talk to her.or if she looks at you do the come here motion.just get her attention and let her friends know that you need privacy.good luck!! hope everything goes well

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I'm confused. 15/f

My ex girlfriend is flirting with me [she has a boyfriend though] and she keeps saying she wants to kiss me. Knowing her... she would. But she told me she doesn't want me to get the wrong idea. Then she goes on about having dreams about me and missing me, missing the things we did. and then there's things about "If only I didn't mess up" [when she broke up with me] "I will always have a thing for you" "Can i steal a kiss?" A part of me wants to kiss her but I can't because I refuse to do that when she has a boyfriend.. I dont know what to do. She says she doesn't want to lead me on but she's already doing that. What can I do? Just ignore the things she says?

hey

if you like her still then wait to see if she breaks up with her boyfriend and then kiss her. tell her your not going to kiss her unless her and her boyfriend break up.if you really dont like her and you know a relationship wont work out then ignore what she says. i know it might be hard but try finding another girl instead of her. just listen to your heart and if deep down inside you still have feelings for her tell her and maybe she will go out with you again,but if you know your just going to get hurt again or you truly dont like her enough,then tell her to stop flirting with you.i dont know you but it seems like you still like her and havent completely moved on.just do what your heart tells you to.

best of luck
contact the inbox for further help

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HellOoOooOo

hello every-one well theres thiis guy i like relly like but i dont think he likes me but i always think about him i always read over our messages but 2 weeks ago we went movies and we were cuddling and all and i dotn know if he liked me but anywayz the other day he kinda blew me off by a message and he dosnt like talking to me at least i think so i really like him but i cant stop thinking bout him =[=[=[

the only thing you can do is talk to him. say "i really like you a whole lot but you've been acting like you dont wanna talk to me and i want to know what the problem is" if he doesnt answer dont keep asking him because he will get annoyed.ask him to go to the movies again and if he makes up a lame excuse call him and ask if hes mad.you cant find out whats wrong if you dont talk to him. if he cuddled with you he had to of liked you atleast a little bit but maybe you did something to turn him off.make sure you find out fast. good luck ♥

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ok is it possible to break ur hymen without having sex? and does it bleed when you break it, and for how lonmg does it bleed?

yeah you can break your hymen from sports like soccer, and horseback riding, masturbating (fingering yourself and vibrators) and tampons.

it depends on the person, some bleed some dont. i know people that have bled 2 hours, 1 day, 2 days and up to 4 days so yeah it really depends. but if your bleeding for like 10 days then you should get everything checked out by a doctor.

=)

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Is it true that water helps so that your face clears up?

yeah but if you really want your face cleared up wash your face 3 times a day and use proactiv

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14/f/143 lb

Ya, I'm fat. But that's because there's nothing to do! I live miles away from a swimming pool, I'm not into sports like basketball or softball, I get bored of stupid little execises like situps and stretchs that are supposed to work your muscles. I can't get interested in doing anything physical although I know I need to lose weight badly because I look HORRIBLE. But what is there to do? NOTHING holds my attention!

get a tredmill if you dont have one and run on it while your watching television to keep your mind occupied.do situps while your watching tv too or listening to music.just run and excersize while doing something you like so that way you wont get bored.it helps.

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is head ache
light headedness
and dizziness when you stand up
symptoms you get from lack of food?
my mom thinks i don't eat enough
i think i might just be tired.

btw i ate today:
a light and fit yougurt
a hotdog with bun
a hotdog without a bun
and a pretzel

sorry to break it to you but your mom is right.that is definitely not 3 full meals.. for breakfast try yougurt and special k ceral. for lunch a hotdog and chips and maybe a fruit. and for dinner have pasta or something filling that you like with 2 sides. have a snack inbetween each meal. try that and see if your still tired.good luck.

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Well, I have decided that I do NOT want to masturbate. But it gets hard to control my hormones. Is there any way to help me keep my mind off of them or control them better? It would really help because I can't get to sleep because of them!


Thank you in advance.

do other things to get your mind off of it like excersize, hang out with friends watch tv or a movie or read a book, listen to music.just keep yourself entertained and busy so you dont have time to worry about your hormones.when your sleeping and you start thinking about it try to think about something else like school,your crush,your friends,family and anything that means alot to you. thats truly all you can do! =) good luck.

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im 14 hes 15 (im a girl) and he splashes me when im not swmiming, and when i called him to invite im to a flashlight tag party he kept trying to talk to me and stuff then he said happy birthday to me and my birthday was 2 months ago. He also asked me if i was going to a back to school thing and i guess he wanted to see me or something. he also is kina looking at me alot, i barley see him but when i do he looks at me alot and always talks to me but not out of his way i dont think. anyway does this mean he likes me i dont really like him like that but mabe i would if ya know...

i think he likes you. you should hint to him that you like him back and flirt with him. you should ask him if he wants to go to the movies or mall to hang out and if he approves then when you are with him tell him how you really feel. if he likes you which i really think he does then that will be soo cute and maybe he will ask you out.if he doesnt ask you out in a week i think you should ask him out because if you 2 both like eachother you should be together!!!!


good luck

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can have your period and masterbate too, but wearing a pad not a tampon. thanks

it would probably be really gross so i would never do it but if you really want to then go ahead.

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im 14..15 in march. and i need money like alot (i broke something) and like i need it within a years time and its a $600 fine with a $300 replacement fee. (i ran over a firehidrant while joy riding in my older bros f650) and my parents said that i need to come up with it myself. sooo any ideas?

babysitting
car wash
bake sale
dog walking
rake leaves
mow lawn
sell stuff on ebay
garage sale

good luck.

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On the MTV VMAs there was a girl that gave this whole 'speech' to/about Paris Hilton. Does anyone know what her name is?

sarah silverman. =)

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Okay so this is definitely not an advice question but really an opinionative one. Sorry. Anyway, do you think that in the song "I Write Sins Not Tragedies" by Panic! At the Disco that the lead singer is the groom or a guest or what? Thanks.

i agree with the people below me i think he was just telling what he saw. im almost positive hes not the groom because in the line "what a shame the poor grooms bride is a whore" if he was the groom he would say "what a shame my bride is a whore" so i think he just was there and witnessed it

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Hello. Well tommarow is my first day of school! I'm so excited!! I have first period with this boy..I don't like him like him, but he is really cute and I want to sit next to him, but I don't want like him to come in and then me be like hey! cxome sit next to me! you know? Does anyone have any seggustions as to how I can get him to sit next to me. Or me to sit next to him? Please answer back before 7 tommarow morning. Thank you :)

you and a couple of your friends should just casually go up to him and be like hey can we sit with you and if he says sure then start a conversations and get to know him better

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I usually get my icons and quotes at xanga but does any of you know any other good sites?? Thanks!

buddy4u.com and myspace.com

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