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idk what to do 16/f
I'm 16 and i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 3yrs. it was just 3 days ago. we didn't use protection i'm worried i could be pregnant. i wouldn't have done it if i didn't love him. but his phones been cut off. He has a cell phone but hasn't called or anything. Should i be worried or relax?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
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you should relax and in about 2 weeks go get a pregnancy test. dont get the test now because it wont be able to tell yet. i hope everything works out
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Have you told your parents about this? It is ok just relax because a lot of girls have your type of problem...what you need to do is talk it out...Yes it is a hard thing to do but you have to do it just incase you are pregnant because if you dont tell your parents and a few months down the round you do end up getting a big stomach there gonna tell it's not fatness its a baby and like the saying everybody says The Truth Will Set you free yea it sounds gay but it does pay off....Since you dont believe in abortion you have to be willing to put like your time into the baby and be willing to take care of it
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don't worry about this guy, in the nicest manner possible, you probably won't go on in your life with this guy by your side. So, don't be dependent on him. First of all go to CVS and buy a pregnancy test, use it before you tell your parents that you think you might be pregnant, if it says positive, find a ride to the hospital to get an official test the ones from the store aren't very accurate. If it isn't then maybe you should think about how lucky you are, what if you had a baby? What if you had to go through with the pregnancy and all the parents? IMAGINE THAT, or maybe even a painful abortion, don't kill a baby just because you screwed the fuck up, you could always put them in an orphanage. It was a really bad mistake if you screwed up. But your truly luckyyyyy if your not empregnanted bad choice use a condom, ALWAYS USE A CONDOM
hope i could help somehow...
xOx Hannii
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I wouldnt be worried about the calling thing just yet. Maybe hes busy or something. Just wait it out and if he doesnt call in a week, call and ask what has been up with him and why there hasnt been any communication. As for the pregnancy thing, you can only get pregnant the week before your period, so if that was around the time that you did it, I would be a little worried, but not that much. If you dont get your period within a month then Id go online and check pregnancy symptoms. If you have some or all of them, then I would find a way to get ahold of a pregnancy test to be sure.
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Well, i wouldn't sweat it if he loves you. But I take about two pregnancy tests to be sure. If you find one is positive, go to a doctor just to be sure. Then, talk to the father. After that, tell your parents. After you do, let them cool off. Then deal with the consequences. Sorry, i couldn't be of more help. <33 EAS
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Prime example on waiting to have sex. I do however have to give you props for waiting 3 years I suppose. Moving on to your question.... GIRL! Didn't you know when you layed down to have sex with him that you could get pregnant if he didnt use a condom? It's too soon for you to have any symptoms & it's too soon to take a pregnancy test. Take the test 4 days BEFORE your NEXT period should come. If it comes out positive then you and him have alot of talking to do and if it's negative...then maybe you have learned your lesson about being more careful! 30 minutes of pleasure vs. 9 months of pain.
-Marine Wife
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I hope he has called you back by now. You were together three whole years, that is good. Hopefully, you are the only one he has been sleeping with, or you could have more than pregnancy to worry about. There is always reason to be concerned when having unprotected sex. Make sure to get yourself to a doctor/clinic for regular check-ups now that you are sexually active, and get some condoms right away. You can usually get them for free at Planned Parenthood. Please do not make this mistake again, for your own sake. Demand protection and keep it on hand.
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I know it can be a very worrying time for you but you really need to do some very serious thinking now.
Firstly, go to planned parenthood and get some help and advice. Once you have established whether or not you are pregnant then you can re-think what you are going to do next.
A) If you are pregnant you need to decided whether or not you intend to keep the baby.
B) If you are not pregnant you must takes steps to ensure it never happens again like that. Make sure you always have a condom handy and go on the pill. That will give you double protection.
C) Your boyfriend appears to be out of contact so why not visit him at home. Tell him what you intend to do and ask him to go with you. He needs to be aware of the consequnces of his actions and to be with you whilst you attend planned parenthood.
I hope for both your sakes that the test is negative. Don't have sex again until you are fully protected. I wish you all the very best.
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go to planned parenthood and get on birthcontrol and then take a pregnancy test.see this is how foolish some teenage girls are to be having sex at such a young age and to add to the problems, without a CONDOM?! what were you thinking.i'd say get ready for the baby because theres a veryy good chance your pregnant.
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you should go go the drug store and get a pregnancy test, because theres a chance that you might be pregnant. so please go as soon as you can.
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