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So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and a half. We have been through some tough times but have made it and are happy. We tend to fight over stupid things and he can be pretty immature at times. Well recently the subject of marriage came up again. We have talked about it and I said that someday if things worked out and we both were ready that it would be a good idea, because we both can see eachother being together. But out of the two of us, I am better at handling money and I am very clean. He can be sloppy and doesnt always spend his money wisely, so I could see how being married to someone like that oculd cause some major problems right away. Well he is joining the Marines and is trying to ask me to marry him this summer! And I don't feel ready but feel like he pressuring me too or else! So please help me figure out what to do. Cause I am so lost...
This isn't a hard decision in my perspective because love is not a maybe thing. When you love somebody SOOO much that you want to make it official that you are together forever-hopefully-then you'll know. Don't get sidetracked by his flaws and yours and how they interfer with each other or how they connect. When you are asked to marry someone that you truly love, you'll know it, you will know that it is the right person. No pressure to listen to me, I mean seriously do whatever the hell you want to. But, can you see yourself with him in 20, 30, 40 years from now? Do you want to have his babies? Think about that if you truthfully answer yes to both of those thoughts then you know he is the right one for you. You know when they are the right person for you, its not a choice its an aggrement
ok well , if you guys are down with "labels" , you can deff say im hardcore emo . so as you can imagine , i like lots of eyeliner . see , my mom wont let me wear makeup to school and im in the 7th grade . its so gay . she doesnt understand that the way i dress and do makeup and do my hair is how i express myself through ways other then talking . any ideas in what i can do to either talk her into it , or different styles that arent too much OR SOMETHING ! thanks in advanced . hanna
hey my names hanna also, but im in 8th grade and my mom used to be like that, see what i did was i explained to her that, that was how i am and that no matter what she did or said thats how i was going to express myself and i walked away, she was speechless that i even had the guts to say that to her but she didn't really hear me out so i just took the eyeliner in my bag and put it on after i got to school then at the end of the day i used make up remover and took it off so she had no idea, eventually she said i was old enough to make my own decisions so i think that you just really need to sit down and talk with her about it. Tell her that you are 12 years old(or 11) and that you should be treated as a young adult because you are one and that eyeliner is a privelage that you'd like to have because you think you deserve it. Or, compromise with her tell her that this is free expression in your opinion and that if she has strong enough feelings about it that you'll wear less-- but as you get older put more on slowly she won't notice. Hope I helped...
So today I got this message from some random person. I called that number and I found out it was an adult. He started asking me for personal information and I told him fake stuff like my names this and that. Then he started saying I want to start a realationship with you and I just went crazy. I messaged him ssome really rude messages because I want them to leave me alone SO BADLY!!! It really pisses me off to know that I haave stalkers that might.. Who knows what???
Also, I think I know who those guys are. I have a guitar teacher and hes perverted and he loves me. (eew... hes 20 years older then me.)
So I think he gave my number to his friends.. UGh.. What jerks.. Any ideas on how to stop this?? I cant ignore them because they keep on messaging me. I told them that I will call the police if they don't shut up.
Oh and by the way I live in Indonesia where it's really dangerous to just walk outside.
First of all you shouldn't talk to them, don't say anything at all back to them even if it isn't the like correct information. Stalkers aren't stupid they can track the number to where you live, and then who knows what..its scary. You need to ignore them and call the police and tell them your problem and that you really think they are going to hurt you. This is serious, you should tell the police and your parents...
I've been stalked before and its not like this but this is how it started, and I did the right thing, i called the police and they tracked the number and it turns out he hadn't register when he moved(and you have to if you are a sex offender) so he went to jail for life after his 9th sexual harassament incident. so youi never know...but tell someone
hope i could help at all.
Latley I have been bruising easily and bleeding a lot. i just BARELY bumped into a round bedpost and i now have a bruise, a bump, and an abraision. last night, i took of a peice of hanging skin on my foot that was about a sixth of an inch. it bles so much i had to soak my foot for fifteen minutes. after that, it continued to bleed and i had to dress it rather than use a band-aid. today a similar thing happened with my cuticle. i barely moved it up, which on most people wouldnt do a thing, but for me it bled a ton! Lastly a half an hour ago, i barely hit my leg and i already have a bruise and a bump! help!
Wow this is VERY SERIOUS! you really need to tell your guardian or parent that you need to have your platelet level checked. Im not totally sure of the definition of platelet but my grandma had the same symntoms( bumping into things and getting easily bruised or bleeding) its is extremely serious tell her right away.
PS both the other people are completely wrong
you die if you have to low of a platelet level so tell someone right after you read this IMMEDIATELY!
Please listen my grandma almost died and I can't imagine you dying just because you didn't take my advice so go now.
my boyfriend is in basic training for the army and i wont get to see him for a few months. i am dieing. i miss him so much. i try to fill my time with my friends. But it still doesnt work. i cry everynight. how do i make this feeling go away.
There is no incorrect nor correct answer. First of all you need to tell him you love him constantly, because once hes gone your not going to see him and you'd want him to always remember you telling him that youd always be thinking of him. Also, there is not exactly any specific way to make you feel good about yourself and make your feelings go away. You cannot just ignore your feelings, they are their for a reason. I personally like to write poetry writing isn't exactly my best skill(i have a D is english) but when I just express myself on the paper the words just flow out naturally. Write one each day, it will never cure your desire to be with him but you need to let those feelings out. a couple days before he leaves give him your poems. He most likely isn't going to decide to bail on the army after all his training but once he reads your feelings (if he truly cares for you)then he will always remember them throughout his career in the Army. Support him going. It isn't easy to fight for your country and constantly have people begging you to not go. But someone has to fight for this country and if its not him, who will it be if everyone in the US said im not going to give back to all the freedom they gave us? no one everyone would have things to do. (sorry got a lil into it)
just tryyyy writing even if it seems way outta your skill field experiment and if its not writing, draw anyway to artistically express yourself. Hope I could help a little, oh and never try to fill in time with your friends because then you think more about him because you think your replacing him. Again i tried my best hope something clicked with your issue.
Lately, for like the past few days, everyday i've had brown stuff in my panties whenever i check. I dont think its my period, i was on it a few weeks ago. Is this bad, what is it?
Depending if your first getting your period or already have a constant flow, it would be different. When you are just beginning to spot it doesn't look like "period-red" because the hormones are changing the pigmant in the blood but, if you've already had your period for two years and you can time it then thats probably not it either. There is a good chance it is discharge, thats just a complex word for body waste. Not all girls get it but if you do its almost everyday. I get it and its extremely aggravating and disgusting feeling, making me really uncomfortable in class like that it leaked so, I just wear pantiliners; you don't feel them at all its like a THIN pad but is soo much better than runining your panties.
Hope i could help, repost if theres any other questions.
♥ Hannii
one day when i was playing basketball at a common place for me, i bit a girl and it was A HUGEEEEEEEEE deal i mean im sorry im reallly aggresive i don't have like mental issues or anything i am jsut aggressive she was like on me on the ground on a jump ball its SO weird when we see each other...now and her mom was the coach so she saw it all its so awkward and i feel sOOOO badd PLEASEEE JUST LIKE ONE GOOD ADVICE YOU WILL HAVE MADE ME THE HAPPIEST PERSON EVER I THINK ABOUT THIS ALL THE TIME AND IT MAKES ME CRY ITS A REALLY BIG PROBLEM PLEASE JUST ONCE HELP ME!!!!
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hey.
iam 17 years old. i had sex with a 22 years old ladie,actually she's a college student.
the sex was so fun and she likes me so much, but i heard thats that against law.
so wat u advise me to do:
to abort this relation or continue in secret
and if we were catch who will get in trouble her or me?
tanx for help.
yeah, continue your realationship, its only against the law if you have sex and have proof which you don't. if you somehow were caught though then it wouldn't be the minor who gets in trouble, she would because at 18 you are an adult.
hope i could help, at all?
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I'm 16 and i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 3yrs. it was just 3 days ago. we didn't use protection i'm worried i could be pregnant. i wouldn't have done it if i didn't love him. but his phones been cut off. He has a cell phone but hasn't called or anything. Should i be worried or relax?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
don't worry about this guy, in the nicest manner possible, you probably won't go on in your life with this guy by your side. So, don't be dependent on him. First of all go to CVS and buy a pregnancy test, use it before you tell your parents that you think you might be pregnant, if it says positive, find a ride to the hospital to get an official test the ones from the store aren't very accurate. If it isn't then maybe you should think about how lucky you are, what if you had a baby? What if you had to go through with the pregnancy and all the parents? IMAGINE THAT, or maybe even a painful abortion, don't kill a baby just because you screwed the fuck up, you could always put them in an orphanage. It was a really bad mistake if you screwed up. But your truly luckyyyyy if your not empregnanted bad choice use a condom, ALWAYS USE A CONDOM
hope i could help somehow...
xOx Hannii
I don't smile a lot. My best guy friend told me last year when he was giving me advice on getting a boyfriend (Don't ask why he was doing that. I don't have a clue why.) that I should smile more. I mean I laugh at almost everything, but I just barely ever smile! Is there some way that I can get myself to smile more?
Yes, okay so when you laugh just show your teeth and joke about the joke more and end with a smile because you may be in love with a guys smile, but then how would they ever know if they loved you smile?