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ok theres this girl that i know they only problem is i haven't talked to her for 4 years and idk what to say to her and idk if she remembers me
and i really want to talk to her b/c she was the first girl i ever kissed (link)
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That's very sweet. I think you should go up to her and ask her how's she been. She'll answer and you be like sorry I haven't talked to you in so long. I have been thinking of coming up to you for a long while as well and that you were the first girl I kissed and all I thought I'd be generous and come up to you and ask you how life's been treating you. (Girl's like sweet shit like that.) Haha, if you don't want to say that, then just go up to her and ask her how's she's been. I know that you might feel awkard being the first girl you kissed and all and haven't been talking for about 4 years. I understand that. But um still, I hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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I asked this question about one year ago. I moved in my 8th grade year. I miss my friends terribly and I still see them and talk to them almost on a daily basis. My grandmother who lives in the town I moved from said that if I really wanted I could live with her. Now that sounds so easy but my parents are the problem. I get in fights with my mom about almost anything and she has thrown things at me in the past. And my dad only listens to what my mom says. My dad lies to me so I won't move back to my grandmother`s. When we talk about it he always tells me family is more important then I think. It's just that it is no fun for me were I'm living. But I wonder if I could live without them.A part of me wants to go to my grandmother's with all my friends I think right now I just need to convince the other side. It's the summer now and if I'm going to move back I have to make a desicion soon. Please help me I need it. P.S I am 13,female (link)
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Well I think you need time away from your mother and father. I'm the exact same way with my mom she bugs the hell out of me I wish I could move down to Virginia with my dad he listens to me and he's just always there for me when I need him and not when I don't. So it works out. My mom is always there when I don't need her, I mean jesus I never need her she's no help to me anyways so yeah. I think you should go live with your grandmother for a while. I mean come on what do you have to lose it's not like your mom and dad won't ever want to see you again, I mean geesh there your mom and dad. If they don't you need new parents. Time away is always gonna be int he back of your head. Just go down and live with grams and try and clear your head about everything else. Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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ya so people answered this question just so uk im the 14/m and just so uk im not some crazy killer rapist but w/e people can say wut they want and actually it is more stupid on my part b/c im the one meeting her and i dont have ne body to go w/me and no1 in my family would know if i went there b/c my mom works from 8 to 5:30 so u would be home by then so ya w/e
13/f he is 14/m
Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice. (link)
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Well, some interenet guys that I talk to don't sound like creeps. But I've met some and oh my god they are ugly, rude, all fucking pigs. Ugh it's just so bad. I think your a smart person saying that you will bring a friend along because you aren't stupid. Yeah and just think he can be your knight and shining armor. But just remember your only 13 and he might be like 45 and if he showed you pictures he could have got them off the internet. The internet is a scary place believe me. It's smart to know the person meaning like meet them before you talk to them online. But it's ok you have strong feelings for him. It could all change when you meet him. Just be very careful. Hope I helped! Good luck hope you will be ok and meet the guy.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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what do boys see or like most in girls
eyes
nose
hair
legs
arms
boobs
please i rate high (link)
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Mostly boobs, and some of the good guys like your personality and looks, meaning eyes or lips. Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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i'm a 15 year old girl and i love to masturbate. i do it at least 2 times a day. do you think that is bad? i also like to look at porn, especially girls. do you think its weird for me to look at girls instead of guys even though i'm attracted to guys? (link)
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Yes and No, more of the no it's not. I'm not going to say why I think that. And no it's normal to be interested in porn. Hell I am and I'm only 13, and it's perfectly normal to look at chicks instead of guys sometimes but yeah it doesn't mean your BI or anything just means you think the girls are better than the guys at the type of stuff. Hah well yeah hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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About two years ago, I met a wonderful boy. We flirted and had fun together all summer. Eventually we dated or "went out" as everyone calls it. No one thought it would last. But it did. For a whole year. And through that year, I did something I never thought I could do. I gave my heart to someone and trusted them not to brake it. I became infatuated with a single soul and I fell in love harder than i ever thought I could. I let myself love without worrying about what would happen when it ended. I changed. I learned, I lived, I loved.
It all ended this year at the beginning. It hit me hard in the worst possible way. We stopped talking and when we get close, its awkward. Now, a year later - I'm still madly in love with him. And everyone said "it's his loss." But since that day, I've smiled less, laughed less, and everytime I see him, I want to run up and hug him thinking everything is the same. I changed all over again. And... I spend everyday thinking and imagining the day my baby comes back to me. So no, it's not just his loss... it's mine too.
I miss him and I will aiways love him.
Do you have any tips on how to get him back. I'm so down on myself and I just need a boost. If you can help, I would appreciate it.
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Well to be honest, almost every question I gave advice to was coming from my past experiences. But I think the least I could do is make you feel better about yourself. I've been through that too. My first love was with a guy named "Paul" I thought he was the only guy I would be with. But I found out he was just a liar and a cheater so I broke up with him twice. And for almost a year after that I still felt that I loved him. But then I met someone new and we started talking and right now we are doing great almost a year for me and him and wow what an interesting, amazing year it has been. Just remember if he wants you he'll come back but if he doesn't come back he's not worth it, but still. I just say to myself when a guy does something wrong that hurts me, that guys suck ass and chicks rock. Just remember your more important than anybody else around you. I would think about that and try to talk to that guy and if he rejects you just look back on the good times and move on, I know it's easier to type it than to actually do it (I've been there too). But I would try talking to him and telling him you still love him and have strong feelings for him and how you feel. It sounds like you have strong feelings for him just by me reading what you said. I might not understand that well about your situation but I know that I would talk to him. Just think he may want you he's just like you and afraid to show it or tell it. Hope I helped.. Good luck I hope you'll be ok if your not ask me for some more help if you want. ( Oh yeah tell him you love him, and that you will always love him and you only want to be with him. And that he's the one that changed your life and changed who you are.)
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hey umm i have really liked this boy for awhile but he has a girlfriend. so should i tell him that i like him. or should i not so i dont ruin our friendship? or what should i do? plez help. (link)
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I think you should tell him that you like him more than just a friend and don't say anymore. But if you really like, and care about him then don't try to ruin him and his girlsfriend relationship. Just hold out until then. There is over an 89% chance that they will break up in 2 months. Keep your hope's up and then express your feelings if they ever break up. Mk? Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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I'm gonna start from the beginning. In the middle of may I started going out with guy 1, well call him ross, we went out for 2 weeks and them he went to jdc. A month later ross got out and btw i never dated anyone else and we didn't break up. and we stayed together for 1 and 1/2 weeks after ross got out and we were so cute together but I was moving and didn't want a long distance relationship so i broke up with ross and started going with guy 2 we'll call tom cause I was going to were tom lived for a week to see my bestfriend and after a week i broke up with tom to and them i got to my new house and started dating guy 3, i'll call him joey now me and joey have been dating for 5 days and i really like him but yesterday i got on the computer and ross had sent me 20 messages saying how he still loves me and wants to get back with me and i think i still have feelings for ross but I really like joey. So which one should I choose?
I'll rate 5's to anyone who answers!!!!!!
Signed: ~Crazylife~
P.S. they are both long distance. (link)
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I think "Ross" knew he made a mistake. If he's pleeding to get you back. I think he understand's now what you meant to him and all. I think you should give Ross another chance. Unless you want to see your boyfriend everyday then I'd go with "Joey". But Ross sounds very sweet in my opinion. If he still say's he loves you and has feelings for you then yeah I'd pick him anyday, because I'm in a long distance relationship and I wouldn't give it up for anything. Well hope I helped! Good luck on the decision.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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I like this guy, and I think he likes me back, but I'm not sure. He's hinted to me pretty strongly that he likes me, but I'm not sure. What should I do? Should I ask him if he likes me or just wait and see if he asks me out? By the way, I'm a girl and I'm 14. (link)
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You should ask him about it. Just think you may be waiting for nothing. So there is no point of waiting. Just ask him and if he say's no or just as a friend, then you can wait until he makes the next move. But if he's already making moves on you then yeah I think he likes you a little more than a friend. Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Ok I have this friend who is always calling me names like stupid and if I say something to her like o thats real smart(jokeing) shell hit me.I know she is kidding but everytime I tell her to stop she never does.How can I get her to stop calling me names and hitting me? (link)
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Tell her to knock it off. If she doesn't then just say back off and walk away. I know it's not that easy to do but trust me it will be worth it. Or you can say something like yeah your a great friend you always hit me when I joke around, or you can ask her why does she enjoy to abuse you mentally and physically. Well hope I helped! Good luck with that friend situation.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Age: 13
Gender: Female
There is this guy and i like him a lot but he only likes me as a friend. He knows that I like him and he's fine with it and we still talk. What should I do ask him out or just wait and see what comes next?? (link)
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I would wait and see what comes next, Because just think your thinking you got a 50% chance of him saying yes and a 50% chance of him saying no. But if you ask him and he say's no your going to be pretty hurt, right? Well yeah just wait and see what comes next. Now I'm not an expert on this but I think it will make your relationship with him kinda awkard. Hope I helped! Best of luck to ya.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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i wanna make my boyfriend know that i like him. like i dont want him to break up with me cuz i feel like i havent been the best. and two other girls like him and i personally think they're prettier than me =/.. and i just really dont wanna loose him..like i feel like telling him i love him isnt enough but i dont wanna sound corny if i say more..help! (link)
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Personally, if he leaves you for either one of those 2 girls in my opinion, you can do better. Psht trust me I give my boyfriend a long speech almost every week saying more than "I love you". If he doesn't appreciate more than "I love you" then just say too bad your going to hear it anyway if you want to be with me. It's not corny it's just expressing yourself in a higher rate other than just saying I love you. Hope I helped! Oh and if you didn't get what I was trying to say, I'll put it in a shorter version try a long speech of how you feel and then at the end don't forget to say "I love you" Mk? Only if you want, your choice, your boyfriend, your words.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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ok im gonna try and make this short. me and my boyfriend broke up in march. but we still talk like were goin out like we still say i love you and everything. but than the other day i got asked out by another guy and i said yea. but when my xbf found out he was mad. and start sayin i thought you loved me and everything. so i broke up with my recent bf. cuz i still have feelings for my x i dont know what to do cuz my x says things will never be the same between us again so i dont know if i should move on or what someone please help me i rate high!!! (link)
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Personally, I would tell your X boyfriend that you were confused at the time when you said yes to that other guy. And tell him that when I saw you upset because of it I got more emotional and more feelings for you. Tell him you love him and always will love him, tell him you want things to be the same between both of you and that the other guy meant nothing to you just to see if you really wanted him (meaning your ex). He does care for you. I mean geesh he's an ex and still says "I love you" and if he didn't he wouldn't have gotten mad about the fact that you went out with another guy other than him. Hope you will get back together. Like anybody else would say tell him how you feel. Hope I helped! And Good luck.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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okay so im not ready to lose my virginity yet
but ive been with my boyfriend for a long time
what are some fun sexual things we can do that arent actual sex? (link)
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Ooh 4 play like rough making out if you didn't know. Giving him a blow job, hand job, 69, him licking your (yeah). Um all kinds of stuff besides sex. There ya go! Hope I helped! And also Good luck with your boyfriend.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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why do people pretend to be others? Like someone on her stole my sn but dropped a 1.. plz I am so sick of fakers!! grr does anyone agree?
XoXo
Julia (link)
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I agree. People do it because they are jealous of something you have, do, your personality or what not. Don't worry about it they will understand later that being themselves is their highest and best quality.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Hi
I want to get the cartillage on my ear peirced but i'm 15 years old so i cannot get it done without a parent. The problem is I do not think they will let me because I had to argue just to get my ears periced normaly. What is the best way i can persuade my parents into letting me have this done.
Thankyou (link)
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Tell them that your old enough to make your own descisions about having peircings. It's your body not their's. I know my mom and dad are the same way but I win those kind of arguements and get my way just by saying that. Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Male 16
This is a complicated situation heres the story.
My friend started going out with a girl who hooked me up with one of her friends its been about 3 months and then my gf dumped me but thats not the problem the problem is me and my friends girl have become good friends but now shes starting to really like me and i cant go out with my friends ex unless it was alright with him (if she dumped him for me) and i dont wanna lose a friend so i need to know if theres is anyone to become just friends with my mates girl without hurting her feelings and without ruining hers and my m8s relationship
Any Suggestions? im stuck (link)
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Um yes there is. All you got to do is just say look I'm a great friend and I know this because I don't go out with my bestfriends ex girlfriend. (Trust me chicks are the same way we tell our friends to not go out with our ex's or something) Sometimes it works out sometimes it doesnt. But yeah if you really like her. (Telling you this because you didn't make that clear if you liked her or not) Then I think you should tell your bestfriend that you have feelings for his ex and see how he takes it. I'm just like you I don't want to lose any friends because of a boyfriend or whatever. If he totally loses it then just tell the girl that you would just rather be friends. If she doesn't take it well screw it. Hope I helped! Even though I'm pretty sure I didn't sorry.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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i have a lot of guy friends and less girl freinds and its been like that for like my whole life and im like not the tomboy type and im like girly as everyone saya. i have girl freinds like a lot but i have more guys. what does taht mean? sometimes i think taht girls dont liek me cuz im like too boyish but everyone says im not? then wat does that mean?
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Well I have more guy friends than I will ever have girls. It's perfectly fine you might not realize it but the chicks probably think your not the kind of person to be hanging out with. Because most girls our age are so immature and think that if you hang out with mostly guys your a slut, bitch, whore, or what not. That's just because they are jealous. It's ok to have guys as friends let's just say less drama. Ohhh yes a lot less and more fun! Well Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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hiya
ive been friends with... lets call him bob... for about 3 years. we tried going out about 2 years ago and it felt weird so we both decided to end it. we was only together for like a day.. lame i know but it didnt feel right. anyways recently we have been getting closer like in a friendship way and we also talk about sex ALOT like different posistions (we are both virgins)we talk about doing stuff with each other and joking around and stuff. but recently ive been getting deeper feelings for him. i want him to no how i feel.. i want to be with him but how do i know that it will be the same as last time? i want to tell him but i dont know how i mean how? when? where? how do i know he feels the same way? i dont want to ruin our friendship because we are like best mates but i cant help how i feel. so i need guys advice because i need to know how to say it and how u would react if your best girl mate wanted to date you.
sorry its long!
i rate high!! :D
thanks for any help xx
(p.s we are both 16) (link)
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Well actually it's very good that you guys are bestfriends. Because normally bestfriends know more than just friends do. So that's a plus. Sure it might feel weird because when you guys first met and got to know each other you probably thought of him as a brother at one point but yeah it's totally fine to start to have a little crush on him or big one whatever you want to call it. Tell him that you still after 2 years have strong feelings for him. And I honestly don't think you want everything to be the same as last time? Bucause yall broke up in a day and I'm guessing that you want it to be a long while meaning not just a day. It sounds like you have a thing for him. And I think you should just go for it. Trust me when he gets back he'll say he missed you or he may not say it but he will and that's when you should talk to him about it. If he doesn't agree just let it go so you don't get that hurt in the end. Hope I helped! Good Luck.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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my boyfriend of 7 months got drunk the other night and planned on hiding it from me. i found out from someone else who was there. my boyfriend always promised & swore that he would never drink and how stupid he was. he ended up getting drunk with his friend and when i found out, i gave my boyfriend soooo many chances to confess and tell me the truth and he didnt. later he finally admitted it and i was so outraged that i broke up with him and told him i never want to see him again, and i hung up. he hasnt tried to call me or fix things up. my friends called him and said he was crying and too afraid to talk to me. i dont want to call him first...but should i forgive him? he broke my trust. (link)
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Honestly, yes I think you should call him and tell him how it is if he wants to still be with you. And if he disagree's with anything I think you should find better. Because he lied, broke your trust becuase of it. Yeah I don't think he has any room to disagree on anything you say at this moment. But I'd still call him and see what's happening and ask if he's sorry and if he is ask him why. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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