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boys advice needed!!
hiya
ive been friends with... lets call him bob... for about 3 years. we tried going out about 2 years ago and it felt weird so we both decided to end it. we was only together for like a day.. lame i know but it didnt feel right. anyways recently we have been getting closer like in a friendship way and we also talk about sex ALOT like different posistions (we are both virgins)we talk about doing stuff with each other and joking around and stuff. but recently ive been getting deeper feelings for him. i want him to no how i feel.. i want to be with him but how do i know that it will be the same as last time? i want to tell him but i dont know how i mean how? when? where? how do i know he feels the same way? i dont want to ruin our friendship because we are like best mates but i cant help how i feel. so i need guys advice because i need to know how to say it and how u would react if your best girl mate wanted to date you.
sorry its long!
i rate high!! :D
thanks for any help xx
(p.s we are both 16)
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Well actually it's very good that you guys are bestfriends. Because normally bestfriends know more than just friends do. So that's a plus. Sure it might feel weird because when you guys first met and got to know each other you probably thought of him as a brother at one point but yeah it's totally fine to start to have a little crush on him or big one whatever you want to call it. Tell him that you still after 2 years have strong feelings for him. And I honestly don't think you want everything to be the same as last time? Bucause yall broke up in a day and I'm guessing that you want it to be a long while meaning not just a day. It sounds like you have a thing for him. And I think you should just go for it. Trust me when he gets back he'll say he missed you or he may not say it but he will and that's when you should talk to him about it. If he doesn't agree just let it go so you don't get that hurt in the end. Hope I helped! Good Luck.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*<3*
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You were both younger last time, but now that your older it might be different this time around. You need to atleast let him know how you feel and from there see how he feels. You both had something for each other, and even after a break up the feelings should be the same for the person (because if their not then there was no liking to begin with). So he still has to have some feelings for you. Just let him know how you feel and just find out how much he feels for you. Sure it is going to be akward when you tell him and your friendship might suffer a bit, but if he truly is your friend and likes you it will only end up stronger than before.
If one of the girls I know really well and was very good friends with said she liked me and wanted to go out with me then I would, because I have the same situation right now. One of my best friends is a girl and I am just in the same situation as you (without the talking bout sex though and having gone out before) so I can understand your questioning.
Hope this helps and good luck with you two.
-Ryan
P.S. If you need any other advice on this then just send something to my inbox or IM me at Alpha0mega345.
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I'm not a guy, but I think that you should tell him how you feel. If you're comfortable enough to be talking about sex, then letting him know you have some feelings shouldn't be THAT big of an issue. When people joke, 50% of it [give or take] is true, or has some truth to it. So he might feel the same way. Talk to him and see what happens. Maybe he just doesn't want to make the first move.
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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why dont you just tell him that lately youve been feeling different towards him, and mabe you guys could try again
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