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How do you even get your feedback up high? If you could let me know, that would be great, cheers!

what i do is juss be honest & only answer questions your like 95% sure of & above. if you mean like your rating? feedback itself, you juss answer a lot of questions, but if you want a high rating you should make sure your answer the questions you know & people will then make it higher for you. if you mean something else, juss drop another in my inbox & i'll be happy to explain it/answer it.

-hope that helped!♥

ok. My name is cortney. i am 14 , 5'3 and 108 pounds... I know if i ask if im fat everyone will tell me no... but i really dont like the way i look.. i need advice...

you really aren't fat at all. trust me!! i think that's a better weight for 5'3, & maybe even under weight. see it doesn't juss depend on your height, it also depends on your bone structure. if you want to figure out your BMI go to-

www.coolnurse.com

-hope this helped!♥

i cut....
it's so addicting and i can't stop. i love everything about cutting but i know i have to stop this...
please help

you need professional help. you probably don't want to get into all that stuff, but for your safety you need it. it isn't bad either, because it can really help you. i never cut myself, but i know people that did cut & they got help & they didn't again. your parents er whoever doesn't even need to get into it. juss go see someone.

good luck!♥

lately my boobs have been hurting, i am pretty sure its only because they are growing really fast and ive gone up a few bra sizes.... but now today i figured i was starting my period soon so i started wearing a pad. i looked today and there was some brown liquid stuff there but no blood, i dont know what this brown stuff is. i still have not gotten my period. i do not have sex. i dont eat healthy and i have been craving weird foods lately. what could be wrong with me?

that definately could've been a form of your period. i when your boobs hurt & stuff, that's like a presign saying that you are getting your period soon. if its the first time to ever get your period, that's totally normal. if it isn't, then you might wanna see the gyno. about it. juss wait a few days & see what happens. if you have any other questions, use this site-

www.coolnurse.com

-hope that helped!♥

Now I have a comment to make and a question. Everyone will tell you how you shouldn't go for the sex and you shouldn't like the cuter guy. Now I know I live out the parts about the cuter guy being nice and all that. Everyone tells you not to do stuff, but in the end you end up not taking their advice at all. You end up doing the opposite. For instance I asked a question about should I like the boy who I've known since kindergarden or the hott one that goes to a diff school. Everyone says that the guy whos hott is a jerk but hes not. My point is it just cracks me up because you all waste your time writing how you shouldn't do things but in the end everyone always does the opposite. So whats with it? It's point less when people say follow your heart well you wouldn't be asking a question if you could!
So whats with all of this?

(I put it under sex cause people always answer the questions on sex)

people are juss stating their opinion. you aren't forced to take their opinion & use it. they're basically trying to help you out, not saying you have to do it. there's a lot of people on here that do give good advice, maybe some that don't. you shouldn't really say it's a waste of time, because it isn't. maybe you shouldn't of asked such a question. how can WE tell YOU who to like? that's your own decision, no one elses. it's their choice if they do the opposite.

Okay, any time I'm around a guy I like, I either:
1) Blush really, really bad.
OR
2) Act stupid, maybe even mean (to him), because I'm nervous.

Since I really don't want this guy to think I'm crazy, is there anything I can do to make me less nervous? Thanks!

that's totally normal. i think you should juss realize that you can't really stop yourself from blushing er anything, but juss be yourself. you shouldn't really be nervous, because then he doesn't see you as yourself, but as a nervous wreck & you don't want that. juss take deep breaths b4 you talk to him er w/e & it should work out. you need to realize that the more you're around him, the less nervous you'll be.

-hope that helped!♥

Well, I recently wrote about a guy friend of mine.. and how I really love him.
Well, today.. I found out that he is now going out with his ex-girlfriend again. The one who kept ME from dating him.. because I'm a better friend than that. And now.. she proceeds to tell me that he PROPOSED TO HER.. I think she is just saying it because she knows that I have a 'thing' for him..

What can I do to keep me from ringing her neck?

that seems like a weird situation. that's rude that she kept you from dating him, but i guess you shouldn't really get involved since he has a gf. the best thing would be to tell him how you feel & then stay away & see if he can sort his feelings out. she probaby is juss saying that, because i doubt that he'd go out w/ her & propose to her in that amount of time. juss try to stay away from it.

-hope that helped!♥

for aim, i wanted to make a custom color, but I hear you can only make one if you ahve a mac. is that true? if not than can you please tell me how to make a custom color? cause th button that says "add custom color" does work.

ok there's a long process but don't worry, i'll work you through it. you don't need any programs er anything.

first- find color codes you want for backround er text. depending on what your looking for, you can go on google and type in 'color codes' er you can use this site www.coloryourprofile.com
second- once you get your 1/2 codes, then write them down er keep the site up so you remember them. after go to your BLIST and click on MY AIM at the top & then SAVE BLIST. a box should come up w/ text & different stuff such as your blist sections. uncheck every box except TEXT COMP. & VIEWING SETTINGS.
third- make sure you save it as something you remember, like if your color is blue, save it as blue, that's what i do. & then save that thennn open up notepad. if you don't have that, you can open up any writing program except regular word, it doesn't work right.
fourth- open up notepad & LOAD BLIST & click on your saved one once and juss drag that file with your mouse over to NOTEPAD & then there will be a whole bunch of stuff & then you fill in the bg code under bg & the text code under text, make sure the code is all 6 letters & it has a # sign infront with no spaces.
fifth- save that on notepad, probably it'd be best if it was the same thing & then go to LOAD BLIST again and load that. then go to prefs & your color will be there!!!

if you need any extra help juss leave me one in my inbox er feedback!!!!!!!

-hope that helped!♥

Does anyone know where i can find a MYSPACE TRACKER? (That tracks the username of the people who visit your myspace)

If there isnt one of those, what are some good FREE regular site trackers/statistics?

i found this forum type thing on createblog.com, idk if this has exactly what you want but you can look through it-

http://www.createblog.com/forums/lofiversion/index.php/t93095.html

-hope that helped!♥

when u receive an email you know before you open it, it says there name and the subject well how to you get it so they dont know your name? thankies! xXx

well it depends what program you have. what you can do is send them an email through a different program like for example aim, netscape, yahoo, etc. i think if you have like a regular email that came with the computer, such as outlook express, then they'll always have your name.

-hope that helped!♥

I really like this guy and I am not sure if he likes me. I really cant tell him that I like him,but I want to know if he likes me. I was thinking of being all sad one day like "I LIKE HIM AND I DONT HAVE A CHANCE" and see what he says...is this good? If not what should i do? And what should I do if he says no?

THANK YOU SO MUCH! I RATE 5'S FOR GOOD ADVICE

ok i know that it probably is difficult telling the guy how you feel, but you really have to do it. here are a few reasons why.

1-you don't want to regret it. face it, you're going to graduate eventually, so why would you want to be wondering all ms/hs, er both, w/e you're in, if he likes you. that really sucks & you really don't want to pass up that oppurtunity.

2-you should tell him so that he at least knows. what if he likes you, & another girl asks him out, but maybe he thinks he has no chance with you, says yes to her, & ends up really liking her. you probably won't feel too great aobut it.

3-being honest is the best. i think if you said 'i like him & i have no chance' it sounds desperate & he'll probably have no idea who you mean & you'll eventually have to tell him anyway. plus if you tell him & he says he doesn't feel the same way about you, you can look for someone else. it'll be more difficult to do that if you had no idea how he feels, er if he had no idea how you feel.

basically i think you should let him know. maybe friends can help you out.

good luck!♥

so prom is in may but I've found my dress already. One problem... I can't find the shoes I really want..I know they are out there but I just havent found them .. They are gold and they kind of look like the dirty dancing ones ...They cover the heel with and ankle strap thing and open fronts and high heeled.. can anyone help me?? I will rate 5s!

the only one i can think of is-

http://www.dswshoe.com/

i heard they have like a jabillion different types of shoes, so maybe you'll find them there er find some other cute ones you might want.

-hope that helped!♥

I have trouble with starting a good conversation and even keeping it going. Im not really shy I actually am very outgoing, but i guess that besides the point. In a conversation with someone I either feel stuck on what to say or I dont make sence when Im talking, their is just always a dull moment. I want to be a better speaker and listener also I want people to know that im a cool person to talk to instead of them listening to me say things that come out of another persons mouth i will usually do that becasue i think the person is cool and i want to be just like them. I realize that it doesnt do me any good trying to be someone Im not. Is their any ways that I can have people say im a great person to talk to by being myself

you can't really get people to think that way. you're right, you juss need to be yourself. i guess i'm a pretty blunt person, because i say whatever i'm thinking, but i'm still nice at the same time, & my friends respect that. speak up. don't care what others think of you. your true friends will like you the way you are. i wouldn't stress over this. basically because a lot of people have the same situation. whenever there's a dull moment & idk what to say, i say something completely random. laughter breaks up those moments. at least you know that you do need to be yourself, & not try to be someone you're not. thats a step in the right direction. juss be yourself.

-hope that helped!♥

Ok, so there's this guy i like at school. He hangs out with this other girl at school and she's really mean, and this guys nice. How do I get around him if the girls hogging him and with him every second of the day?

you should juss try to develop a friendship with him. you can't have too many friends. i think that maybe you shouldn't really concentrate a lot on him, because if you want to be his gf, wouldn't you get annoyed all the time if there was girls swarming him?? it's totally up to you, but friendship might be the right way to go. he's not going to drop all those girls juss cus he has a gf. they're probably his good friends & i think you can become that too. juss don't expect him to single you out. maybe you guys could talk on the fone er online er something so it's 1 on 1 and there's not a load of girls all the time.

-hope that helped!♥

hi i am 13 and my frend alwayz says were frends and then she never does any thing wit me she is always doin sumtin wit ppl at skool and i just wundered if yall think if she is a real frend or not plz help i rate good!:)

if she's a real friend, she'll always be there for you, but she can still have other good friends other than you. she probably is, but i guess you can't really tell unless you see how she acts towards you. i think you guys should hang out a bit more & then you'll be able to tell.

-hope that helped!♥

okay so last night i woke up at like 3 and i was really nugry but i didnt want to go downstairs to grab something so i tried to go back to sleep...in the morning i had like a really bad stomach ache...then i was hungry so i went down to grab something but its like hard to eat...im hugry but i dont want to eat...wut with that?

i think i know what you mean. basically you're soo hungry that you're not even in the mood to eat, because your stomach hurts. you have to though, because it'll get worse. wait a few mins after you eat & sit down & see how you feel.

-hope that helped!♥

This one girl invited me to her birthday party I dont want to be mean and say no because that'll be men does anybody know any good excuses and PLEASE HURRY.

haha i have been there before. juss tell her your parents made plans to go out to dinner & you definately have to go.

-hope this helped!♥

idk wut category this goes under. :oP

BUT
is it bad to sleep with eyeliner/maschera on?

uhh i don't think so. it can't like..damage your eyes er w/e but it could get all over your pillows & stuff, but it juss washes out. if you're worried about it, juss wipe it off before you sleep, but i doubt it's bad for you.

-hope this helped!♥

does anyone have any good ideas what i can be for halloween. I'm 14, a girl, and it's going to be liek 60 degrees out. I want to be something, fun, crazy, and sexy. NOT somethign scary or ugly. any ideas? thnx, ill rate

french maid..it's a really cute outfit & it's fun crazy and sexy haha. try it out. you can probably get it anywhere, plus you wear stockings so you won't be that cold.

-hope this helped!♥

my moms bday is on friday and i was going to make her a CD. does anybody know any good songs?! i want good country music thats momish (haha) or variety.. love.sad.slow.variety.classic anything moms would like! thanks

my mom likes Sara Evans and she sings suds in the bucket & songs like that. this site might help you out if you want to hear different songs that you could put on. they can't actually go on a CD but they can give you some ideas before you actually download them-

www.musicgalore.net

-hope this helped!♥

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