hi i am 13 and my frend alwayz says were frends and then she never does any thing wit me she is always doin sumtin wit ppl at skool and i just wundered if yall think if she is a real frend or not plz help i rate good!:)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? dntletitgo2urhead answered Friday October 21 2005, 6:25 pm: Dear "i dunno what to do",
Well, I had a lovely situation like this one..and I hate to break it to you but the friendship didn't work out. She basically called me her friend and everything, but it turns out that she used me to hang out with my "cool" older sister and borrow by huge CD collection. So maybe it's time that you figure out what's up and ask your friend why she has no time to spend with you. Then maybe join an after school club to meet new friends or take the time to meet some new people to hang out with.
xomegaroni answered Saturday October 15 2005, 10:42 am: if she's a real friend, she'll always be there for you, but she can still have other good friends other than you. she probably is, but i guess you can't really tell unless you see how she acts towards you. i think you guys should hang out a bit more & then you'll be able to tell.
soccer_crazii answered Saturday October 15 2005, 10:25 am: if she still talks to you and hangs out with you sometimes shes a real friend. But if she NEVER talks to you, is constantly ditching you, she doesnt seem true. Try to make more then 1 friend. [ soccer_crazii's advice column | Ask soccer_crazii A Question ]
angelhelper answered Saturday October 15 2005, 9:08 am: hidunno,
i think you should just talk to your friend and ask her whats going on and if that doesn't work then try and show her how good you can be at being a friend and she will realise what she is missing out on.
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