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Conversation Troubled I have trouble with starting a good conversation and even keeping it going. Im not really shy I actually am very outgoing, but i guess that besides the point. In a conversation with someone I either feel stuck on what to say or I dont make sence when Im talking, their is just always a dull moment. I want to be a better speaker and listener also I want people to know that im a cool person to talk to instead of them listening to me say things that come out of another persons mouth i will usually do that becasue i think the person is cool and i want to be just like them. I realize that it doesnt do me any good trying to be someone Im not. Is their any ways that I can have people say im a great person to talk to by being myself
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you can't really get people to think that way. you're right, you juss need to be yourself. i guess i'm a pretty blunt person, because i say whatever i'm thinking, but i'm still nice at the same time, & my friends respect that. speak up. don't care what others think of you. your true friends will like you the way you are. i wouldn't stress over this. basically because a lot of people have the same situation. whenever there's a dull moment & idk what to say, i say something completely random. laughter breaks up those moments. at least you know that you do need to be yourself, & not try to be someone you're not. thats a step in the right direction. juss be yourself.
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