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SHOULD I TELL HIM???
I really like this guy and I am not sure if he likes me. I really cant tell him that I like him,but I want to know if he likes me. I was thinking of being all sad one day like "I LIKE HIM AND I DONT HAVE A CHANCE" and see what he says...is this good? If not what should i do? And what should I do if he says no?
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Actually thats not a bad idea. Guys are so keen when girls have mixed emotions. And of he DOES like you then for sure he'll tell you when your done to cheer you up. If he says no..theyres nothing you can do about that..sorrie hun, you cant make someone like you! Just keep looking if hes not the one, it happends to the best of us! :/
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Are you guys friends or do you even talk to him?? well if you're friends then maybe you should just sit him down and talk to him and myabe tell him how you feel...but be careful cause its hard telin people that you like that u do like them believe me...i like my best friend and he knows about my feelings and its hard..so just calmly have a nice chat with him about it...and if he says no to you its ok..
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ok i know that it probably is difficult telling the guy how you feel, but you really have to do it. here are a few reasons why.
1-you don't want to regret it. face it, you're going to graduate eventually, so why would you want to be wondering all ms/hs, er both, w/e you're in, if he likes you. that really sucks & you really don't want to pass up that oppurtunity.
2-you should tell him so that he at least knows. what if he likes you, & another girl asks him out, but maybe he thinks he has no chance with you, says yes to her, & ends up really liking her. you probably won't feel too great aobut it.
3-being honest is the best. i think if you said 'i like him & i have no chance' it sounds desperate & he'll probably have no idea who you mean & you'll eventually have to tell him anyway. plus if you tell him & he says he doesn't feel the same way about you, you can look for someone else. it'll be more difficult to do that if you had no idea how he feels, er if he had no idea how you feel.
basically i think you should let him know. maybe friends can help you out.
good luck!♥
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I would say go for it. Last year i liked this kid soooo much and i always wanted to find out if he liked me and i wanted to tell him but i never did and now i totally regret it becasue i dont talk to him at all this year so now i will never kno if he liked me. If he doesnt like you back then just be like ok and still try and be friends there are lots of other guys out there...
hope i helped
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Go for it! It's like the best (might I add only) way to find out for sure. It sounds hard, and you might be nervous, but it's like jumping from a high place. Eventually you land and everything's fine. The worst that can happen is a no, and he'll know you like him so then you'll have a chance if he ever changes his mind. Most guys will just be happy to hear someone likes them and say they like you too. Good luck! =)
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