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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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How long does it take for someone to get a hickey... and how do you go about giving them a hickey.. like what to do and how about to approach it. What do you do when your getting one...-thanks

When you give a hickey you just suck on the spot for a while.. depends if the person bruises easy.. and how dark they are too matters.. you also can bite while givin a hickey but dont bite too hard.. when im gettin a hickey from my boyfriend i usually rub the back of his neck or his back or touch his stuff to make him hard if we plan on having sex.. just star kissin this person first then start kissin there neck and suckin on it and stuff.. ♥ Dez

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hEy! i wanted to ask you this whats the % i could still get pregnet if
1. my boyfriend uses a condom and wen he cums he takes it out
2. im on the pill

thnaks..i want to be over protected! lol let me know if you know the answer! thanks!

you cant get pregnany on the pill..they say its below 1% of gettin pregnant but personally i think they say that just in case some fool messes there pill up and trys to sue somebody i think that you just cant get pregnant if you take the pill like your suppose too.. ♥ Dez

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Im 13 and im going to planned parenthood to get birth control..will they let me have it even though im only 13?? And im sexually active-I just want to be safe!

Wow a 13 year old girl is sexually active gettin birth control pills.. Yes they'll give it to you.. ♥ Dez

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Theres this guy and he is 16 and sometimes i think i have feelings for him lyk a boyfriend but then i dont.....he likes me and he said he wanted to screw me and i told him id let him but i dont know if i would let him because im only 12 and loosing my virginity at my age seems a lil to fast but i feel ready, and i think i want to?? should I??
~Clueless~

i think personally your stupid.. your just a baby your not ready for sex.. you should lose your virginity to somebody that you love and that means alot to you.. just fuckin anybody is something your going to regret.. you THINK your ready your not ready for sex you probably dont even know what to expect and im sure your not ready for consequences.. such as pregnacy,STDs or even a broken heart.. this guy came after you and said that cause he thinks you easy to fuck, if you fuck him he's going to know that he was right dont make him right.. dont do it and wait til the right person comes along.. ♥ Dez

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Whats planned parenthood?
i rate 5's

Planned parenthood is a place where you see doctors and get checked for STD's.. some people get abortions there, some get birthcontrol and stuff like that there.. most people just go to make sure everything is okay.. ♥ Dez

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I'm 14, and a sophmore. I will be 15 soon, I just have a late birthday. I've done stuff with guys like making out and all because all my boyfriends are always older than me. Like almost everyone in my grade has had sex, done drugs, drinks, stuff like that. Well I just got drunk for the first time the other night, and im still a virgin. Everyone is telling me I shouldnt still be a virgin. Like my sisters friend is 19 and he told me that its normal to lose it when your in highschool. I'm so scared to have sex though because what if it hurts, or I get pregnant, stuff like that ya know? I dont know anything about it either, well I do but I dont know any movements and stuff. Theres this guy whose 18 and I have dated him 2 times, we went to prom and everything and he is a really good friend, when I got drunk everyone told me I was saying that I think I love him. I didnt even know I did. We might get back together because he keeps telling everyone he likes me alot. He calls me and everything so yea. If we did go back out and dated for a long time, would it be alright to have sex? And no im not a geek or ugly or anything lol. Just scared of what's going to happen!

Thanx

Well sounds to me people are putting pressure on you to HAVE SEX.. which really you dont have to follow their footsteps.. you should lose your virginity to somebody very special and that means alot to you.. and of course somebody that you ♥ LOVE ♥ .. you shouldnt have sex with some radom person and you probably shouldnt of drank unless you absolutely wanted too.. dont do things just to fit in the crowd.. be different that way you stick out more.. well im going to tell you this sex hurts a lil bit the first time but its probably nothing you cant handle.. and wouldnt you rather somebody that you love to hurt you then some random guy who dont give a shit about you..? im not tryin to tell you to wait til your married cause those arent my beliefs but i do believe in waitin for the right person.. and yes there is always possibilities of gettin pregnant wouldnt you want to have a baby with somebody who loves you..? and who isnt going to drop you in heartbeat..? well thats my advice and i hope you make a good choice.. and always have standards in and a guy that you want to be with dont ever go with some random person.. ♥ Dez

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My boyfriend is 16 and he has a anger/authority problem. His name is John. He has been to the jdc 5 times and boot camp 3 times. I was just wondering if you think that will eventually cause a problem in our relationship or if it could cause him to get violent with me?

14/f P.S. we have been together almost 2 months now.

sounds to me like if he gets angery enough he might possibly hit you or hurt you.. id get out of this relationship before you actually get hurt physically and emotionally.. ♥ Dez

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ok so here it is.....
i really like this guy and i have known him for about a year know. He likes one of my friends and he always tells me how much he likes her. I dont know what i should do. Should i give up and move on or stick in there and hold on to him??
please help me
Thankx*

sounds to me he isnt interested in you.. i think he's comin to you as a friend and probably thnkin cause your his friend that you'll hook him up with this girl he likes sorry to say that but that is what it sounds like..i think move on.. just be a friend.. ♥ Dez

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about the white stuff that comes out after your period is it normal for it to come out after your period for the whole month then when you get your period it goes away and so on and so on?
signed high rater and NEED HELP

Yes hun its normal.. its discharge.. ♥ Dez

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ok, well, im a christian. and i look at the horoscopes ALL of the time and im starting to think that there true. but my mom says its bad and i dont know how they r bad. how r they bad and is it really gonna affect my relationship with god?

no hun i dont think its going to effect your relationship with God.. sometimes you cant believe **EVERYTHING** your parents say.. ♥ Dez

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there is this lezbean that likes me and she said she wanted to eat me out and everything and this guy said that he would pay me $100 if i did it n then said so I believed him he would give me the money first should i do it?i really need the money

****Lesbian is the word hun...

well i guess if you dont mind then do it.. but before doing it id make sure he gave you the money first.. i mean your gettin pleassure out of the whole thing why should you care.. ♥ Dez

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Hi what can i do to my boyfriend that will give him lots of pleasure

um i guess you could try givin him head.. or try different positions while having sex.. if he dont seem to like that which i bet he does then ask him yourself.. ♥ Dez

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Does it bother anyone else when the members of this site give smartass answers, like "Well that sucks", "Your dumb", "I have no idea". This website keeps getting more and more of these users and personally it bugs me. Anyone else agree?

Yea i think its pretty shitty that people waste time on sayin three fuckin words that dont help at all.. people come on here wantin advice for some serious questions.. I think some people shouldnt be able to ask some questions that are pretty dumb.. so some people who ask dumb questions get dumb answers you know.. and i know ive gave some smart ass answers to some questions.. ♥ Dez

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is soda pop REALLY that bad for you? I'm on a diet and I get sick of water.. I like diet pop! My boyfriend says he will never drink it because its so bad... true? false?

Yea it causes you to gain weight like anything else.. ♥ Dez

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if i were to qive head to some1.. i def dont want std's .. or ANY other disease.. just like anyone else wouldnt. even thouqh for tha quy it wouldnt "feel as qood".. should i use a condom ?

yea use a condom.. actually it think if you think you need to use a condom you shouldnt be messin with them.. ♥ Dez

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I'm use to having sex with my boyfriend several times a day.. and he's out of town right now, and I really feel like I need some. The problem is I don't have a dildo or anything, does anybody know anyother foreign objects that I could use that would make me feel really good?

thx sooo much

how about not doing something that way when he comes back you can fuck his brains out.. ♥ Dez

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Im a 15/f and im having a party this coming week. I was wondering if anyone had any favorite songs that kids my age like to listen to? My friends are from all differnt groups so any types of music would be apreciated. Thanx a bunch! ~*MeGaN*~

Well its a party so your deff. going to need some dancing music lol..

Whistle while you twurk,salt shaker, i yi yi and wait 8the whisper song* theyre good to dance to by Ying tang twins

Still Tippin *mike jones,slim thug and paul wall

yeah,caught up *usher,lil jon

get low *Lil jon and the east side boys

Tipdrill,country grammer,E.I,flap your wings,errtime, *nelly

Freak a leak.. *petey pablo

Shake that monkey *too short

wooble wooble,tight whips.. *504 boyz

them jeans,ooh wee,..*master p

1,2 step,goodies..*ciara

so suductive.. tony yayo

Candy shop,lil bit,disco inferno,..50 cent

let me in,shorty wanna ride wit me.. *young buck

sex appeal.. Ray cash

left right left.. drama

get crunk.. lil jon

lose my breath,..destiny's child

like a pimp,play.. David banner

game over.. lil flip

damnit man.. pittbull

oochie wally.. bravehearts?Q.B finest

grind on me.. pretty ricky

gimme that.. webbie

Have fun good luck.. ♥ Dez



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Hey, I recently made my first appointment to see a gyno so I could be put on birth control. The only problem is my Mom told me we don't have any prescription insurance so for medication we need to pay the full amount. I'm 19 years old and I;m wondering if theres any cheap ones anyones on or if this has happened to anyone else. Thank you so much!

Well id go to planned paretnhood if i was you and they'll most liekly give you birth control pills free if you say you dont have insurance.. or they'll be real real cheap.. ♥ Dez

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Alright...im 15 and my boyfriend and i have had sex once and we dry f*** all the time...i dont think he has popped my cherry yet though..can you tell me what happens and if it can happend during dry sex?? thank you

Well im not sure exacylt what dry fuckin is.. but if its what i think then yes he can pop your cherry but if dry fuckin is when your just on top and all over eachother with cloths on then NO he cant pop your cherry.. but if youve had sex like regualr sex then yes he's probably popped your cherry.. ♥ Dez

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1. how do i give a good lapdance (( i saw you like giving them lol so i thought i would ask you lol)
2. how do you give head? like really good?

lol Lapdances are so much **FUN** but okay im kinda of a big big tease when i give lapdances but its always nice to see guys gettin teased..
Well firts you might want to come up on him slowly and make him sit down.. make sure you dont let him touch you yet just start touchin your body and then slowly move down to him.. your butt against his dick and start movin up and down slowly.. then maybe every now and then turn around and put your chest against his and get real close to his ear and blow in it a lil bit then lick the bottom of his ear.. then stand up again and still touch your body then turn around again and keep your butt against his dick then take his hand if your okay with it and put it somewhere on your body and let him move his hand down slowly..lol do whatever else you want during it but its always fun..

Okay ive givin head but im not sure if the best way.. well i always like to tease my boyfriend before even givin him head so usually i start with a lil lapdance lol or i jus kiss up and down on his body and touch his dick and stuff and i also lick the tip of his dick a couple times to make him want it and then start kissin his body a lil longer and messin with his ears and movin my hand up and down his body while i kiss him.. then i kiss his body down one final time and start messin with his dick wihtmy tounge and then i go all the way down with my mouth for a while.. some girls like to lick/suck guys balls and they seem to like it alot.. if you get tired of cukin his dick just spit alot on it and start jackin him off i end up doing that sometimes.. if you have anymore questions just ask.. ♥ Dez

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