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I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 6 months. We're very romantically close, and quite physically close(we've only kissed, but we're still very physical). She has a bit of a confidence problem, but I've mostly got that controlled. I'm wondering, what can I do to make her feel more sexy? She does a lot to make me feel sexy, but I think I need to do more to let her know that I think she is too.
Thank you in advance for your help.
16/m

tell her. i mean, whenever you're thinking it, but don't over do it er you'll look like you're doing it on purpose.

-hope that helped!♥

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Ok so my friend told me that when you get your peroied that your boobs get bigger. It that true? Thanks for all you help :)

yeah. your period could increase the size, but totally like..noticible. i mean you'll probably notice, but i dont think anyone else will. plus they could get bigger & then go back to regular size. it kind've depends. it's the whole puberty thing.

-hope that helped!♥

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Ok so there is this guy that i just got to know this year. He is great and sweet and a wonderfull person. We have a lot in common. The problem is he won't tell me that he likes me though he told that to one of my best friends, his best friend, and everyone can tell anyways. I like him too and i want him to ask me out. My friends told me to kiss hhim and i want to but i am soo nervous and scared. I wish he would just get it over with. If i kiss him then that would be my first kiss. My question is: What should I do? Should I kiss hiim or just confront him?

i think you should confront him, because maybe he doesn't want to kiss yet. i mean, you don't want to scare him off er anything. basically juss tell him how you feel.

-hope that helped!♥

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my boyfriend really wants to have sex...i think i love him and i really want to too. i am just so nervous...she i wait?or should i just go for it?protection? andy advice...?¿

its totally up to you. i think you should be absolutely ready for it, because it's a big step in a relationship. here are a few things to think about-

1- religion. if you're a christian basically, you should be a virgin until you get married.

2- values. some girls get the name as 'slut' since they had sex at a younger age, and aren't married. i guess it's different when you're like 30 & still aren't married, but that's not the case here.

3- stds. you have to make sure he's a virgin er doesn't have any stds. that's a huge issue here, because they're very harmful.

4- pregnancy. you do not want to get pregnant & condoms don't always work.

5- bf/gf relationship. what if you guys have sex & he dumps you. you'll feel horrible & taken advantage of. make sure you trust him.

it's really up to you, but those are juss some things to think about. definately use protection.

-hope that helped!♥

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sorry this is long, and full of profanities, but i seriously cant take it anymore.

hey i dont know who is going to be up at 10 oclock on a Sunday, but of course i am. You see, i really hate my dad. Time after time he makes me so pissed off and annoyed at him, and i just cannot stand it. Like this morning, he wakes me up at 8 30 to go to church, and then he fucking leaves without me because i "wasnt ready!" Now i have to go by myself and after church i was supposed to have plans with my friend i havent seen in 2 months and i cant even do that! This morning i was writing an away message and he tells my little sister to turn off the computer because i was on for too long and i was "ignoring him" so she turns it off! like wtf? so i slam in the keyboard drawer because i was so pissed off, and it fucking broke! now im in trouble for breaking the keyboard, and not going to mass. Finally, my dad is angry at me because i bought too many songs on iTunes. The bill was 20 dollars.
Who cares?! 20 bucks is not a lot for buying music that me and my brother listen too, and this doesnt even happen every month! Usually its like 5 bucks!
You may think im being like stuck up or bratty over this, but this is how it is for me day after day. I hate my dad and im always mad at him and i wish he would leave my mom so i wouldnt have to deal with him anymore. I go to a very hard high school, and i manage to get A's and B's so i think he should be damn proud of that. can anyone help me? how can i work things out with my dad?
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i think you should sit down & talk with your dad. you probably don't want to, but it's respectful & he'll probably listen to what you have to say. maybe write him a letter. it shows that you took time & effort to write it, trying to explain how you feel about the situation. he is wrong though, because he seems too hard on you. maybe your mom can help you out on this. explain to her how you feel about it too.

-hope that helped!♥

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Hey everyone! My hair is naturally wavy and very thick. I have it cut it layers with angled bangs. If I wear my hair natural it looks, well, like crap. I would love to make my hair either curly or wavy. What do you think is the best product and how do I make this possible? Rollers? Curling Iron? Any specific product??

i think curling iron would be better than rollers, because it's a lot less time & it's faster to heat up. my hair gets extremely curly, it naturally is, but i can fix it so that it doesnt poof er anything. what i do is take a shower in the morning before school er w/e & take moose, it's called treseme, & put some of that on & let it go wet, so it's scrunched kinda but still has nice curls. try this site-

http://www.folica.com/Curling_Ir_4_1.html

if you don't want any of those, then try typing in 'curling irons' on google er something.

here's another site with hair styles you might want to use-

http://www.ukhairdressers.com/style/main.asp

-hope that helped!♥

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who makes GHD hair straigtners
i live in the UK btw lol
xx

i don't live in the UK lol, but i found this website on google that has a lot about them-

http://www.salonlines.co.uk/

-hope that helps!♥

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Ok so I am 16 and I am in love with a 15 year old!!! is that wrong? I mean he really likes me as well as I like him and I cant stop thinking about him, is it wrong for a 16 year old to date a 15 year old that is about to turn 16 in 5 months???

haha don't worry. it's only one year. some people are like 20 years apart, like celebs & stuff. look at demi & ashton. don't worry, it's perfectly fine.

-hope that helped!♥

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how do you chande the colors on aim like to ones that are not normal in know you go to run and type something in i think its regedit but im not sure so can anyone help me?

you definately don't need to DL a prog soo sorry if this is late.

first- find color codes you want for backround er text. depending on what your looking for, you can go on google and type in 'color codes' er you can use this site www.coloryourprofile.com
second- once you get your 1/2 codes, then write them down er keep the site up so you remember them. after go to your BLIST and click on MY AIM at the top & then SAVE BLIST. a box should come up w/ text & different stuff such as your blist sections. uncheck every box except TEXT COMP. & VIEWING SETTINGS.
third- make sure you save it as something you remember, like if your color is blue, save it as blue, that's what i do. & then save that thennn open up notepad. if you don't have that, you can open up any writing program except regular word, it doesn't work right.
fourth- open up notepad & LOAD BLIST & click on your saved one once and juss drag that file with your mouse over to NOTEPAD & then there will be a whole bunch of stuff & then you fill in the bg code under bg & the text code under text, make sure the code is all 6 letters & it has a # sign infront with no spaces.
fifth- save that on notepad, probably it'd be best if it was the same thing & then go to LOAD BLIST again and load that. then go to prefs & your color will be there!!!

-hope that helped!♥

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Okay this is driving me mad, today at college they played the first song to ever be put on a CD, I can't remember what it was! it's I can't look it up anywhere, I think it was a song about children? helping the world and stuff... does anybody know?

there's a lot like that, but if you go to-

www.leoslyrics.com

& type in the words it'll give you a lot of songs you can look through. sometimes when you juss see the lyrics you remember & then you can get the title & artist. sorry, that's all i could come up with.

-hope that helped!♥

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recently me and my boyfriend of over a year broke up for about a day because we didnt treat eachother very well. i want to show him now that we are back together that i will always treat him very well and that i am treatin him very well. im almost 17 and hes just turned 16. also i need ideas on what to do for him/ get him for xmas. i want a bunch of diff ideas and i also really want ideas on stuff i can put together or make him. hes in a band he plays guitar and bass and he sings and he loves music and punk music. thanks in advance!

i think whatever he likes would be best. you know, if he likes sports & you know his fav teams & stuff. that's always a good idea. those really big cards are cute too!!!! er you can write him a cute lil poem er anything like that. maybe you can learn a song on the guitar & play it for him since he's into all that. he'd probably really appreciate it. maybe write a letter expressing how you feel. it gets the point across & shows you put time & effort into it.

-hope that helped!♥

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alright.... i'm in highschool, 9th grade. and i'm sure i'm going to be going to parties where there are kissing games and stuff like that. help on how to kiss, french kiss, and how to make a dude weak when i do it! lol! like even sites too, but pesornal input, and what guys like specially? i want to make them go "wow!" i haven't kissed a guy before, but hey, that could change lol, thanks a bunch! =D

i never kissed anyone lol, its a promise i made to myself when i was like 13 buttttt wait until im 16, watch out haha. this site has some good stuff that can help-

www.coolnurse.com

good luck!♥

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so i basically really like this guy.
and i THINK keyword:THINK
he likes me back. but i could be wrong. anyways, how do i let him know i like him without actually telling him. i mean i know most of you would say that i should just bring myself to let it out and tell him how i really feel and everything, but thats a lot harder for me, and everytime i tell a guy that i like him, i make a total fool of myself, but i dont wanna emss it up this time because i JUST REALLY LIKE HIM A LOT. im soi confused and i dont know what to do..

can you have your friends help you? i mean maybe they can drop a hint saying you like him. they are right though, you should really tell him yourself, but if you really aren't comfortable w/ it, your friends can help you out. how about you call him er IM him er something & talk about it. that way it's not all awkard in person. whatever you feel comfortable with.

-hope that helped!♥

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whats the one thing a guy looks for most in girls, except for her being herself?! how do you get guys to like you?. how do know if a guy likes you? thxx p.s:rate

i think guys look for confidence, but im not a guy so..yeah haha. you can't really get them to like you, because each guy looks for certain things in a girl. same w/ knowing if a guy likes you. it depends on his personality. i found this website-

http://www.datingtips.ws/showtip.php?tipid=4065

-hope that helped!♥

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ok there is this guy i like but we are just friends with benefets. ive gone to his house and made out and he fingered me. i dont know how to talk to him about becoming more than just friends what should i do?



blondie

i think you should sit down & talk to him. explain how you feel, i mean if you guys went that extra step in becoming 'friends with benefits' he obviously feels something for you. plus if you don't tell him sooner er later, he might found someone else, because he thinks you guys are juss 'friends with benefits'. you juss gotta be open with him. i mean, if you're really freaked out about it w/e, call him up. i guess it doesn't have to be in person, yet that'd be better. juss talk to him about it.

-hope that helped!♥

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when you are typing something .. what is the code to use when you need an upside down ! or ? ...thanks so much ! ( this is for a spanish paper =] )

alt 5544

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I really like this older guy and he likes me. The age difference is quite big, he's in his mid 40's and I am 27.
We both like each other and have been on a couple of dates, but I'm worried about other people;s reaction to us.
For example, we had many raised eyebrows when we went out to a restaurant together. Someone asked me if he was my father!!
Also other friends of mine that have met him don't find him attractive and don't know what I see in him. I've always gone for guys with nice personalities than good looking guys who were jerks. So what if he's a little overweight and going grey?
He treats me well and I feel like I can talk to him about anything.
What should I say to everyone who is trying to break us up?

don't even listen to them. love doesn't go by age & it isn't like you're in hs, and he's a senior & your like a 6th grader. you both are very mature & both are adults. you should date whoever you feel comfortable with and like/love whatever it is you feel about him. juss tell them that you're happy & that's all that should be said. you wouldn't want to let a great guy go juss because of what your friends er other people think.

-hope that helped!♥

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im 13, 5'2"ish and like 150lbs. is that over weight? cuz i think im really fat and everyone says im not and i know theyre all trying to e nice. i cant stand life anymore. my being so fat makes me wanna die. ive been called fat like 47 times in my life and countless people have told me im not so i dont know who to believe. am i fat or not? i really hate myslef andi cant stand life anymore. its like i just dont care about anything anymore. please help.

you can't really tell if it's over weight, because there's a lot of things that go into it. if you wanna find out your BMI, which is basically like..your body mass index lol thats what it stands for but it tells you, its on-

www.coolnurse.com

there's a few things i want to point out to you, maybe you can build up your confidence.

1-everyone goes through that stage, either they're too fat too skinny er they juss dont like the way they look. its completely normal.

2-who says you have to be skinny to be gorgeous?? look, there's plus size models out there that work it & are soo pretty & they juss have huge confidence & smile a lot. the sexiest thing you can wear is your smile.

3-you can be heavy & look good. it juss depends what you wear. there's cute clothes that can cover you up & you'll still look really good.

i'm not saying your fat, but you can always work around it if you think you are. juss be happy with yourself & who cares what anyone else thinks, as long as your happy. it's all the media, 'skinny is in' when it isnt. really..juss try to look at the good things in you & stay healthy & all that stuff. stay strong!!!! you can do it.

-hope that helped!♥

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hey guys! okay, so i have this best guy friend and he's pretty close, like i talk to him every day and see him a lot and stuff. well he's obsessed/in love with one of my best friends. but, she's recently going out with someone, and he hates the guy. i'm not sure if i like my guy friend like more than a friend, but i'm pretty sure i do :-P and like... i'm not sure, but i know he doesn't like me more than a friend back, but i'm not totally sure. a lot of people think he likes me, but who knows? well... after saying all of this, how could i get him to possible go out with me or something? iknow that's weird and all, but like... haha, just like... since the girl he likes is already going out with someone, do i make my move? 'cause he's like a really good friend and stuff, but i dunno. lol, not REAL sure what the point of this was, but if you can figure it out :)

thanks

you can definately make your move. your friend has a bf already, so it isn't a big deal & she probably doesn't like him anyway. hang out w/ him a lot, but don't over do it er anything. since he's your best guy friend, you should definately let him know how you feel. i mean, he'll completely understand, & be flattered er something. he might even end up realllllly liking you if he doesn't already. juss talk to him about it.

-hope that helped!♥

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ok so im 15/f and i really like this guy and i've liked him for acouple months but we're not in any classes together this year so we never see eachother anymore! i really want to find a way to hang out with him but i have a twin brother and they're pretty good friends and i dont really want him to know that i like him. haha so do you guys have any ideas on how i can find a way to hang out with him! thanks!

that'd be easy if hes good friends w/ your twin brother!! i mean, if he comes over to your house a lot & stuff, then you guys can hang out more. you might wanna wait on telling your brother, depending on how close he is w/ him & stuff, juss so it doesn't spread around yet. juss ask him to hang out & stuff. it prob wouldn't be a big deal.

-hope that helped!♥

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