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im 13, 5'2"ish and like 150lbs. is that over weight? cuz i think im really fat and everyone says im not and i know theyre all trying to e nice. i cant stand life anymore. my being so fat makes me wanna die. ive been called fat like 47 times in my life and countless people have told me im not so i dont know who to believe. am i fat or not? i really hate myslef andi cant stand life anymore. its like i just dont care about anything anymore. please help.
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It sounds like you may be a little chubby but not fat. If you don't like your weight then you may want to try a diet. Look at the food pyrimid and eat accorrding to that and look at the container of whatever your eating and eat one serving (according to the box) at a time. I've also heard that it's healthyer to eat small portions through-out the day instead of 3 big meals a day.
good luck and I hope I helped
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OKAY FRIST OF ALL IM NOT SURE ABOUT BEING OVER WEIGHT BUT ANYWAY IF YOUR CONCERD ABOUT YOUR WEIGHT TRY EATING HEALTHLY I THOUGHTD ITD NEVER WORK FOR ME BUT I LOST ALOT OF WEIGHT BY EATING HEALTHLY AND EXERCISEING LIKE SPROTS AND STUFF ITS NOT WORTH BEING SAD AND WANT TO DIE AND ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS IF YOU EAT HEALTHY AND EXERCISE YOU CAN SEE WHAT YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOUR WEIGHT LOSS ITS WORTH A TRY ♥
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I'm sorry, but yes, you are overweight. That doesn't mean you should feel bad about yourself!!
A good way to boost your confidence and help you lose weight is to excersize!! Take a walk, go on a bike ride, go to the gym!! It really does make you feel better, I know personally. Hope I helped!!
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I'd say you're fat, but there are other options than suicide. There is this thing called "dieting and exerising" that some people just don't realize. If you eat right and exerise, then you will be able to lose weight.
Excuse me? You gave me a one AND called me a retard because I told you to diet AND told you that suicide is the wrong choice? Grow the fuck up little girl. Don't go to an advice website and not take good advice given to you. If all you wanted was people to tell you you're not fat, then you're just stupid. You are fat, I'm not going to lie to you. You should do something about it though, something that doesn't involve ending your life.
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I`m sorry to say, but I did a BMI check and you are overweight. But do not feel bad! You can fix this. First start off by slowly cutting out sodas. ( You can lose about 5 LbS a week by cutting out sodas ) Secondly try joining a local gym to work out in. If thats not availible to you, trying running with a friend and working out to exercise tapes. Just keep a smile on your face and stay motivated to get in shape. And remember to watch what you eat, try not to go overboard on fats & sugars and some carbss.
Hope it all works out hun =)
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PLEASE dont think about not living anymore..cause you know i am worse when i was 13 i was like 5'1" and i was 160-170 pounds..and i was made fun of all my life...right now i am 15 i am same height as you and i am 170-180 pounds...You are probably very pretty so dont worry so much..but if your having that big of a problem with your self just start excersing, take like long walks..believe me walkin has helped me, now i love walking..but it really depends on the way ur body is made..cause me personally i was built big boned i may look fat but its just cause were my bones are...just listen to the people who tell you that you look beatuiful..cause they are the ones tellin the truth:) hopefully i help byebye
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Your not fat. But if you keep thinking that way you may as well be...you need to be confident about your body and if your not your self-estem goes down. If you want to make yourself feel better maybe take part in a sport or activity that gets you moving. don't listen to what other people say. It is your body not theirs, and they shouldn't have said anything like that in the first place.
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When I was your age I weighed 117 pounds and I was taller than you by 2 inches and the docter told me that I was heavier than other girls my age, even though I was rail skinny .Because of this one stupid nurse I thought I was fat.
My point is, don't listen to what other people say, just worry about how YOU feel.
Anyways, now I weigh around 160 pounds and I am 5'6, and I feel healthier than when I was 13.
I've struggled with my weight since I was about 16, and kids in school can be so cruel. The boys were nice to me when I was skinny but when I put on weight they treated me like dirt.
If you really feel that badly about your body I would suggest talking to a nutritionist and joining a gym. You will drop weight and feel better about yourself.
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you can't really tell if it's over weight, because there's a lot of things that go into it. if you wanna find out your BMI, which is basically like..your body mass index lol thats what it stands for but it tells you, its on-
www.coolnurse.com
there's a few things i want to point out to you, maybe you can build up your confidence.
1-everyone goes through that stage, either they're too fat too skinny er they juss dont like the way they look. its completely normal.
2-who says you have to be skinny to be gorgeous?? look, there's plus size models out there that work it & are soo pretty & they juss have huge confidence & smile a lot. the sexiest thing you can wear is your smile.
3-you can be heavy & look good. it juss depends what you wear. there's cute clothes that can cover you up & you'll still look really good.
i'm not saying your fat, but you can always work around it if you think you are. juss be happy with yourself & who cares what anyone else thinks, as long as your happy. it's all the media, 'skinny is in' when it isnt. really..juss try to look at the good things in you & stay healthy & all that stuff. stay strong!!!! you can do it.
-hope that helped!♥
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hi well dont be sad im 5'4" and weigh 100lbs people think im anerexic. if ur not content with ur body try to go to a gym or eat better dont just cry about it do something today
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omfg...you are not fat dont believe whateva those bastards say!!! most of that is muscle...and muscle ways soo much more than fat does...so you are not fat!!! and you know how you say you dont feel like living any more...ive been there i wuz depressed for like 3 years...youll get over it...and all those ppl calling you fat are gonna "grow up" and then they will know how you felt when they called you fat...probably half those ppl weigh just as much as you do or even more!!! so just dont listen to em...and if it makes you feel like crap then take their negitave comments and crap and put it into energy and exersize the crap out of em and then then cant make fun of ya anymore...
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Just because you're not skinny, doesn't mean that you are fat. People say mean things all the time, but the reasons that they say these things are not because they are true. If a lot of people tell you that you aren't fat, you probably aren't. You are your worst critic. There are a lot of people that care about you and who think jerks ruin your life. They are insecure in their own lives and believe that making other people feel like they do is the only way to make themselves feel better. I hope that you feel better soon. Good luck!
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