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What are the symptoms of cervical cancer?? Like can you tell when you have it? (link)
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Hi, here should be all the information you need to know about Cervical Cancer.
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/cervicalcancer.html
http://health.yahoo.com/ency/healthwise/tw9600
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ihad sex about three weeks ago and he used a condom. But i usualy have my period either the 20th-21st of every month and this month i missed it.
*im pretty sure the condom didnt break but when he pulled out the condom was like half way off.
so my question is should i take a test tomorrow ( which is kinda what i was planning on doing ) or do i just wait?
thanks (link)
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You aren't very late on your period, and it could be that you're having an irregular or abnormal period.
Being as it hasn't been very long, the test could show negative because it's too early. I would wait about 5-7 days to get a pregnancy test. However, if it makes you feel more comfortable, you could buy one tomorrow, and then buy one is about a week, too.
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My friend always ditches me.
& today she wrote this hugeeee apology.
I don't feel like i should forgive her, if shes always done it & said the same thing before.
What should i do? (link)
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Honestly, this girl is not your friend. I've been there and has a so-called friend just like that, she always ditched me and she always came up with lame excuses. It's not right and she wasn't my friend, as soon as I realized that I just told her that I wasn't going to be a friend to someone, who isn't my friend. And I think you should do the same, not neccessarily exactly what I said to the person who did this to me, but to not forgive her for something she's done more than once.
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I’ve been brought up by a religious family. This October, I had this epiphany where I realized that I don’t believe in god.
Now, I’m a little obsessed with death. Not my own death, but the death of people I love. I function normally but when I think about someone close to me dying, I get really depressed because I realize that once they’ll die, I’ll –never- see them again.
It’s come to the point that every day, I think about death at least once and every time I hug my mother (who I love more than anyone in the world), I feel so scared because I know that at some point she’ll die and I won’t ever be able to look at her again. I keep trying to add up how old she is and compare it to the average life expectancy and count how many years she has left and I keep hoping I’ll die before her. It isn’t just her either, I’m really afraid of my sister dying or my close friends dying too.
At first, I thought it was a phase and that I would come to accept it but it’s been four months and it doesn’t seem to be going away. I also a little OCDesque, I’m obsessed with germs and I rinse a lot. Do you think I should go to counseling or will it fade? I don’t know how I’m ever going to be able to go through a week without thinking about people dying.
Also, please don’t try to recruit me to your religion. That’s not what I’m looking for and I don’t want any of those messages. I will rate you very low for them. (link)
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First off, I just want to tell you that I would never try to "recruit" you into my own religion and beliefs. I'm not here to judge you, I'm only here to help you. So I can promise you I will never do that to you, or anyone else that I give advice to.
Now to answer your question, I personally, do not think this is a phase you're going through at the moment. Being as it has been so long, either. I'm concerned that it's death you're thinking about, because yes, it can be a very scary thing. I don't think it matters what religion or even if you aren't religious -- it's still scary. However, this is huge amount of time thinking about it.
I do think you should go counseling, because he/she has experience in these areas. And he/she can and will help you with your situation. So yes, I definitely recommend seeing a counselor.
I wish you nothing but the best of luck, and I'm sure everything will be okay and work out just fine for you. :)
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I'm 14 and I met a guy last summer when we worked together. We only saw each other a couple of days but we really hit it off and have been texting each other for six months now. Finally, last week we had our first real date. It has taken awhile because our parents have felt like we weren't right for each other because of age. We went to the movies. We did kiss, but that was all I was willing to do. He tried to do more and he was real nice about it when I said no. Everything seemed fine. I talked to him the next few days, but now it has been four days and he hasn't been in touch. I don't know what to think cause he kept saying, next time this, next time, Does this guy care or was he just wanting to get together to see what I would do? What should I do? (link)
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I don't know this guy, but it isn't sounding very good. I mean, if he's been texting you everyday and you two have been talking that long -- and it comes your first date and you're only willing to kiss him. And now, he stops talking. Honestly, as much as I hate this for you or for anyone that goes through this type of situation, I think he's only out for sex and that cuts it.
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Hi im 14 male,i was wondering,how old would most parents say you should be before your girlfriend could sleep over,like in the same room/same bed.I know some parents are strict, but what would most parents say is old enough?
Thanks,
Please Anwser
and its not to have sex...its just to cuddle with eachother and to kiss eachother goodnight..
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Well, I think this depends on many factors. Mostly, on how much your parents trust you. And trusting the girl, may come in to hand as well. And even then, it would be pretty unlikely for them to allow it. If you have a close relationship with your parents, I don't see the harm in asking, all they can do is say no.
As far as just an age, it's very hard to estimate. But if they would let you or someone in general, only considering age. I would say much older than you, such as seventeen or eighteen-years-old.
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so im goin to the pediatricion tomorrow w/ my mom for a check up. last time i went i had to wear a hospital gown so that they could check me out & stuff.. but like.. last time i went was like 2 years ago & i had only shaved my private area like once so it wasnt noticable , but do doctors care? i mean.. im 14 so i dont see that it matters. but my mom doesnt know i do it, and i dont want the doctors to say anything
they wouldnt say anything would they? (link)
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No, absolutely not. They aren't going to talk about it at all, when you go. Because that isn't their job -- their job is to look out for your health. And that's where it stops. So you definitely do not have anything to worry about.
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I used to be a moderator [level one] and someone hacked into my account, and managed to do something to get me banned from the site for about a week and I lost my moderator status. Anyway to fix this, other than change my password [which I already did] and wait until the amount of time is up and apply again? (link)
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More than likely, you won't be able to recover your moderator status. Unfortunately, you're probably going to have to make another account, wait a month and fit the other qualifications to become a moderator.
You can ask DN about it, and see if he can do anything about it. If anyone can, it will be DN. dangernerd@gmail.com
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I dont know what to do. Music has taken over my life. Its basically taken over any kind of life I have. I really dont want to see my boyfriend or friends anymore because I want to play my guitar. And another thing, everyone makes fun of the music I listen to because its mostly old stuff. I cant help it! Thats just what I like. What do I do? (link)
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I wouldn't worry about the people making fun of you, because you like the oldies. Hey, I'm fourteen and I love George Jones, Loretta Lynn, Beatles, Conway Twitty and all that good stuff. It may be old, but that doesn't mean it's not good. Which you realize that, so I think it's great. Honestly, don't worry about it. Truth be known, they probably make fun of you and hide all of their oldies in their closet, ha, ha.
However, you might want to cut out music enough for your boyfriend and your friends. Because they're important too. :)
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at my school a lot of people have already lost their virginity. not just regular sex, but from oral and other stuff. i know that theres one guy that would be willing to but i don know if i should. i dont just want to be a follower but i also dont want to be the loser. (link)
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Listen, you definitely should not do anything you are not comfortable with. I urge you not to have sex, with this guy. And I have to commend you, for not having sex. Because I know, how hard it is and the pressure can get nearly unbearable. And you have managed to stick to your beliefs and values this long, I think that's great. And to continue, that's even better. So I do not recommend having sex with this guy, whatsoever.
And you aren't a loser by not having sex, no matter what anyone says. You're being safer, than what the ones who are having sex. And you're sticking to what you are comfortable with, and again, that's a great thing. And that's what you should do, never do anything you're uncomfortable with.
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15/f
Okay, about a year and a bit ago, (with my boyfriend of 10months), I had sex. But my cherry didn't pop. So my question is.. Am I still a virgin or no? (link)
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No, you are not a virgin. Because if you have sexual intercourse, it means you are no longer a virgin. The breaking of the hymen, really doesn't all depend on sex. Or at all, being as it can be broken by the simplest things. Such as playing sports, inserting a tampon or even riding a bike.
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weird question lol again..
but for a girl, whats a cherry, like i know what it is but what does it do? (link)
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When a girl "pops her cherry," the literal meaning is the breaking of her hymen. Which many believe can only be broken by having sex, but there are many other ways. Such as inserting tampons, playing sports or even riding a bike.
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On myspace, there are a selected few that seem to have their profiles hacked or something of the sort. It's obvious by the bullitens posted that they don't have control over what is being typed on their account. Should I delete them off my friends list to protect my account? (link)
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No, you do not have to delete them. I'm in the same situation, all of my friends' accounts have been hacked into and have gotten their passwords. But there is no way that they can hack into yours, or at least not through your friends being hacked. As long as you have a good, solid password and keeping checking your posted bullitens, you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
And by the way, I recommend letting your friends know that someone has their password. So they can change it, and the hacker can't get their personal information.
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I really need a hobby.What hobbies could I take up? (link)
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Of course, this depends on the things you like, but here are some hobbies that I think you'll probably like. Or could take an interest in.
*Singing.
*Dancing.
*Writing.
*Knitting.
*Sewing.
*Collecting (whatever things you like.)
*Reading.
*Sports.
*Taking up a new language.
*Giving advice. ;)
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Talent show tryouts are coming up VERY soon, & i still gona have a song.
Any ideas for a soprano?
I want a somewhat slow song.. no Kelly Clarkson or anything like that.
Just something to WOW the audience.
Also, I would like more of a song for girls with soft voices.
Thanks
--Whitney (link)
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I definitely recommend, "Only Hope" by Mandy Moore.
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Hey does anybody know where i can download a free trial of Photoshop 9, I've tried bearshare, morpheus, limewire, imesh, etc. None of those work!!!
Could you please help me, i need it A.S.A.P as i have to do a project for my science homework
thanks
Miranda (link)
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Here is the free trial version, that is legal.
http://www.soft32.com/download_346.html
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my friend always says the word tushay [sp?] wht does it mean? (link)
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Here is the definition of "Touche`."
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/touche
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ok well i recently asked a question about something, then when i logged on it said somebody answered it. It said (1) so I clicked on it to see what my answer was but there was nobody who answered it. I was just blank.
Also if it helps, I got an email from advicenators (noreply) and it said that your advicenators question has been answered. So why did it say somebody answered my question, but when i look at it, there's no answer? (link)
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Hi, the problem you're having is caused by someone who has deleted their answer. Therefore, it will not show up on your question.
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What are some cute clothing stores that sell clothes kinda like Forever 21 and Wetseal? Anything you say will help. Thanks a bunch! =) (link)
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There are many stores, like these. Of course, each of them have their own personal style going, though.
Nordstrom, Abercrombie & Fitch, Aeropostale, Hollister are some good examples of stores like Forever 21 and Wetseal.
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is there ANY CHANCE of getting pregnant if you give head? like anyy chance at all? because i know its stupid, but im just worried. (link)
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No, there isn't any chance. Because for you to get pregant, sperm has to enter the vagina. So you don't have to worry about getting pregnant. However, you are at risk for sexually transmitted diseases.
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