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Okay, so I've been a bit of a tomboy/goofball since the 3rd Grade. I love hanging out with guys (and I have WAY more guy friends than gal friends), I joke around a lot, and I'm a bit clumsy. But this isn't what I really want. I can't get dates, because guys usually thnk I'm joking when I say I like someone. It drives me crazy and I can't go through a day without thinking: "Am I ever going to get a boyfriend like this?"
So I want to turn my life around. The problem is I am NOT suitable for absolute girly girl. I mean, I want to change out of my old pants (meant for guys) and things but I don't want to be a pink loving, make up applying, small dog loving girly girl.
So... how can I start changing my life? I've tried before, and it turned out as a disaster. I don't want to change right away, because I'll be interrogated by hundreds of people if I just show up at school in a skirt on Monday.
How can I approach this without making a complete idiot of myself? (link)
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-dont wear baggy jeans
-wear tight jeans
-try to make your hair look nice (like straighten
it)
-you can wear a LITTLE make up. like eyeliner
-wear tight shirts. they don't have to be girly or
pink, just wear like tight shirts. like band
shirts. or "junk food"-label shirts:
http://www.junkfoodclothing.com/
-for shoes, wear either chucks, or dunks. i love
dunks, because theyre colorful, and not girly.
-wear jewelry, and it doesnt have to be preppy,
but just as long as its not emo/goth etc.
-avoid wearing too much black.
-for nails, i always paint mine black or white.
or black and white sometimes haha. cuz black and
white match every outfit
-dont worry too much about matching
most of all, keep in mind that your gonna need to
kinda phasee into this. you cant just completely
change your style. do it slowly. most of the
above it how i dress myself, and i actually am
prettyy girly. just not preppy
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So, last night, I had a little to drink and I had a random hookup with one of my friend's friends. We didn't have a condom, and I have been on birth control for a month last night. The sex didn't last long at all, he got off and pulled out. I'm wondering since I've not been on birth control other than a month if there's going to be a possibility of pregnancy? (link)
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theres a chance, but reaaaallllyy little.
i wouldn't worry about it too much.
just be sure to go get a pregnancy test soon
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is there any way to make my boobs bigger? (link)
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yeahh plastic surgeryy :)
haha i know thats not what you meanntt... but
besides that, no there isnt. some birth control
pills work on SOME people, not everyone.
also, your 13. your not done developingg
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okay, i'm starting a job some time this week. i had to get my work permit and everything. on my first day of work i have to get a salvia mouth swab drug test. how long can it detect weed in your system? i smoked last night (saturday) not a lot though. will they be able to detect it? please don't tell me about the dangers of smoking or to stop. i've heard it all. thanks. (link)
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pot can stay in your system for up to 30 days!
so thats reaaaall unlucky. and no im not gonna
say stopp ;)
try to get it postponed.
orrr do this:
http://www.themedicalcorner.com/drug-screen-top-10.asp
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over a month and its kinda a long distance thing and he wants to see "pictures" of me and wants me to send them through texting... im not really comfortable with that but he gets upset what should i do :/ (link)
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1) you shouldn't do that because those pictures
could come back and haunt you foreverr. they
eassilyyy get passed around at school
2) your boyfriend shouldnt ask you to do anything
that makes you uncomfortable. especially this...
3) if i were you i'd talk to him, and if he can't
seem to understand, then break it off. he needs
to be able to respectt youu! and of course you
deserve someone who doesn't make you do anything
your not comfortable with doing.
i hope that helpss and good luck! if you ever
need more advice then you can hit up my inboxx :)
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Im 15 and havnt had a relationship...out of my own choice..i decided when i go out with a boy i want to make sure i know it will lead somewhere and that i have to truly like him..not just a 2 week stupid relationship. But now im getting to a point where im past waiting for boys...genuine boys. You can never find them where i live. They're all into this gansta r and b rubbish. I need a boy who accepts me as their equal and loves everything about me and dosnt want anything sexual. How long till i find someone like that?I want love...whether im young or not and im tired of waiting. My best friend has been hurt so many times and its just proved to us both noone is genuine and cares about the girls heart. Please can someone give me some help..why arent there boys like that ? (link)
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There ARE boys like that out there, but you have to find them yourself, they aren't just going to fall out of the sky and right into your lap. But you love and you learn, just because your friend got her heart broken many times, don't give up on finding that one special person. The nice guys are out there, and I hate to tell you this, but we aren't perfect and guys aren't either, so before you judge a book by it's cover, give the guys the beneift of the doubt and see how they are. And you can never know how long it will take to find that guy who will sweep you off your feet, you either wear your heart on your sleeve and risk it all, or wait and wait and wait for that guy who may also be waiting.
Good luckk
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i've only ever pecked a guy, but just in case...
how do you make out?? i know it will come naturally and all but is there some kind of technique or something? I dont want to make a fool of myself..
Thanks so much (link)
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theres a 24938469035 websites you could read, but
basically what you should do is follow his lead.
and it WILL come naturally. however just make sure
you go a different direction then he does when
goin in for the kiss, so that you dont bump noses.
and also dont forget to break (out of your nose).
finally, when makin out, its basically just open
mouthed kissing, but you use your tongue. and like
"play" with his.
if that doesn't answer any of your quetsions you
can always feel free to leave me an inbox message!
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were can u get like self waxing things for down there?
and will it hurt? what will it feel like? (link)
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any drug store.
like cvs, rite aid, etc.
yeahhh it hurts.
it feels like PAIN
i brazilian wax allll the timee so i'm a super
expert on it and you can always ask me for more
additional information if you need it!
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Me and my mom are kind of close. We get along soemtimes but not really. I can't go to her for anything. She gets really involved in my sisters life and i think its weird. So i don't go to her for anything. But then she wonders why i don't go to her! I really want to take acting lessons and possibly model. i also kind of want to be in a pagent. i just can't get up the guts to tell my mom this. what if she doesn't think i should? HELP PLEASE! (link)
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It sucks when you can't go to your mom [parents] for everything, because you do need permission, I totally understand. But you shouldn't doubt your mom, she mosty likely wants to be involved in your life, and if you bring up the things that you want to do, she'll take it that you also want her to be closer to you, and she can bond with you over this. How will you know how your mom feels if you don't talk to her about it, or at least mention it? I know that that's going to be hard and it's gonna take a lot of guts to do it [in your case] but what else can you do? Just bring it up and hope for the best, give your mom the benefit of the doubt. But before you say anything to her, do the research on the topic, like where you can get acting classes near you and all of that, then present her with all of your information. I'm positive that she'll take you more seriously and be up for the idea since you did the hard work to find all of the info without her holding your hand through it all.
Good luckk and have fun :]
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when i was little(like 1 yr. old) i went to a babysitter.there was this other kid that went there(along with about 6 more) so it was kind of like a MINI day care center for locals...
ANYWAY he and i were like best friends. we grew uup together and everryone was always saying how we were going to end up married. i did like him and he liked me so it was cute. we grew uup together until about 6th grade. when we went into 6th grade, we diddnt have any classes together so we never talked. now its 1/2 way through my 7th grade and we still havent talked.we accasionally pass in the hallway and playfully punch eachother.
i want to be his friend(ONLY) but i dont know if it would be weird to just start talking to him again.HELP!! (link)
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Go for it, talk to him. He probably misses talking to you too, I mean you both grew up together so, it shouldn't be really awkward, at first it might be a little shaky, but you guys shared a lot of your life together, and you'll always be good friends, so why not start talking to him again? You can be just friends and talk to him, sparks aren't gonna fly by being his friend again. Trust me, if you want to be his friend again, then let him back into your life :]
Good luckk and anything else, just inbox me
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okay, i'm starting a job some time this week. i had to get my work permit and everything. on my first day of work i have to get a salvia mouth swab drug test. how long can it detect weed in your system? i smoked last night (saturday) not a lot though. will they be able to detect it? please don't tell me about the dangers of smoking or to stop. i've heard it all. thanks. (link)
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i hate to tell you this, but yes they probably will. you could always eat a popyseed bagel just in case, and tell them to have you take it again.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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13/f they're 14/m
i was walkin around and "bobs" friends come up to me.
[[heres our convo]]
them:hey rachel... do you like bob?
me: [[i lied and said]] no
them: aw why not? he likes you!
*bob comes up next to them.*
them:bob dont you like her
bob: yeah. *bobs sorta laughs and looks away*
me: dont play with me.
*i walk away*
ive never talked to bob before..
ive just had a major crush....
do you think they're joking?
i think they are.. i just wana make sure. (link)
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it sounds like he really likes you, but make him show you, play the same little misterious game he is, and play around like, i dont know...maybe maybe not. and he will start really showing that he truely likes you if he does. if they make it out to be a joke, then you were silly and sarcastic so you can bring that right back at them and say that you knew, and you would never really like him more than a friend.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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16/f i was part of a band forum about 5 months ago...for 1.5 years. and everything was okay...i was a good member and all..but then it began to be way too chaotic on there..and so i quit. and now there are these 14 and 13 year old girls sending me messages and somehow finding me on myspace...and harassing me...telling the whole freaking internet about me. i dont know what to do...things like this upset me. but theyre like posting links to my website everywhere..i'm just scared. i do realize its the internet. and they all live in different states/countries. what should i do? =| (link)
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i would definetly delete all of your accounts, and if you cant figure out how, then look for an email address of the president in the website, and complain. also, if this persists with the girls, then i would threaten them by telling them that if they do not stop, you will get the police involved, and that you have all of the sites and harasment letters they sent you. another thing would be to take all pictures of you and your friends off of the internet. you do not want some sicko to come and try to find you, especially if the brats are posting the website links around everywhere. if things do not stop after you try to take control, then you can call the police, they will come over themselves or send someone over to your house, check out the computer, and find out the exact location of the girls.
GoOd LuCk!!!
ps
tell an adult right away, and do not give out any personal info to them, and you might just want to stop messaging them and ignore them, and see if they go away. KeEp Me UpDaTeD!
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Ok i just want to know peoples opinions on these types of things. Do you believe in them? Do you think they actualy work? just whats your opinion on them? (link)
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i think that they work...sometimes they really work when something big is happening in my life, or maybe i recognize there is something big happening in my life and i just get inspired by the fortune. since i am currently in a big situation in my life, i find that aim horoscopes have really predicted my life acurately recently haha :-] i also think that you need to believe it works for something to happen. as for fortune tellers, besides people like hudini and Chris Angel, i think they are full of crap, and say things to you that would apply to most people's life styles. but then again thats just my opinion. :-]
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So your on a date and its extremly horrible. Whats a legit excuse to leave? (link)
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haha...love this question!
excuses to leave bad date:
~dont feel well
~forgot about meeting
~forgot about family function
~family crisis
~parents do not know you are out and you have to leave before you get caught
i also found some websites on the topic haha! :-]
http://www.ehow.com/how_2064203_escape-from-bad-date.html
http://www.datestories.com/
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138098
GoOd LuCk!!!
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last night i had this strange, confusing dream. usually i can make sense of my dreams..mostly because a lot of times what i dream about comes true in some way. anyways, i was going to the mall with my friend. when i got into the mall i realized i had no shoes on and i was barefoot so i went to look for shoes. i saw a pair for $4 but i knew there were cheaper ones somewhere else, and the lady at that store yelled at me for not wanting them and we got in this huge fight.. so then i kept walking. as we were walking this guy came up to me and jumped on me like attacking me, and i was wearing this blue tank top and skirt, and he kept trying to rip my clothes off. i was screaming for help, and this kid i hooked up with a long time ago happened to be there, and he ran over to save me. the guy was arrested and such..then him and his girlfriend walked around the mall with me and my friend. then i remember writing some kind of note in red marker, to either my friend or that guy..im not for sure. i know some dreams are just random thoughts haha, but can anyone make any sense of this? im 16 btw =] thanks! (link)
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I think [in my opinion] that you are feeling really self concious and envious of what you can't have. You could also be scared of something, and could be expecting an angry confrontation with someone. Maybe you have a secret that you want to get out from inside of you?
Well, I'm no expert, but I hope it helped.
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Okay, so I've been a bit of a tomboy/goofball since the 3rd Grade. I love hanging out with guys (and I have WAY more guy friends than gal friends), I joke around a lot, and I'm a bit clumsy. But this isn't what I really want. I can't get dates, because guys usually thnk I'm joking when I say I like someone. It drives me crazy and I can't go through a day without thinking: "Am I ever going to get a boyfriend like this?"
So I want to turn my life around. The problem is I am NOT suitable for absolute girly girl. I mean, I want to change out of my old pants (meant for guys) and things but I don't want to be a pink loving, make up applying, small dog loving girly girl.
So... how can I start changing my life? I've tried before, and it turned out as a disaster. I don't want to change right away, because I'll be interrogated by hundreds of people if I just show up at school in a skirt on Monday.
How can I approach this without making a complete idiot of myself? (link)
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Subtle changes are your best bet. Try this:
-buy a pair of girl jeans
-a cute "girl" t-shirt
-wear maybe flats [cute shoes without any heels] or converse or something
-maybe do your hair differently, like put it half up or put a headband in or something
-maybe put a clear gloss on your lips [nothing too drastic]
and then progress at your own pace and your own comfort.
Good luckk
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16/m how do you get a girl to fa in love/ike you, i know all girls are different and a that but what generally works? (link)
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Talking to us, hanging out, joking around playfully, compliments, not being boring, fun, taking care of yourself and how you look, pride, interesting ... just good charcteristics and personality and stuff like that, and you're sure to get a girl to like you. [don't forget to not lie and be as charming as possiblee]
Good luckk
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Ok, I don't know if I am depressed or not...
I am tiredd all the timee
I eat all the time, but never put on weight
And I have periods of eating all the time, and then not eating like at all
I have two horses, and they used to be everything, and now they aren't
I have cut myself before, and think about it all the time, but haven't in about 5 months
I have had many suicidal thoughts...and think about it every day, almost like planning
This is lamee but, I went online and took about 6-7 tests, and they all said that I have moderate to sever depression
And I don't know...
It might also help to know that I don't talk about my feelings, keeping them all inside.
All advice is welcomed =] (link)
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Get help as soon as possible. I think you know that you are depressed, but you just don't want to admit it to yourself, but you have to understad that this is not healthy and should be taken care of immediatley. I suggest talking to a guidance counselor, doctor, friend, teacher, or family member, someone you can trust that can help you.
Please, PLEASE, don't just brush this off, talk to someone right away.
Good luckk
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where can i buy ripped jeans?
besides like hco, ae and a&f?
and dont say "make them yourself"
thanks (link)
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Here are a few ...
-zumiez [sometimes]
-Pacsun
-Fossil
-alloy
-delia*s
-Forever21
-Armani Exchange
-Express
Good luckk
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