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hey i have quite a big ass but i go in at the waist quite a bit then at the top im like not big but not small, c to be exact but like i have huge love handles and whenever i wear like baggy jeans or joggers even if there was falling down is still like look like i was over hang :S!!! i dont get it, is there any exacises or like a certain food im eating thats coursing it, or could it just be my big trunk? x x x

i have love handles!!!! & trust me, there's no way you can get rid of them. i think i've had them since like..birth haha. you juss need to learn how to work em. i mean, try looking for clothes that either hides them er flaunts them in a good way.

http://beauty.about.com/cs/summerbeaut1/ht/nolovehandles.htm

you can try that site too if you want! =)

-hope that helped!♥

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Help! This is a question for my science paper:

What is the purpose of phosphorus in a bone?

uhh i found this site

http://www.du.edu/~jcalvert/phys/phosphor.htm

if you have any other questions, juss type that in google =)

-hope that helped!♥

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i have a group of good friends. this is the 3rd time that me and my friend were left out of a sleepover. we havent been invited to one. we seem to all be very close but it puzzles me how its the same girls having sleepovers while me and her are left out. is this shady to you? what should we do? is this messed up..am i overreacting..should we just accept that somee people in the 'crew' will be closer to some than others? any feedback and/or personal experiences is appreciated

that is pretty shady. don't worry though, you have your other friend that will probably be there for you & not turn into them. i think you both should confront them about it. maybe that don't realize that it bothers you. if you guys explain that you're wondering why they leave you both out've things, maybe they'll explain what's going on. either you guys will become closer friends, er realize you don't need them anyway. juss talk to them about it.

-hope that helped!♥

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Ok there is this new girl at my school and I am friends with her. My ex boyfriend broke up with me the other day due to he liked someone else. So today it turns out that they have known each other for 2 years! So I am getting the feeling that he likes her. Like today when she first came he kept standing beside us listing to our convorsation. I still have feelings for him and still love him but I am so confused whether he likes me or her! He flirts with me but then again he acts like he likes her. So what can I do? Sorry that I asked this question b4. :)

i think you should talk to him about it. i know you like/love him & stuff but you don't wanna get involved w/ someone that likes someone else er juss flirts w/ other girls. i think if you explain to him how you'll feel, you'll feel better & he'll understand where you're coming from. if you don't feel comfortable with it then try to get your friends to help you, er you can start looking around for someone else to hang out w/ & stuff & maybe even start liking someone.

-hope that helped!♥

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My boyfriend and I had sex last week and my period usally comes on around the 24 or 25. It is the 27 and my period still haven't come on. I have been have cramps and back pain. So am I pregnant or not?

you're probably getting your period soon. juss wait a few & if it doesn't come by the 3rdish then go to the gyno. that doesn't mean your pregnant either. girls can skip months & not be pregnant, juss get checked out to be sure.

www.coolnurse.com

that site might help w/ any other questions

-hope that helped!♥

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ok this is my problem.whenever am about to haave a confrotation or fighting with anyone,my heart starts beating really first and its not like am afraid of the person its just i hate drama happening to me and i hate fights.i just want it to stop but i dont know what to do.anyone out there please help me i cant stand it no more.

girl in despair

juss relax. you have to realize that they're juss people & probably won't do anything. breathe in & out deeply & juss take your time. try staying out've all that. you shouldn't get worked up about it because it isn't worth it.

-hope that helped!♥

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to all the girls out there..my hair is puffy and wavy naturally. and when i try to scrunch it, it always ends up looking bad(either too flat or to puffy). anybody out there have any ideas on how to scrunch it right?? thanx.

i scrunch mine & it comes out pretty good because my hair is naturally curly =) what you should do is take a shower in the morning def. before school er w/e. when you're in the shower, brush your hair while it's wet. i've learned if you brush it after, it gets more poofy. juss a tip. then towel dry your hair pretty good, so it isn't dripping wet. you need some sort've gel. i use tresemme & it works real well. it comes in a black bottle & it has green lettering on it. you can buy it at like cvs, eckard, walmart, grocery stores, etc. then you take handfuls and scrunch it. however much you want to use use it. it'll probably dry after a bit, but it looks fine & doesn't look as poofy.

-hope that helped!♥

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hey you rock! ur so cool too. I wish i could be half of what you are.
-Knucklez

HEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY thanks that made me happy =)

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I recently asked a question about my ex boyfriend but ne'wayz. He likes this girl and i dont really want him to go out with her because i still have feelings for him! i dumped him tho so i shouldnt care but i do! I can't go back out with him cuz I need to obey my parents (at least for awhile) how can I stop loving him???
Thanks,
Missing him to death!

darnnn that sucks & im sorry you feel that way. you can't really stop loving him, i mean over time you can, but you can't yourself. it juss doesn't really work that way. you can try though!! no harm in that. look around you know?? i mean try to be friends w/ guys & all that. being friends is perfectly fine, & you'll probably start liking someone. have your friends hang out w/ you a lot & stuff so you don't have time to think about him. think of it this way, if he's the one for you he'll come around.

good luck!♥

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ok...Me and my ex boyfriend just broke up last wednesday and like im totally still stuck on him and would do anything to get him back...Thursday he told me he would "talk to me/see me friday at the game" little did i know he was taking another girl...well when i saw him there with this girl he didnt really want to talk to me but he finally did but my cousins friend came to the game which has a big crush on me and i kind of used him to make my ex mad and it worked but now this other guy wants to go out with me and wont stop calling!! I cant go out with somebody that i dont like and i doint know how to tell him that without hurting his feelings...what do i do?
15/Female

explain to him that you aren't looking for a bf right now since you & your ex juss broke up. he should understand that. if that doesn't work, then you have to straight out tell him that you really dislike him bothering you & stuff. i know that might hurt his feelings, but if you tell him you don't want a relationship, then he should listen & respect you. plus, you guys can have a friendship out've it.

-hope that helped!♥

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Hey, i have a question, everytime i try to upload one of my pictures it works, but it ends up being gigantic...how to i get it so that it's the little picture and not big? Thanks.

XSugarpieX77

where are you uploading it too?? & like is it from your camera on to a program?? er where are you trying to put it?? leave some in my inbox & i'll try to help.

good luck!♥

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okay this is kinda hard to explain, but anyways about a couple of months ago my dad made me move with him to a new area, new school, new everything. while i was at the new school i met a rly special guy he means the world to me and we have been going out now ever since i moved. Now my dad has decided he doesnt like it out here. So hes making me move back to my old school, old friends, which i dont want to move back. I hated it at my old school and just about everybody in the school. Now im going thru like hell....could anybody help me in anyway? oh yeah, i havent moved yet buts its going to be soon :/

is there anyway you can still talk to your dad about it?? maybe if you explain to him your whole situation he'll think about it. juss tell him how you feel & you don't want to keep switches schools & everything, & now you finally like it there. he was a kid once, so maybe he'll understand where you're coming from. if that doesn't work, there's no reason why you still can't talk to that guy. phone, online, go visit each other, hang out, etc. you can always keep in touch with the friends you made, & maybe your old friends really want you to go back to school w/ them & stuff. it'll work out.

-hope that helped!♥

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This is going to be long... BEAR WITH ME!

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now, and we are very much in love. Just like any other couple, we have our fights and our ups and downs.

A few weeks ago, at my homecoming dance a friend of mine was driving me and a large group of my friends back to a girls house for a sleepover. (Don't worry, there were no guys sleeping over) In the front seat there was a guy sitting there from another school. He used to go to my highschool but was transfered out, not sure why though. Anyway, we were tall talking in the car, and I said something and the kid in the front seat turned around and turned on the light and said "I want to get a good look at you". We were talking about random things for about 20 minutes then we got to the girls house I was staying over at, and I left.


A few days later, he added me as his friend on myspace, then we started talking alot online. We realized we had SO much in common. We like the same foods, have the same aspirations, he lives RIGHT next door to my aunt, alot of the same beliefs... About after a week or two of talking online he said to me "I'm so in love with you". I figured he meant the kind of I love you that you'd say to your close friends. And I was said "Yeah, I'm sure". He said "No, I really do. You're the most amazing girl I've ever met. I talk to you more than other girls. You're beautiful, sweet.. Everything I could ever hope for in a girl". He does know that I have a boyfriend and that we've been together for a while and that we love eachother. He says he doesn't want to get in the way of our relationship.. But he is.


I've found my self slowly but surely falling for this guy, and it sucks. But I've noticed a few things about him.. Everything he says doesn't seem sincere. He tells me how much he likes me yadda yadda yadda... But then he goes and says the same thing to other girls. So, at this point I'm thinking to myself that I'm just another girl to him.. Nothing special. I'm trying to not think about him because I DO love my boyfriend dearly.. But I keep thinking about this boy. And I hate it.



I need help to stop thinking about him.. I don't want to stop talking to him completely because he's really nice and a great person to talk to. I'm so confused... What do I do? I'm not about to ruine my year and a half relationship for something I don't know is going to even last... I'm tired of taking chances.

don't let this guy ruin your relationship. your bf likes you for you & this guy obviously said to a whole bunch of girls unlike your bf. you don't have to ignore him completely, but try staying on a juss friends basis & talk about friend stuff. it'll make your bf happier & since you guys have been dating for more than a week, it'll probably last you know?? juss try to talk to him in a friendly way & not let him get the wrong idea.

-hope that helped!♥

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Ok Me and My boyfriend broke up yesterday due to he liked another girl! It broke my heart, I was mad, and I could have pinched his head off. But now he acts like he likes me AGAIN! Like when I was sitting at lunch today with some girls he kept looking at me for long periods of time. He does that even when I pass him in the hall. And when he sees me on the bus he will look for me and when he sees me he will smile. So Whats going on???!?!? Signed Confused! (Smarty Pants will be reported.)

he definately likes you. i mean juss cus you guys broke up doesn't mean he didn't like you. he either likes her more er didn't want to be with you while liking someone else. juss ignore it if you can. if you're having problems ignoring it then juss tell him you don't appreciate him acting that way since you guys broke up & all.

-hope that helped!♥

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hello, i need help. guys just dont like me anymore. and im depressed, my best friend tells me things will be ok but i feel so alone. all i do is cry. its not looks, because guys hit on me and stuff, just like once they get to know me then run, if you have any advice please help..

juss be yourself. if they don't like you for you, then they aren't worth it anyway.

-hope that helped!♥

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im getting my nails done tomorrow for a formal and i was wondering if i should get gel nails, tips, or acryllics? (sp) i have had gel nails before and i really liked them but what is everyones opinion? easy 5 =] xO

tipsssssss!!!! i think they're way cuter =)

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16/m.-will rate- we met in a chat room, along with id say about 20 other kids. this was before the summer of 2003 and you know we were mostly from the same general area, east coast, but a few random people from cali n stuff. well anyways we all became pretty good friends, guys and girls all between 8th grade[where I was in at that time] and seniors and somehowI knew there was something different about one of them. well I thought you know: she didn’t notice me, she lives too far, blah blah blah. until I decided to, along with one of the guys there who was older, play a prank on her that id ask her out, and when she said no pretend to wanna kill myself.
at first it was hilarious, but then once I realized I hurt her feelings, I knew somethin was wrong
because I liked her as a friend nothing more, because I really didn’t know but I knew she liked me more than that so she felt terrible and then I felt bad too and I was like: wow I guess I must really care
so I told her everything n she told me everything how we felt n stuff. from then on we were...I guess u culd say closer friends. I asked her out everyday as a joke, n she always sed no and then I actually got serious, so I convinced her to believe me. after like 3 weeks and around august
she came around and sed yes. now ur thinkin, wtf is that, thats beyond insane.
she actually doesn’t live too far and yeah I know, we wer young n had no idea what we wer getting into it wasn’t like you know, something real, just for fun I guess. since then
shes been i guess... my 'gf'. now 2 things
1. she knew what i looked like and were i lived
2. i didnt know where she lived, or what she looked like. even crazier right? We actually met for the first time in person 3 days ago, still cant believe we pulled it off. Well what I wanna know is…would you consider this to be real love or a real relationship, why or why not. thanks

heck yessss shes probably a complete hottie

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hey. i have a friend who told me that someone likes me, but she wont tell me who it is. my friend is a sophmore [like me] and her name is megan but im not sure if her name is spelled with an H or not. well she told me that the girl who likes me has an H in her first name [im not sure if she does], is in none of my classes [she isnt], and is a sophmore [she is]. should i assume its her, and how do i find out for sure who it is??

ps. i already asked other people to ask her for me and she wont tell anyone else either.

find out if she has an H. haha i mean, can you look through year books er something? it probably is her. you juss need to narrow it down & ask her yourself.

good luck!♥

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ok it's kind've long & full of drama, but if you're willing to listen to what i have to explain, thank you.

i've been friends with this girl & i've known her for awhile. i guess you can say were kind've best friends as like girls go, but she was best friends with another girl before this. they were pretty good but the girl turned mean. during ms i was friends w/ her too. soo to make this less confusing, my friend will be named J and the other girl will be named A. ok soo me and J were friends, and J and A were best friendssss er whatever. soo i became friends with A too, and suddenly she juss turned mean. i guess she was never a true friend to J and i was er still am. so that was a problem. me and J are best friends now, i mean im her best friend & stuff. soo since like 7th grade she's been going back & forth. saying she hates A & then shes best friends with A again and now she hasnt been her friend for a few months. now theyre talking again & she invited me to hang out with her and A which was weird but i couldnt go anyway. what im asking is what i should do. i mean, A and J are gonna be friends & then A will make J mad & she'll come running back to me again on how she hates A like every other time. i like J & all but it's really starting to get annoying. if there's anyway to stay out've the drama let me know. i really can't talk to her about it, because i tried so many times. yet were friends & so are our parents & we do stuff together so it isn't like i cant be her friend. idk i dont want drama anymore.

thanks!!!!

explain this to her!!!!!

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is i am 5'4" and 109 lbs., how many carbs should i eat each day? ♥ thanx

i don't think anyone can tell you how many carbs to eat. it depends on your body & how fast you burn & stuff. the best thing would be to ask your doctor. try this site-

www.coolnurse.com

it gives you bmi charts & stuff. you might wanna try a few things.

1- sleep 9-10 hrs a nite. it really does help.
2- eat all 3 meals no matter what. try to eat something. it can be whatever you want, juss make sure it's smaller portions.
3- eat breakfast. you have to er you'll either gain weight, er stay the same weight, because if you don't eat breakfast your body will go into starvation mode & not burn off any calories.
4- eat every 3 hrs if possible. this is where it's tricky. you need to eat good foods like fruits, veggies, crackers, etc.
5- exercise. it doesn't have to be a lot. maybe some light walking, jogging, er running if you want, and 50 crunches er so.

here are some websites for muscles-
http://www.bodybuildingforyou.com/training-fitness/ab-exercise-workout.htm
http://www.virtualfitnesstrainer.com/articles/Butt_and_thigh_toning.htm

make sure you stay hydrated!!!!!!!!

-hope that helped!♥

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