Ok Me and My boyfriend broke up yesterday due to he liked another girl! It broke my heart, I was mad, and I could have pinched his head off. But now he acts like he likes me AGAIN! Like when I was sitting at lunch today with some girls he kept looking at me for long periods of time. He does that even when I pass him in the hall. And when he sees me on the bus he will look for me and when he sees me he will smile. So Whats going on???!?!? Signed Confused! (Smarty Pants will be reported.)
carissaxo311 answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 5:33 pm: i know exactley what your going through...my ex-boyfriend always does the SAME exact thing. Hes acting really immature and just doesnt know what he wants. Guys like that always are in between girls, breaking up with one and going to the next. Obviously hes not great boyfriend material if hes gonna keep doing this (believe me i finally realized my guy wasnt either) You just need to give him some space and let him make up his mind. Go out with other guys, get a new crush..dont feel like you have to wait for him to make up his mind, let him know theres a million other guys out there who want YOU and you cant just waste your time on him. Oh yeah, i did this exact thing and its working! Hell start to realize how dumb he was but just make sure not to give in, gibe him time to sweat it out; hes the one being immature here and if he wants to be immature it his loss! Just know its not you its him, guys just cant make up thier minds! hope this helps! <333 [ carissaxo311's advice column | Ask carissaxo311 A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 5:15 pm: Just a guess but he probably asked the other girl out and got turned down. Maybe not but, could be.
If you like him you take him back and forget about it. Maybe he has learned he didn't have it so bad as he thought. I think he definitely likes you.
I would get the story about what happened though. Because he could do it again if another girl starts looking good.
xomegaroni answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 5:00 pm: he definately likes you. i mean juss cus you guys broke up doesn't mean he didn't like you. he either likes her more er didn't want to be with you while liking someone else. juss ignore it if you can. if you're having problems ignoring it then juss tell him you don't appreciate him acting that way since you guys broke up & all.
irishgal000 answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 4:48 pm: I think he may have broke up w/ you to see if you liked him...its sounds weird....anyways just forget about him, if he can't make up his mind on one single thing then why is he even worth your time. If your a brave person I would tell him off but it is your choice wheither to do that. But I say if he broke your heart once..then don't let him do it again. That is my advice. [ irishgal000's advice column | Ask irishgal000 A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Tuesday October 25 2005, 4:41 pm: dont give him the time of day. if he didnt want to be with you anymore because there was someone else he wanted to be with more than you, then just forget about him. if he asks you out again, say no. i know its hard to forget about cause you liked him so much, but try to think about other things, and other guys. eventually, you'll get over it and realize he wasnt worth your time. good luck hun!
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